Guys are way to eager to just start sexting?

I get so many dms starting off with "nice ass" and sure thats sweat but id much rather actually get to know the person before sexting or talking more.
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Id rather guys that talk to me like an actual person rather than just talking about "my ass"
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  • You're wasting your time. In my day this was called a 'pen pal'. Consider actually dating your love interests. You simply cannot forge a relationship by texting. Period.

  • Eventually, they may grow up to appreciate the curve of the small of a gal's back, the luscious succulence of their breasts, in addition to their nice ass. :- )
    You're right , of course. They do need to get their priorities straight.

  • I feel u. It's nice to be appreciated as a person first

  • Not that your point isn't well taken in general, but your pic here does feature your ass, right? I'm not suggesting guys would be different if you had a random pic of anyone in a Sunday church dress, but it would take them longer to "get there". LOL If a girl even hints that she's a sexually interested person, guys jump all over that and think you're easy or a slut. In other words, just like them !! :)

  • That's not true. Not everyone is like that

  • Yeah, they are to eager, i would prefer girls for sexting

  • Guys that do that are stupid, because they are sending a clear message that sex is all they are after. But at least you won't be wasting your time, right?

  • Definitely look for someone not so eager. There are plenty of guys who would want to get to know each other first. I personally don’t even like the idea of sexting.

  • G'day mate. I agree with you. Objectification of women is preposterous.

  • ‘Posts pic of bare ass as profile, complain when guys immediately sext’

    *facepalm*

    • im allowed to have whatever I want as my pfp, thats no excuse for guys to have zero control

    • They have self control. Your bare ass was their permission slip

    • im allowed to have whatever I want as my pfp without being harrassed about it

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  • Well when your showing your butt to the world, dont expect people to talk you other then the way your being look upon. I see a women in underwear who may or may not be interested in sexting so why should I talk to her any other way then way the way I see her right now. If you want a different form of attraction then act different

  • It doesn't mean we want to sext with the girl whenever we say she got a nice ass, its just complimenting. Moreover I don't give a shit about sexting that much, its not something I am very interested in.. cause I'd like to fuck that woman I am talking with, why would I like to jerk off to messages she's sending me?

  • That’s because you profile pic is showing off your ass and the pic is making the guys go crazy and horny. Hence, they dm you directly complimenting your ass.

  • Maybe dont have ur pfp with ur butt out

  • Well I tried, didn't work ^^
    But we can still chat without sexting at all.

  • lol, good for them for trying. Not all guys are like that and it's sort of hard for some guys to talk to you about anything when your photo is literally you showing your butt.
    Hey, nice hair
    Hey, nice ass
    Hey, that couldn't possibly be a very comfortable angle you were in to take that picture.

    Chances are those thirsty dudes are going to talk about your ass.

  • Oh the irony of this post with that profile picture :D pure gold.

  • Yes and that ruins it for all guys that are not like that

  • There is far more to sexting than many guys consider

  • I’m with you, two people should have a conversation to see if they are compatible.

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