Guy finishes quickly, but recovers quickly. Is that good?

Hey guys!

So I had my first one night stand w/ a guy last night. We actually met at a club (last month) and traded numbers. He's slow at texting and kinda seemed indifferent, so I figured that he wasn't interested. But I asked him out anyways, and he said yes.

We met at the bar, and we talked for a long time. After, we headed to his apartment. Things got heated-- clothes flew off and his penis flew in. The sex overall was really good. The only thing was that he came super fast (within 2 minutes) the first time. He recovered within 3 minutes for round #2 and finished in 5 minutes. He rolled over and apologized-- told me that I was really tight and that I had an amazing body. I told him it was okay, and he flew in for a round 3. After, we cuddled a bit before rolling away to our own sides. And in the morning, we had a round 4 (he still came too fast).

In summary, the sex felt really good-- only thing is that he finishes too quickly but he seems to recover quickly. Is that a good thing?


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Most Helpful Girls

  • I may be wrong but he's most likely just really into you and easily turned on. Believe it or not but it's actually normal, some people just don't like to talk about it for whatever reason. But if your both into each other I'd say it's a good thing. A handful of girls become sexually insecure about how long it takes for a guy to finish but it's usually because it takes forever not because its too quick. Hope this helped! Good luck

    • Seriously this... if you take too long to cum as a guy it's a problem. Cum too quick it's a problem. If she cums quick that's great and if she takes forever we should understand...

    • @Paultripp7221 but no?

  • Not my favorite way to go but sounds like you had fun so who else matters. I am a little concerned (sleeved out) there was no mention of condoms though, four loads in you? 😳

    • *skeeved..

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well i guess it can be all lumped in one. some guys can go long and are totally spent after... but if a guy keeps finishing too early but can hop back on damn near immediately.. it could still be classified as him taking a long time as well...
    look on the bright side, you get breathing time in between lol... recess.
    Its better that having that pussy pounded for an hour and a half straight... thats not for everyone.

  • so for me i last usually 20-30 min each time, but say for some reason i didn't have sex or like jerk off for like a week or two i would cum in 5 min ngl lol its just cuz ur a bit more sensitive and like "backed up" i guess u'd call it. but for me when i do i just start eating her out to keep going and im ready again in about 5 minutes and then i can last 20 min again. ur guy seems like he has PE and just recovers quick.

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  • As long as you are happy with the sex it's fine, if you want it to be continuous have him eat you out while he recovers.

    • He might have also had his first time having sex as well. Anyways always put on new condoms after he finishes

  • Yea, I have a similar problem, only after the first time, I pretty much last forever. Like even if I cum again I usually keep going lmao

    I always wondered what girls thought of that. Surprised to see a girl asking this

  • I'm pretty much the opposite so I have no idea, I would suggest that if you found it to be a good experience then it's fine.

  • Maybe it was his first time. Even if not, some guys just don't last that long. It's great that he's able to get ready to keep going quite quickly, which is what I feel matters the most in this situation. Hopefully he simulated you while he was recovering though haha

  • Good for you.

    Avoid too much foreplay. Like, I hooked up with a girl and we grinded, then she was rubbing me, then she went down on me for a bit... I did not last neeeaarly as long as I would have if she did not do that.

  • I guess its gpod if you enjoyed it.
    maybe if he lasts a little longer each time or eats you out you'll be great

  • Lol no that's not a good thing

  • i would dump any guy that unloaded in less than a half hour in me. but if you enjoy multiple very short love sessions is your choice.

    • Yeah, I kinda have the same problem as you have. Have you found a way to avoid chafing from comdoms when it lasts too long?

    • i am very wet so never a problem. for anal i use k-y jelly

    • National average for male orgasm is 6-8 minutes. If you think it's only good at 30 min then you are in for a sex world of disappointment...

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  • you tell me. are you happy with it

  • Sure why not lol

  • Tell him to practice by masturbating

  • i last about 5-10 minutes but recover in 2-5 mins

  • He'd be perfect for sperm banks though

  • I hope it is. I have only ever recovered quickly between rounds 1 &2

  • I never want to have sex four times in 24 hours maybe in a week but even this is to much for me

  • that's pretty good I guess

  • honestly its all up to you. And if you feel this will bother you in the long run then tell him

  • It can be only in one situation; if you are so hot and sexy!!

  • Yeah.. quick recoveries are good.

  • yes it is

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