Guy no longer wants sex, but still wants to see me everyday?

What does this mean when he says he no longer wants to have sex, but still makes plans with me? Its confusing.
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To be fair, he was seeing another girl but she lives miles away and they barely ever had sex 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️ and not many girls are interested in him, cos he's not very good looking
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  • When you say he says he "no longer wants to have sex" I think most people are assuming you two were having sex and then he wants to stop. If that's the case, maybe you're a bad root, maybe he's gay, maybe he found someone else but wants to be friends. But if you weren't already sleeping with him, his saying that could simply be a lie so that hopefully you can still be friends, or maybe he wants you to let your guard down or literally anything else I didn't think of.

    I hate these kind of questions because it's like you expect us to not only be able to read the mind of the person you're talking about but we also need to fill in the blanks because you didn't give us all the necessary information. 😬 Best way to find out the truth is to hook him up to a lie detector and ask him.

  • It probably has nothing to do with how good your sex is. It has to do with his moral conscience and his feelings for the other girl. In other words, having sex with you makes him feel guilty.

    That recently happened to me. I was in a friends with benefits and I really started to fall for a girl I started dating. The girl I started dating and I had never had sex. I only had sex with the friends with benefits. But when it seemed like sex with going to happen soon. I broke things off because emotionally I felt like I was cheating even though there was no relationship.

    • Did you still want to spend time with the friends with benefits?

    • @VIVANT Yes. as a man I prefer to have multiple options and get sex because women are really turned off if you are desperate and obsessed with them. So this moderates me until i am serious with the girl I really like or if she says she wants a relationship. But if I am in a relationship I am zoned in and only focused on that girl.

    • Whatever works for you 😊 though I personally don’t see guys as desperate if they don’t sleep around. But That is me. And I support you doing whatever you see fit. I’m assuming it’s all above board? 😊 But What I meant was, if you get to a point where you decide don’t want sex anymore with a friends with benefits , do you still want to spend time with her. Bc in this particular case, she is not asking what it means if he no longer wants sex She is asking what it means that he no longer wants sex, Sex but wants to still spend time together. That is why I’m asking you if you still want to spend time with a friends with benefits you are no longer sharing benefits with 😊

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  • Maybe he just wants you as a friend

  • Pungent sniz?

    • 😂😂😂

  • Sounds like you're friendzoned.. It's bizarre

  • Maybe he is not confident enough and thinks he can't make you happy or fulfill your desires that's why he wants to stop, no matter how many times you told him you're happy with it he won't believe unless you ask for it yourself.

  • He may just like you for you

  • Maybe he is tired of just seeing you for sex, maybe he wants to finally give you the impression that he has feelings for you could be romantic feelings hard to say?

  • He trying to get serious

  • He is falling in love with you

  • Probably he’s being nice and doesn’t see a future with you and is letting you down easy?

  • Reverse psychology.

  • Meaby he wants to be friends with u dunno?

  • He looks more to you as a friend than as a friend with benefits. But if you still want sex with him, you best tell him that.

    Guys are usually really damn bad at receiving signals.

  • He only likes you as a friend

  • Probably has some emotional needs that outweigh his physical needs

  • friendzoned

  • You got pumped N dumped. Maybe ask him if he’s up for a blow N go.

  • why you fucking him if he isn't hot?

  • Huh? You.. mean he... made a choice of his own? Like he's an individual being, not dependent on a woman's habits? Weird...

  • Sounds like you pieced it together. Tell him you are quarantined starved for cock

  • Get to know th guy u sexing with... sex isn't everything... value yrself and be true to yrself ok

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