Guy called me fat?

[Anonymous]

He was telling me his friend likes my pictures and then Out of no where he called me fat lard. What’s this about. I have big boobs but I’m not really fat.

[SpurtsLove]

I would always try and better yourself but in the way you are comfortable with and to your benefit as your health is important. That applies to all of us. That said, "fat" is a relative term. People who label women fat, including the women themselves who have eating disorders see things in a very negative and unhealthy mindset in the opposite direction from being overweight. Truthfully, many women from the 80's would be considered "fat" now days but honestly, they were actually well nourished and balanced perfectly between not overweight nor underweight. If a girl has little to no fat percentage or lack of the appearance of some meat on her bones, she will suffer mentally (lack of brain nutrition) as well as her female side and menstrual cycle will not be correct. It can be very dangerous too.

All in all, just focus on what you know to be healthy and reject people who are nasty like this. Their version of reality is off and they don't deserve any of your time and tears!

[mrdrawesome_esquire]

I'm sure your body is fine.
Sometimes guys can be insecure like that. He could even be jealous or interested.
Our minds make us do some weird stuff. Hopefully you can just shrug it off now and know you are great!

[Asker]

I brought up his friend and I think this triggered him. I guess I messed up. I don’t like his friend sexually but he’s funny and I think he thinks I like him

[Anonymous]

It’s his opinion and he is entitled to it has harsh has this comment may sound.
Whether it’s a true opinion or not I wouldn’t listen to a word he says.
I wouldn’t want to befriend someone who publicly criticizes someone else’s appearance... it’s not my cup of tea.

[Sammy189]

Don’t mind him. If you like your body the way it is, that’s all that matters.

[HusamRocks]

Why would you care ! You know what you are and someone will value what you have someday

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

He is jealous of you , so this is why he called you that horrible name
I pray God forgives his Soul , Sorry this happened to you

[Asker]

I brought up his friend I guess I messed up. He told me I messed up and pissed him off. I don’t like his friend sexually I only think he’s funny. I think he thinks I like him I don't know

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes that's shame that is all i can say , makes you wonder why people act the way they do?

[FlyinHigh07]

It's an important step in life to accept criticism as you accept compliments :)

[bobdee]

He's a douche bag

[denislester]

Who cares what he said? Fuck him! Fat or not, be yourself and don't pay attention to such childish remarks 😉

[Anonymous]

Call his dick small