Guy can't stay hard?

[Anonymous]

The past 3 times we have tried to have sex, he goes soft. He says he gets nervous, what can I do to help? Is it nerves or another problem?

[Leavesbound]

ED does not just affect old men. There are a number of causes including nervousness or anxiety. He or you are probably trying too hard. He may also have a medical condition. Diabetes will interfere with erections. So will some other medical conditions. Try this. Play with his cock for a while. Tell him to relax and that you just want to play with it but he doesn't have to get hard if he doesn't want to. Just massage it and caress it and tickle it. If you like sucking it then put it in your mouth but tell him you DON'T want him to cum in your mouth but rather you just want to suck on it and you don't care if it is hard or not. Then just suck gently. Don't try to fuck it with your mouth or anything like that. Use your tongue a lot. If he gets hard let him know how happy you are he was able to get hard. Then offer to let him put it in you and remind him he doesn't have to cum but you'd like to feel it in you. Reassurance might be the key and take the pressure off. If he likes to look at a lot of porn then ban the porn. If he jerks off three times a day then ban jerking off. If nothing works then suggest he see a doctor. Viagra is your friend.

[Theo21]

It happens quiet often with men. if u do ur move he feels that it's necessarily to feel hard and this pressures him and makes him go soft because it's too much stress. just try but don't expect anything and don't push him for sex let him make the move

[Asker]

the sex is always his idea

[razelove]

Blindfold him.

[summiter]

It is most likely nerves. Does he stay hard when he jerks off? Maybe just stay with giving him some great handjobs (ask him to show you how he does it... guys are experts with their penis) Also try a lot more foreplay. get him hard via a handjob and/or bj and when he is close then try sex. How old is he? Is he a virgin?

[MrTuxedo]

If he gets nervous then that guy is most likely a virgin.
Advise him to get viagra.

[Asker]

He says he's not a virgin

[MrTuxedo]

Men tend to lie about that trust me. Or maybe if he really isn't, then he sucks at sex.

[exitseven]

A visit to a urologist would not be crazy talk at this point.

[Browneye57]

Likely he jerks off to porn too much. That will really fuck you up.

[ashish804]

it may be he is really nervous of u.. U can seduce him and try sucking him to make him hard

[PolySircumstance]

He may not be turned on by you anymore. Try spicing it up.

[kellytheman]

It's probably a medical problem like erectial dysfunction. Also maybe he need a boost from a pill like Viagra. He might be nervous but everyone is sometimes nervous having sex.

[Whtevernever]

Just have sex with me instead. 😂

[geola]

Tell him to stop watching porn for a month, eat more eggs, take vitamin D and Zinc

[Anonymous]

Try oral first and see, it probably is anxiety

[Anonymous]

Whatever the reason maybe, he must be very embarassed to talk about it. Get him comfortable to talk about it with you.

Also even if it's sometimes hard to sustain erections, that's fine cuz a little bit of ay will bring it back up as far as I'm aware.
Even with a lot of women that I've been with, they don't stay aroused throughout the session, there needs to be some additional play to get them aroused again. It's the same thing with men.

But whatever the reason for less erection might be, just remember there's a solution for literally everything now.
Just tell him to not be concious about it and encourage continuing sexual activity even without the erection. Tell him you still appreciate him without an erection. That would help a lot