Guy friend overheard me masturbating in my room, now he avoids me, why?

[Anonymous]

Did he just get weirded out by me, or what?

[vampireelf]

Maybe he is just turned on by it and dont know how to handle it. I once had a female friend and for some weeks she was my roommate. She showed me her vibrator and just told me that she is going to masturbate now. I was soo turned on! Each time i saw her, i pictured her cumming. I can't count how often i masturbated just thinking of that day :P

Male friends always feel a sexual connection to their female friends. And their masturbation has some kind of magical power over these guys.

I bet he masturbates thinking of you very often now :D

[Asker]

Well I wish he wasn’t avoiding me because now I feel like he hates me

[vampireelf]

Just give him some time to jerk off a lot 😋 Im pretty sure you gave him an experiance that he won't forget for the rest of his life

[zollo]

So interesting! Did you think about her in that way before? were you able to stay friends with her, and if so was it still always a little weird or did that memory kind of fade?

[vampireelf]

@zollo i had sexual fantasies of her before that. Honestly i have sexual fantasies of all my female friends ;) i think all guys have. But she had some very special sexual attraction to me. But when she just masturbated in the room next to me, even trlling me about it, made this kind of real. Its wasn't just a fantasy, her sexuality became reality. And female masturbation is just sooo fascinating! We dont have contact anymore. That sexual fascination made me do really stupid things. She had some strange power over me. But even after 8 years, i still jerk off sometimes, thinking of her masturbating 😋

[zollo]

@vampireelf Wait you think all guys fantasize about their female friends? Doesn't that make it weird? Also does that mean you don't think that guys and girls can have a platonic friends only relationship or do you think that sexual tension is always there? Also what if their more of a tomboy, like one of the guys? And what if their ugly, doesn't that kind of just exclude them out of a fantasy?

[vampireelf]

@zollo there is always a sexual tension, but it can still be a platonic friendship. I have sexual fantasies of all female friends, and i got many friends. There are no ugly girls and the more i like a girl, the more attractive she gets to me. And Tomboys are great, they are really unique and create some special fantasies 😋 a very good female friend of me knows how much i like her sexually, and she totally enjoys that. There has never been a sexual moment in our friendship, but we are aware of the sexual tension

[zollo]

@vampireelf "There are no ugly girls" My dude, there are some hella ugly girls out there. That's really sweet of you to say but i'm talkin' old, long deflated balloon titties, chain smoking, loose pussy, trailer trash hoes type of girls. Like the type of girl that if you see her walking up to your car at night you can't tell if she's 25 or 55.

[Ben228]

He maybe afraid that you would be mad at him for overhearing you. But there is probably a lot of truth in what the others are saying, that he is embarrassed & doesn't know how to respond because he would probably be too easily aroused. Not exactly a comfortable situation.

But don't worry, & if need be make the effort to talk with him.

[Ben228]

Thanks for the MHO

[SnowFoxy1]

Probably. He might've been turned on and now feels awkward. Sort it out with him.

[Billie_]

Ouch. You should try talk to him about it.

[FirmlyAboveAverage]

If he's shy it might have made the relationship awkward although I don't see why it would

[Nonbinary]

Well now he prob sees you as sexual now and is most likely having sexual thoughts about you now, which might be weirding him a bit since that was not the relationship you had as friend. You gotta release that tension some how

[genericname85]

lol ask him, not us. if you can't communicate those things, learning to do so should be your top priority right now.

[FýrdracaDócincel]

Probably thought it was hot and doesn't know where to go from here.

[Senacık]

Does it satisfy you?

[vald9inches]

He probably can't make his huge boner go away lol

[Hawky_]

Embarrassed probably... then had a wank himself and now can't look you in the eye...

[Valnac]

I think you should go to him, ask if he heard you masturbating, tell him you were thinking of him, grab his hand and put it between your legs. Let him touch you.

[CT_CD]

It's not ladylike

[Asker]

Really?

[CT_CD]

Yeah

[Asker]

I disagree