Guy is always out of breath from sex?

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The guy I’ve been seeing gets out of breath super quickly into sex. He’s always mentioning it and seems like he wants me to take over a lot of the time. He is not out of shape or obese. I’ve never had a guy complain about being out of breath before. It’s like this every time. He gets tired of thrusting and when I’m on top it seems like I don’t match his desired speed 😕 this makes things really awkward!!

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summiter Master
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Kinda weird. Slow down the sex. He does not have to jackhammer away like he probably sees in porn videos. Try more foreplay and get him close to an orgasm before actual sex.
Get him close with a handjob first...
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- Asker
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  He seems to be all about moving fast. Like when I’m on top he’s excited at first but then he’s like not that into it, and when I rock my hips while sitting on him he doesn’t really get anything from it. My ex was always mind blown when I’d rock my hips while sitting with him inside. This guy doesn’t seem as interested.
- summiter
  +1 y
  Kinda weird. I love the slower rocking when having sex. It gives me incredible orgasms.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah, like I’ve heard of this before so I’m so confused. Like usually go into some hip rocking, then back to like a bounce on top and then to hip rocking some more
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- summiter
  +1 y
  Maybe it is time to move on if it does not improve?
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah I have been trying to mutually break ties because it feels like neither of us are getting what we expect. However he seems to not want that either. So I am confused. He’s avoiding whatever his issue is and we spoke about sex the other night, yet he didn’t really want to say much but he was the one who brought it up that he found it not so satisfying the last time. I don’t see a reason to continue.

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FilmGuy93 Master
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Is your guy circumcised? A lot of women complain that circumcised men are rougher in bed because of the decreased sensitivity after the foreskin is removed.
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- Asker
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  He is not circumcised

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shushhhhh Xper 5
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Could he have asthma?
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- Asker
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  He says no but I’m wondering
K-I-S-S Xper 7
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Medical condition or not as fit as he may seem.

Should get it checked out.
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- Asker
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  Really? Like what type of medical condition
- K-I-S-S
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  Undiagnosed heart disease or hindered bloodflow. Or low red bloodcell count, anemia etc. For more common issues. Most likely just out of shape.
s2firestar Yoda
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Asthma, maybe?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I’m starting to wonder that too!!
- s2firestar
  +1 y
  You need to make him go to the doctor - if he is not overweight, which could be another reason, this is actually a serious issue.
- Asker
  +1 y
  That sounds pretty intense though. It kinda just feels like he is lazy
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- s2firestar
  +1 y
  How so? What other things did you notice?
- Asker
  +1 y
  He’s really tall and pretty thin, not too thin but also not overweight. He gets worn out within 5 minutes and has to catch his breath but also seems like he doesn’t want to do all the work but doesn’t like my speed of things.
- s2firestar
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  Oh... well, maybe it is his endurance then. But make him go to the doctor.
In_Trance Master
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what are you asking here?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Haha I guess my question sounds as confused as I am. I’m just unsure why he could be out of breath and what I should do to solve this? Like I take over for sure but when I do it’s like not to his speed but then he’s like losing his breath fucking me. I’m so confused and it makes sex awkward a bit.
- In_Trance
  +1 y
  It's not uncommon. People often underestimate how physically demanding it really is. What can you do to solve it? A blow job is the answer. He needs to work on his core strength for sure.
- Asker
  +1 y
  Lmao I do that! It just feels like he’s always passing the torch off to me
Seppel Yoda
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Isn't it normal?
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Yes but I’m talking about we have sex and like 5 minutes in he stops and is complaining about being out of breath
- Seppel
  +1 y
  Ok sounds like he is not into sports
- Asker
  +1 y
  I mean I guess haha 😆
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- Seppel
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  Hahahaha
bclbn77006 Xper 6
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sex is indeed tiring for a guy.
so, its normal.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  I’ve never really thought of it this way!! How can I make sex good and not let him be so tired out?
Anonymous
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Tell him to go to a doctor
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Lmao why!!
- Opinion Owner
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  It can be a medical issue.
Anonymous
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No stamina I guess, maybe he needs to start doing cardio
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- Asker
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  Doesn’t seem like he would have a cardio issue that’s why I’m confused!!