Guy put my hand on his penis (above pants) without my consent?

Question

would you find this disrespectful?

Danish87 · Accepted Answer

It depends how your relationship is with him. Maybe he looking you as sexual partner and has that comfort with you to do so.
Also how you felt? Whether you like to have physical with him. If no than you should straight away tell him not to do such.

Wade8888 · Accepted Answer

Well, dump this guy, because if he's not going to respect "No" now then he won't respect "No" later. "No" just once means "No", and "no" a second time means "Get the fuck away from me, Creep."

IveGotNoName · Accepted Answer

Very inappropriate. You should talk to him and explain to him that it felt uncomfortable (if it did) and tell him that this behavior is not tolerated.

spartan55 · Answer

Ya think?

integrale77 · Answer

Sounds like he was being presumptuous about the situation as you said you where kissing.
I suspect even though you expressed a disinterested in touching hi he thought he was getting the right signs from you and decided to gamble but failed.

Avicenna · Answer

Yes, and it’s sexual assault

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Yeah. Very.

josephinelcajon · Answer

I always give the benefit of doubt. was he holding your hand in his lap?

bowenw · Answer

If you were making out and you were both getting turned on it probably can't be considered disrespectful. If a guy you've never had sex with did it out of the blue, that would be disrespectful.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

He committed a Sexual Act without your consent so that is wrong and is classified as Sexual Assault on you

Not_Average · Answer

Sounds wildly inappropriate if you didn’t want it.

chriscdi · Answer

indeed

middleagedwoman · Answer

tell him not t to do it agaiun.. but did u like it?

Skankhunt · Answer

Yes very

Wiredone · Answer

If he asked you and you said no then yes he was being disrespectful and that's sexual harrassment

okeydoke · Answer

Super disrespectful.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, that was very stupid.

crmoore · Answer

Depending on the social ques leading up to it, yes, it can be disrespectful and wrong. I have a feeling, based on how you're wording this question, he should not have done it.