Guys, are you freaked out by this?

[Anonymous]

If a girl wants to be dominated harshly... with spanking, choking, calling her names and being rough with her she'll cry... will that fantasy freak you out?

[aikonwin]

Obviously anyone will freak out... a normal girl never behave that way... this type of behaviour of girl may be cuz of her family or ex who never treated her well and she got habitual to that expecting the same from everyone.. may be she thinks that this is the way a girl should be treated by doing this she is just losing respect for herself.. a normal expect to be treated with love, care and respect for wht she is.

[Asker]

I want to be treated with respect and love, but during sex I'll want it to be a little different...

[aikonwin]

Yes thats wht i am saying, whn did u first got this feeling of being treated as slave during sex? Is it with ur ex? Ask urself why u like to be treated as slave being abused during sex.. why?

[Asker]

I'm a virgin I've just fantasized about this... this is what gets me going

[aikonwin]

If u search for porn videos there is particular category dedicated to slave porn that means there are people who like such category of porn so u r one of them, but this category is rare as compare to other categories of porn.. my personal opinion is, if u are not easily aroused in ur sex life or fantasies try other categories such as oral, massage, anal and various sex positions, or use of chocolates, ice creams and many more to bring excitement in ur sex life by experimenting new things.. in this way u and ur partner both will enjoy sex to the fullest equally..

[Asker]

I don't watch porn.

[WhiteKnight2]

I mean that sounds like normal BDSM behavior, just have a safe word so I know you have an out if it gets too rough. Some people like pain, some people like inflicting it. I've never tried this but I wanna someday. Also Sex sounds like it would be easier with one person taking charge over the other, while the other one submits to them.

[Anonymous]

I think a lot of guys would on you like a monkey on a cupcake if they knew it.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yes, that's the exact opposite of what I want to do and what I am built to do with a girlfriend.

[Asker]

Oh 😕

[hellionthesagereborn]

I think a lot of guys are not into that, we are built to protect not well what ever that is. That said I'm sure their are plenty of men (maybe not the majority but probably not a small amount either) who would be into it, just not my thing.

[Asker]

I do want my man to protect me just different things in sex

[hellionthesagereborn]

Yeah but your asking a guy to be two different people, your asking him to respect and care for you while not respecting you at all. That's not very easy, a guy might be fine with that for a one night stand but again, your asking them to look at you like your nothing, to degrade and disrespect you and then to just suddenly turn that off and go the exact opposite, its not something most guys can do or want to do.

[cheekyflo]

If there is clear intention then it's fine but if he's not hip to your fetishes it might be a problem.

[lilpadg]

there's nothing wrong with a little controlled Roll Play, it's not my place to judge different foreplay needs, its my responsibility to make her feel like she's the only person in the world... spanking, choking, biting, and cursing are ok with me, as long as i satisfy her... so she doesn't have to find anyone else to cater to her needs...

[GingerGuy]

It's not something I'm into at all, so I wouldn't say "freak me out", but depending what she's wanting/expecting, she might be very disappointed with me lol. Cause it's just not going to happen, not from me.

[Ephemera1]

No but I do find it weird that you want someone to make you cry.

[Asker]

Not a serious cry just to show how weak I am for him

[Ephemera1]

Ohhh makes a bit of sense then

[thomascale18]

Lol, isn't that the dream girl?

[Asker]

Is it? 😳

[thomascale18]

Well for me it is. I'd love a submissive girl to have my way with.

[Asker]

Oh 😶 well okay then thanks

[thomascale18]

Your welcome.

[TadCurious]

That would be weird af. I'm not into that kind of sex.

[Atreyu]

Depends on the guy. Lots will see it as a great time!

[Purin]

Not necessarily. It depends. Going wild from time to time is great. It also depends what that girl is. If she is just someone to fuck then whatever.

[Asker]

Assuming it's your girlfriend..

[Purin]

I would find that as a less desirable trait on someone I am likely to spend a lot of time with.

[fahad3267]

No. It won't and it might be fun or satisfying for some kind of guys who want to be dominant.

[SlothySlob]

No, I'd indulge her in her fantasy.

[jacquesvol]

Not my cuppa tea.

[Charleslvajr]

I'd have to walk. To good an opportunity to end in prison. Chicks who like it rough are dangerous to guys and not because of some possible bruises.

[Asker]

I'm not dangerous 😕

[Charleslvajr]

Every woman says that right up until they decide to tell the cops they've been assaulted. True or not, guy goes straight to jail, no trial, no magistrate, no proof. Straight to jail and his lawyer has to prove he doesn't belong there. Nope.

[Asker]

Oh okay sure so every woman has these intentions for a man. Sure.

[Charleslvajr]

Why can't women understand this. It only takes ONE, not all to destroy a mans life for nothing.

[Asker]

I understand that, but why can't you understand I have 0 intentions do that to a man I love enough to have sex with?

[Charleslvajr]

I understand that's how you feel now. I've heard this story before, let me bore you with it. Man and woman fall in love, they date. Things are going great but things start to slow down, get tense, bills, careers, a lack of time and resentment begins to build up. An argument ensues and the police are called. Who gets put in cuffs? The guy. Who sits in cop car? The guy. Now, lets say you had bruises or marks on you. Consensual, doesn't matter the state can press the charges without your consent. Then he's guilty and he has to prove he didn't harm you, all the while in prison. It's not alway about you. I believe what you say. I just wouldn't trust the situation.

[Asker]

I never said I wanted any burises anyways... that's way to extreme

[Charleslvajr]

Okay, never mind.

[Gavyn]

I wouldn’t be fine with acting out such a fantasy, but I don’t condemn it, as long as I don’t have to partake in it.

[call_me_scar]

Nope sounds like a fun fantasy in my opinion

[UltraGamer]

No not really as I already do that, when my girl wants it rough, usually its just semi rough.

[SimpleSerg]

No if anything more aroused but at the communcation will have to be there for both parties cause safety is number one priority

[gobsmacked3]

as long as she says please, all is ok

[SketchForger]

I can't even bring myself to do this stuff to people I hate, it would be even weirder doing it to someone I love.

[watisgoingon]

I'd like that a lot as long as we both know what we are doing.