I thought about this one hard for ya. What he’s doing is fine. He’s asking you to get tested with him. Hopefully you are on birth control? If you aren’t that’s a no deal.
Placing myself in your shoes, I wouldn’t let someone stick their bare dick in me even if we both got tested and came back negative because we have only gone on 4 dates. You’ve known this guy for how long.. a month?
It sounds like he is being responsible, but I personally wouldn’t be able to put that much trust into someone only knowing them for a very short time. Can you?
Yes 100%
it’s not just about being tested, it’s also about trust.
how do you know if you are not just another woman?
Only when you have that trust in place and you yourself are happy should you even consider it.
It’s not necessarily a red flag. A lot of guys don’t like condoms but don’t do anything you aren’t comfortable with.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Condoms suck. You can't feel skin sliding against skin, and the guy can't feel your juice. I sometimes used the analogy of wearing surgical gloves while petting a soft, furry kitten. What would you feel?
So I don't blame the guy. I think his suggestion that the two of you going down to get tested for STDs is wise and considerate. Beyond that, you need to be on the pill or some other form of birth control. Then the two of you can engage if fully enjoyable sex.
Huge red flag if that's something he insists and doesn't want to respect your wishes of wearing a condom. Like you seriously can't rely on the pullout method. Not just stds but pregnancy as well.
the fact that he wants to get tested is good though. but if you don't feel comfortable having it raw, then don't.
Definitely.
The fact he mentioned testing means its not a red flag.
Hell yes that’s a red flag! Unless and until you are confident that he sees you as more than just a pussy to f**k, he needs to wear one-in my opinion.
I don't know. Depending why and if you are good. I hate condoms too. If I dated you I’d probably ask the same if we were exclusive.
Thats kind of fast and abrupt.
I mean you been on four dates so if he had gotten any infection from you, it would be to late anyway. As for hating condoms he's lying, he just wants to come inside of ya so its up to you
Why does he want to cum inside of me?
because it feels good
Not really. Most guys don't really like condoms
Big Time Red Flag
Yes I think so
Not a red flag. He just wants to stay safe.
Don't listen to him unless you are planning to have a relationship with him
Or he will knock you up and get disappeared
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