Guys, are you bothered by females staring at your bulge/crotch? Ladies are you bothered by guys staring at your breasts?

[Apope16]

I am a 32 year old black male. Single. I work as a case manager and dress business professional.

My coworker is 30 year old white female who is married. She is super professional and sweet. We get along well. Except... I have noticed that she keeps staring at my bulge. Sometimes when she talks to me her eyes get really wide while staring at.. like SURPRISED EYES.

Our races dont matter. But I dont think she's used to seeing many professional black men. She grew up in a well off white area and I think she has some fantasy about BBC?

IT bothers me when she stares. I am 5 inches flaccid and I have to place my penis down the side of my dress pants. Im not offended by staring. But the WAY she stares at me is a concern because its starting to create sexual arousal. I am worried I will start having erections around her as she stares. Am I the only one who gets aroused by a bit of perviness?

[Screenwriter]

If she's regularly staring in that way, it's rude. Since she's a co worker, I can't think of a tactful way to address this. You might have to tell her to keep her eyes on your face. You feel uncomfortable when she doesn't. If you can handle that, say it. I would. She might have to keep her distance for awhile to get over her embarrassment. She deserves to be embarrassed, though.

[Apope16]

I work with her throughout the day. I wouldn't say its uncomfortable. It just makes me super horny. Like it turns me on but i have to try to avoid thinking that so i dont get an erection in the hall when I leave her office.

[Screenwriter]

OK, so you like the turn on. Well, no need to comment on it.

[Poppykate]

She is probably thinking 🤔... ‘I wonder if the myth is true!’ 🤭😁 She is just curious! I am sorry that it had to come back to penis size! Penis size is talked about wayyyyy too much on here!

[newblinds]

The myth, the man, the legend

[Poppykate]

@newblinds lol 😂🙌

[Poppykate]

@Apope16 Next time you see her doing it, tell her ‘yes- the myth is true’. It will stop her.

[newblinds]

Referring to original poster, so it's clear 😊

[newblinds]

Lol " the myth is true" yes do it

[Apope16]

Yes but its making me horny. she's this kind of upper class innocent chic. hasn't seen many black men. It just makes me want to satisfy her curiosity. But I can't.

[runforyourlife]

Heh one time I was riding elevator after running. My bulge all visible in running tights. The girl in the cabin kept staring until I had full hard on. She went out triumphal smiling. It's just matter of time dude you get your boner and she will see it.

[Shiver]

Nah, it happens to me all the time. I kinda stopped giving a shit tbh.

[bigrook]

Definitely a turn on regardless of the woman that's doing the staring. Women shouldn't stop at staring. Just grab that bulge as have a field day with it!

[SarahsSummer]

I find it to be rude for anyone to stare at any of my “features”. Staring in general is rude.

[PinkCats]

I don’t really care. Guys are guys and they like to look. And they are were it’s super easy for them to see

[Trooper205]

You're not alone! I feel admired, and sexy when a Girl stares! It makes me feel like I'm good looking, and wanted!

[Anonymous]

Yes I am.

[Shiver]

W8 is this a JoJo reference?

[Opinion Owner]

A what lmao

[Shiver]

It's just a joke, don't worry about it. I'll explain if you want me to, but you're not gonna be impressed in the slightest. Lmao

[Opinion Owner]

I’m kinda torn by wanting to know or if I’m better off not knowing 😅

[Shiver]

Eh, it's not sexual or disgusting or anything, you'll just think it's really dumb. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Ahh I wanna know now lmao

[Shiver]

So, there's a manga (also an anime) called JoJo's Bizarre Adventure, maybe you've heard of it. A LOT of other works of fiction after it has tons of references to it, so the joke is that everything can be a JoJo reference if something similar has happened in JoJo's Bizarre Adventure. So, walking is a JoJo reference (due to some badass walking scenes), breathing is a JoJo reference (the first super natural power thing they use is breathing based), etc. Everytime something happens that also happens in JoJo's, the JoJo fans always go "HOLY SHIT IS THAT A MOTHERFUCKING JOJO REFERENCE?" There's a scene where one character asked if it was really another character, named Mohammed Avdol. So he says "Mo-Mohammed Avdol?" And the other guy responds with "Yes, I am" making your comment specifically a JoJo reference. I told you it was fucking stupid. Lmao

[producer]

Jojo is my favorite show.

[Opinion Owner]

OHHHH, hahaha, it’s not stupid, it’s way better than some lame sex joke I thought it was going to be

[Shiver]

@producer I have a hard time waiting for the part 6 anime. Lol

[Shiver]

Glad I could surprise and not disappoint. Lol

[Opinion Owner]

Hahaha definitely wasn’t disappointed lol

[Anonymous]

I like how 99% of your questions on here are sexual and this just randomly happens. I'm willing to bet it's nothing more than your stupid fantasy again just like everything else you post, but whatever floats your boat sir.