Guy says im immature?

Guy I'm talking to told me I'm immature because I love having sex and sexual things. He said I'm using him for sex? I love him actually and I'm confused because he seems very addicted to it like me. Why is he saying this? He said all I talk about is sex and that's not true.

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He said I don't act like an adult
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  • Oh boy a lot to unpack here.
    It can be a characteristic of a younger woman to have a high sex drive or sexual imagination. But that is in no way unique to only younger people. Though being older normally comes with the idea of "time and place". If the things you're saying come of as "inappropriate timing" then it's easier to say that it would sound like a 19 or 20 something girl would say. Now that's addressing y he MIGHT think you should imature when taking about sex.

    When taking about how you think he is addicted to it too. I struggle with a similar situation. If he actually has an addiction or even thinks he might. He might see sex or over doing sex as a negative thing. Essentially he's over correcting himself. He wants it but he knows it's bad to have it and that's translating over to you. Kind of like how an alcoholic can't have just one bear. If he's got it in his head that he shouldn't give in and sex is bad... then you wanting to be sexual might be putting him in a really awkward position. And not knowing how to handle that is easy to blame you for being the one who brought it up.

    I don't know if that's the reason but it's how I relate to the story.

    Lastly there is absolutely nothing wrong with acting childish or wanting what you want. If your able to function as an adult and take care of your responsibilities then there nothing wrong with wanting to be young and silly

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  • I’m assuming he thinks you’re too easy and is pissed off about it. If he’s gonna complain I’d love to have fun and have sex with you if you really enjoy it

    • He has brought up marrying me and I want that lol. He said I don't act like an adult.

    • He wants you to be a good little girl and not a cute little freak. You decide whether you think that’s worth it. I’d talk to him about it if you think he’s unreasonable but if you enjoy the puritan image then you can listen to him

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  • he is problematic

  • Why don’t you get married

    • He has brought up marrying me actually

    • Awesome do it