Guys, are all vaginas the same to you or is there one special vagina close to your heart?

I still don’t understand the male brain. Since as a woman I see all men as horn dogs. That they could easily sleep with 1000 women and not feel any attachment towards the women they slept with. But it takes a special kind of woman to capture a man heart. Which is 00.1%.

Guys, are all vaginas the same to you or is there one special vagina close to your heart?
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  • Every vagina is fantastic to be in for starters. Some feel tighter and others looser. Tight is good but it seems to me how aroused the girl is the major factor. That is it can start out firm and by the end feel loose. Not a problem because a/ you can take some male pride in what you have done - so its a compliment really and b/ adopt a different technique to get appropriate sensations for yourself.

    There is quite a bit of difference in the spasms of orgasm. Sometimes there is a barely perceptible twitch you can hardly feel. Other times it is very pronounced. Again this is going to depend on how aroused the girl is but I do think there is maybe a systemic difference between girls. There was this one girl who positively clamped my penis in her vagina. It went on for a considerable while to the degree I thought 'I could do with a magazine'. I felt it let go and she said "I've finished now". She might have been stooging me but there was no moaning so I don't think it was fake. That was one vagina I very much wanted to explore further but sadly I never got another go.

    At the end of the day all vaginas are great and it will be the girl that is close to our heart not her vagina. Except possibly that one vagina I have just mentioned.

  • Just like the fact that no two penises are the same, neither are any two vaginas.

    Vulvas all look different, but that is almost never a turn off unless we are talking about unhealthiness, uncleanliness or grooming.

    There can be a difference between how vaginas feel. Some sphincters are tighter or more muscular and can grip hard. Some vaginal canals have smoother walls and some have noticeable texture. Some vaginas are shallower.

    Some vaginas are juicier. Some are more erogenous and responsive.

    But it's not a woman's vagina that men fall in love with. It's the woman - her overall looks, mannerisms, and personality.

    If she looks great, is responsive and orgasmic during sex, he'll love fucking her. It's not even about how her pussy looks or feels. It's about her overall sensuality, eagerness and enthusiasm.
    But that's not enough to stay with her. To fall in love with her, he needs to adore and respect her as a person and be adored and respected in return.

    Unfortunately, some guys are only interested in using women. They'll pump and dump. It sounds like that's what you have run into.

    • Thanks for the MHO. I hope you find a guy who loves you for who you are. Not all guys are shallow jerks.

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  • They're all different to me. There was one girl I dated a short time, and when we had sex, she had a vagina like no other one i ever had. She was very tight, but I had tight girls before, so that wasn't exactly it.

    The first time I had sex with her, when I was inside her, I could feel her vagina gripping me, milking me. After being inside her for 5 minutes, she came and my dick slid further into her, soaking me.

    I had never experienced anything like this before. When I came, I could feel her vagina milking me. I came for almost 2 minutes. It was the most powerful orgasm I ever had. I can't explain why this one was so different. I've never had another one like that.

  • Your question is mainly about attachment to women we sleep with.

    In fact, I need some emotional connection first, before having sex with a woman. We should be at a point where we have sex only with each other, not with others, while the relationship lasts. I can get attached rather quickly when having sex, so I need to clarify this first.

    Fortunately, all the women I've known were fine with exclusivity and were also in it with their hearts.

    Now about the preferred vagina, that would always be the one of the current partner, of course. There are differences, but they can be equally fine.
    A good thing is when the depth of the vagina at arousal is such that the dick can go all the way in, but just so, without undue pressure on the cervix. This is about a good match of the two partners, not about the vagina on its own.

  • Absolutely not all the same. Different textures, tightness, moisture level and viscosity.

  • No. Each is as different and unique as the person.

  • I think there is a lot of bad men and a lot of bad women. All men aren’t like this and I would say there is a lot more women who are amazing.


    I think we all have soulmates at least most good upstanding people who deserve it and want someone.


    Just because someone doesn’t capture everyone’s heart doesn’t make them bad.


    That “0.007” or whatever number you said of women deserve the 0.007 percent of men for argument sake.



    They don’t need or want a guy whose slept with thousands of women. Unless he’s truly changed and I mean truly changed.


    The same as a wonderful guy doesn’t deserve a bad woman.

  • From what I can tell, one's as good as the next but, take into account that between my 1st and 2nd was about a full year and, between my 2nd and 3rd was just over 8 years and, between my 3rd and now is 27.25 years! It's kind hard to judge one against another when there's several decades, years, months, weeks, days or even hours between them!! I'd have to try several in one sitting.

  • You can start by not throwing us under the bus, because clearly we aren't all the same or you wouldn't bw asking this question.


    Second have you ever seen to identical penises then thought to yourself that logic pans out surely women are all the same in this regard... then you ask if vaginas were all the same, okay 😂


    The short answer is no. there's no two people the same in their private areas. The highest quality is a woman that's enthusiastic about sex and the petite yoga vegan types,

  • They are not the same. Lol. Some loser some tighter etc. My favorite was actually my friends wife that had a little bit of wings on hers. And she had a little patch with a fresh wax….

  • Every one is unique the same way every flower blossom is unique in all its intricate details. And you can definitely become especially attached to a specific one in all its unique beauty if you are attached to the person it is associated with.

  • Obviously it's the whole woman that matters, but yes, there are some vaginas that are special.

  • One tasted like sweet candy…

  • I like the waxed or shaved ones with inside lips

  • Vaginas are not same, they have different shapes and sizes, they are Innees and outees

  • every pussy is different.

  • I just have one that I get to in my life

  • Vaginas are definitely not all the same and they don't feel or look the same. Some are tighter, some are looser, and they definitely look different from one to the next.

    You obviously have a very low opinion of men if you think they "sleep with 1000 women and not feel any attachment towards the women they slept with". Sounds like you've had some bad experiences with a guy or two and then stupidly decided all men are like those guys. Perhaps if you grow up a bit and become a better women you'll find it easier to attract quality men?

  • Men have a biological urge to have sex and reproduce. Men aren’t as emotionally geared as women either. That, and dating being hard for all but the most attractive guys, means that most men will settle for a primarily sexual relationship whereas women will want a more intimate connection.

  • No, all vaginas are definitely not the same. But if you think that is the key to capturing a man's heart, you're an idiot.