We are very close like brothers and sisters but he is too open and transparent about everything including his previous sex life and where they did it. He also explained why he prefer to do it in that place lol. I sometimes hide my being uncomfortable about the topic but how do i get used to this? And why can't he filter his words lol.
It is understandable to feel uncomfortable when a friend shares intimate details about their sex life. It is important to communicate your feelings and boundaries with your friend, and to let him know that you are not comfortable discussing certain topics.
You could try saying something like, "I appreciate that you feel comfortable sharing with me, but I'm not really comfortable talking about sex or intimate details. Can we talk about something else?" By setting clear boundaries and communicating your needs, you may be able to establish a more comfortable and respectful dynamic in your friendship.
It is also possible that your friend may not be aware of how his openness is affecting you. You could try having an open and honest conversation with him about your feelings and concerns, and see if he is willing to listen and adjust his behavior.
Ultimately, it is important to prioritize your own comfort and well-being in your friendships, and to communicate openly and honestly with your friends about your needs and boundaries.
Oh this is an easy fix. You just need to tell your guy friend he needs to tone it down. DON'T hide being uncomfortable. He doesn't want to make you uncomfortable. He is unaware that he is doing so.
If you're close, there should be no hesitation to tell the guy you don't want to hear details or whatever else makes you uncomfortable.
I've always had a lot of female close friends. I'm really sure I'm not an oversharer. But If I was making my friend uncomfortable, I'd want to know. And I wouldn't think it should be a hard thing for her to say to me. After all... we're close.
Just be honest about how you feel about this. Tell him what you're cool with, and what you aren't. He'll be happy to work with you... because again... he really doesn't want to be making you feel uncomfortable. 🙂
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He is just a guy who is very open , you either have to tell him directly black/ white that you are not comfortable with these discussions , or you have to get used to it , I know people like this , my choice would be to tell him.
Open minded and non hesitant
If you don't want to hear about it, tell him.
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