I've told this story here before.
In high school, as a junior, I was at a house party attended largely by people in the school band, their girlfriends or boyfriends, and a few others - those were my main circle of friends and we spent lots of time around each other. I was sitting on a couch talking to a group of friends about something and a girl sits next to me and starts poking me in the ribs to give her attention. I mostly ignored the first couple of pokes, but she kept going, and so I told her to stop. Of course, she did it again, and again, I told her to stop. She did it again, and so I said "do that again and I'm going to pull you over my lap and spank the shit out of you." No one was more surprised than me to hear these words come out of my mouth - but I'd said them in front of everyone, and it was out of character for me, and so of course, everyone who'd heard me say it says "oooooooo."
Of course, she pokes me again, and I immediately realize that if I don't follow through, I'll lose all respect, so I grabbed her by her hair, pulled her over my lap, and I spanked her ass good and hard about 20 times. Then, I expected one of the girls to complain and call me an abuser or whatever - but no one said a word, and soon things returned to normal and I assumed it was forgotten.
The next party rolls around a week or two later, and a different girl says something snarky, and so I gave her a sarcastic reply, and she says "oh, you gonna spank me too?" "I sure will." I was naïve enough not to realize she WANTED to be spanked, and she escalated things very quickly and 30 seconds later she was over my knee too. Later at that party, it was another girl.
After that, it became a "thing" - girls wanted to be spanked and I would spank them. I had boyfriends asking me to spank their girlfriends, who were too shy to ask themselves, and I had single girls literally stand in line for their turn.
I've been spanking girls ever since then. I've taken shifts at the spanking booth at the Folsom Street Fair a few times, and I usually bring my spanking chair to BDSM parties. Sometimes a girl I just spanked will go straight to the back of the line to wait for another turn...0 0 0 0
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A playful tap on her butt is okay, and I sometimes do that, when we're having sex or not.
Spanning to the point where it reddens the butt and is painful is, INHO, not appropriate, and I never do that.
My SO also playfully spanks me sometimes.0 0 0 0
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0 15I could not spank my girlfriend if she begged for it.
0 0 0 0It great depends on what she likes, how she likes it and how roughly, hard etc.
from simple slap, to paddle, riding crop or cane.
simply red and warm, red hot, red welts, bruised etc.0 0 0 0No unless she askes me to do it.
0 0 0 0I like that she lets me do it. She likes it too.
0 0 0 0This type of stuff does nothing for me.
0 0 0 0Only in a playful manner and no rough stuff.
0 1 0 0I like spanking her
0 0 0 0She wants me to, so I like to do it because it gets her even more sexually exicited.
0 0 0 0Love giving a light spanking while playing with her clit or bending her over and playing with her anus. but love to spank her pussy gently too
0 0 0 0Yes I like
0 0 0 0Only occasionally and consensually
0 0 0 0If it turns her on, i can go for it
0 0 0 0I haven't done so before but if it's consensual and legal, I'll try anything once
0 0 0 0If she likes it then it makes me horny :)
0 0 0 0Sure if she likes it, I think watching their butt jiggle is nice
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