This is a problem with women, you think all of us men can keep an erection up 24/7 just because a few teenage perverts with too much testosterone can. Maybe when I was 14 I could have done that, but I'm 26 now, and I'm willing to bet most men past their mid twenties lose erections like that. Like a lot of other users said, nervousness is probably the main reason. Being tired, or drunk, can also make it harder. Women need to let men decide when to have sex in my opinion, because we're the ones that have to keep an erection. If you're not in the mood, you can still lay there and take it. But we HAVE to be in the mood just to get it in.
0 1 0 2Very true. Birth control however leaves me as dry as the Sahara after sex for a couple of minutes unless I'm really turned on :/
A tight sexy Asian girl mmmmm we'll the thought of that and I'm hard thinking about it (not meaning to gross u out) just making a point. I have only 2 things to say, either he is so excited and just couldn't believe his luck he didn't want to fail and put to much pressure in himself to perform and that caused nerves to kick in and went soft, or the guy is gay! Sorry
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0 8Happens all the time. Don't worry about it- he's probably just nervous. The first time is always awkward.
Also, if he was drinking, that can cause it too. Go at it sober.
Best thing you can do now if you're interested in pursuing the relationship is to not worry about it. Show him you're into him and you're excited for round two.0 1 0 0It happens to most guys. Happen to me before and it sucked cause I was looking forward to it but got too drunk and got nervous when he "my penis" started acting soft. Lol this happened to me with a couple girls but I get rock hard the next times she let me hit
0 1 0 0its normal man, when you take of the stimulation its like a ticking time bomb it straight away goes down just for some guys it goes down slower or faster than others.
0 1 0 0The Melty Man!!
NOOOOOOOOOOO!
LOL!
Happens to any guy that gets nervous and starts thinking "how awful would it be if I lost my erection".
We call it "over thinking it."0 0 0 0this is a common thing? i've had the same thing happen to me as this chick
It's more common than guys like to admit. The BBC sitcom Coupling did an awesomely funny episode about the melty man. Happened to me my first time. I was embarrassed as fuck until she fixed my problem with a BJ. Game on!
oh my xD yeah he was pretty embarrassed and was saying "I know you're judging me!" but instead I said it's happened before (which it has but the guy was just hot or on drugs, yah whatever bad i know). jus tryna be mature about it you know. if anything i'm the one who felt shitty even tho i knew it wasn't me cos i was really looking forward to the sex, he was really big :(
Flat tires can happen.
If the guy is tired, drunk, high, nervous or distracted, he can lose it.
Don't take it personally.
Sex is a complex series of events, and all cylinders have to be working.0 1 0 0
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