Guy, what are your thoughts on squirting?

I personally find it disgusting and yet I am not at a point where I can always control it. I get so embarrassed every time I do this.

My fiancé is so sweet and tries his hardest to make me feel comfortable, which helps a lot, but I still hate that it happens. At the beginning I used to fake it so that I wouldn’t make a mess but when he found out he was really upset so I don’t fake it anymore. Now that I don’t, our sex life is incredible but the second it’s time for clean up the embarrassment washes over me.

I know he loves me and that he wouldn’t have proposed if this was a big issue for him but I am curious if most men would be willing to put up with this? Or is he just able to deal with it because he loves me? How much of a turn off is this for you?

0 3

Superb Opinion

  • "Squirting", whether it is vaginal mucus, urine or peri-urethral fluid (or any combination) is an integral part of sexuality. There is no reason to find it disgusting. It is in no way harmful to the squirter or the recipient. It is not repugnant in scent, taste or any other sense. I have found it to most likely to occur during cunnilingus but also during other sexual relations as well, including PIV and fingering. Any man who really likes sexuality should have no problem with it. For those concerned with clean-up, l large beach towel on the bed or floor mitigates that matter.

    If it is not an issue to your guy (it isn't to me) it isn't an issue for you either.

Most Helpful Guy

  • I wouldn't care. I have been intimate with my wife on her period. I am sure you can guess what color things were. She was embarrassed I didn't and still don't care. It happens never be ashamed of how your body reacts. That is what I told her and now I am telling you.

Most Helpful Girl

  • For some odd reason a lot of men love it (guess they think it's an ego boost) when in reality no offense to you its just the girl peeing during sex. So the dude didn't cause it like they think

    • Its actually not peeing, its excretion of fluid from the skene's gland, which is the female version of the prostate. If you think its just peeing, then you've never had an actual full orgasm before (or rejected it as abnormal when you did). And its not about an ego boost, we are just hardwired to feel empathy for pleasure and have it directly effect our arousal level, so a woman feeling pleasure is hot, and actual squirting has women writhing in extacy, so its a peak for that. Its why so many guys get boners seeing girls make an orgasm face, its basically our dick choosing for us, no thought involved, let alone egotistical thoughts.

    • @TheSpaceGnome no no. It's pee. Watery pee

    • No it isn't, you were just peeing and mistaking it for squirting.

    • Show All

Scroll Down to Read Other Opinions

What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!

What Girls & Guys Said

0 17
  • What SANE MAN ON HERE would say that doesn`t like it? huh? i want to see it? What man is not over the moon, when he KNOWS THAT HE CAUSED THAT PLEASURE, that That woman feels in heaven, and she just LET HERSELF GO? :)

    • @dannyuk2017 🤌🏽🙌🏼👆🏽 what he said!!

  • Put up with it? Deal with it? Turn off? 😂😂😂😂Uptight vanilla guys must be your type.

  • When my cat got on the counter top to get into food, I would use my water bottle from Home Depot, to squirt water in his direction... so I am in favor of squirting! 👀👀🤷‍♂️🤔

    Oh... wait... I don't think that is what you meant? ...😁😁😁😁

  • I don't love the idea of my girlfriend squirting, but if that was how she orgasmed I'd still try to make her squirt as often and hard as we can. I don't mind it lol even if I don't love it

    Bottom line, don't worry about it :) he loves you and wants you to be able to orgasm (even if you view it as messy 😉)

  • It's a big turn on and rarely does a guy find anything disgusting about a woman during sex

  • i am impressed when I can get somebody to squirt.

  • I've never seen it in real life, but it wouldn't be a turn off. I'd prefer that she is fully enjoying herself rather than worrying about feeling embarrassed if it happens.

    • It's quite a phenomenon.

  • Squirting is hot, its peeing thats gross, and yes, there is a difference.

  • It does not bother me.. it is a bodily function.. just enjoy the orgasms!

  • I squirt sometimes. I'm not grossed out by it, but I don't like it because it's messy.

  • Turn on

  • It's pee. I don't wish to be peed on.

    • Wrong. You are misinformed sir.

    • @spartan55 it comes from the bladder and is chemically identical to urine. You do the math, sport.

    • Sure thing sport. 🖕

    • Show All
  • Huge turn on for me

  • Squirting is normal. It happens when your body receives maximum pleasure

  • Never experienced it but I am turned on by it in porn

  • good show for sure. i love them.

  • I wish I could make a woman squirt but my manhood is actually prepubescent so I’m a boy and I can’t not cum uncontrollable