Guys Becoming More Sexual and Less Romantic These Days

If you would have noticed more than 60% of guys these days are sexually interested in a girl or are in for casual relationships, one-night stands, hook-ups and early sexting. This is NOT to say that girls don't do the same but obviously it's much lesser than guys.

Gone are the days when guys used to romantically please their women or potential partners, impress them, compliment them or genuinely care for them. Nowadays, all that they look for now is sex, although there are many guys who respect for and care for women and don't always look for sex but they are far lesser in number.

If given a chance these fuckboys would sexually date or hook-up with thousands of women and still never be satisfied with it.

Guys Becoming More Sexual and Less Romantic These Days

Reasons for such behaviour? They are:

1) Addiction to porn: Yes most of the guys watch porn, even I do but addiction to porn can highly lead to this kind of behaviour.

2) Bad Company: With more and more guys getting involed with other guys who do one or more of the wrong things like smoking, drinking, drugs, bullying, picking up fights, treating women as objects, eve-teasing women etc this behaviour rises. The bad thing is that they feel safe and secure in their company and if they do anything wrong their group encourage them.

3) The don't care attitude: Many guys on earth have the don't care attitude. They just want to keep life moving and don't care about the opposite gender or their feelings, sometimes not even for their own guy friends. This leads to them looking for girls sexually and they don't want to get involved with them or hold on to responsibilties.

4) Availability of hook-up girls, prostitutes etc type of girls: This makes them interested solely in the sexual part of the relationship ; ignoring any feelings, if involved.

5) More importance to SHORT-TERM pleasure compared to LONG-TERM satisfaction/relationship: Self-explanatory

6) Petty excuses: Many guys give petty excuses like: this girl dumped me so all girls would be like that(try to take revenge or show above behaviour to other girls), had bad experiences with girl/girls so mistreat all others, got rejected, gold digger etc.

So, girls if you are looking for a man for keeps, always determine the following things:

1) Whether he is fully interested in you

2) Whether he cares for you

3) Whether he puts in effort in planning out dates/things for you

4) Whether he is faithful & dosen't bat an eye on other women

5) (if you want to marry) is not commitment phobic or doesn't shy away from shouldering responsibilities

6) has his career goals in mind

7) is polite, respectful and accepts/cares for your opinions as well

Guys Becoming More Sexual and Less Romantic These Days

All the above things apply for girls too(maybe the whole article)!

Do you agree with myTake? Feel free to express your opinion about it😀.

(Healthy opinions are always welcome!)

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Most Helpful Guy

  • I don't want to write an essay but I think your wrong for why men don't want to commit to women, I'll list some reasons below.

    Alimony (men are most likely to pay it)
    Child support (Women are favoured by the courts to recieve the child)
    Half asset payments on divorce (Mainly men pay this as they allmost always earn more)
    80% divorces initiated by women (This shows men try to commit but it's in fact women who leave first If I were to explain the reason in short it's female hyper gamy)
    50% of marriage end in divorce (mainly by women)
    Common law marriage (State counts you married if you have been together for a certain amount of years depends on the state, this can ruin a mans life as he will need to pay all the cash and prizes)

    I could go on but thats all I'm wiling to say.

    • That's true, but not everyone is same.

Most Helpful Girl

  • it is just a different time now-both men and women want to experience life and it leads to sexual encounters whether married or not because both want it. If you are the real serious type then you actions will attract a man that is also real serious

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • People want what they want.

    • True that!

  • I swear, it seems like that's what GIRLS want.

    Seems like less than 15% of girls have any interest in EVER settling down.

    They just want to party party party and then die at 30, I guess. I don't know what their plan is.

    • Maybe it's because of the place you live in.

    • Yeah, college town. They've all left puppy love behind, that's for sure.

    • Lol😂

  • Woman are more sexual too.

  • Please,, guys have always been this way. Nowadays its just too easy/available.
    So why go shopping for cake when you get it delivered for free..
    Of course, guys who are smart enough to look for classy woman will. The rest just enjoy the current lifestyle

  • Guys have never been romantic. Romance is a matter of perspective, really.
    I once gave a girl I was dating an umbrella because it was raining, she thought it was romantic, I just didn't want to see her catch a cold.

    • You really don't know what is romance.

    • No, I know what love is.

    • Maybe you don't call love romance or romance love. Or are you solemn type of guy?

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  • Because if you're a nice guy girls will be turned off and bored

    • If you have the confidence and can take the initiative you can win.

  • I think it is because it is because a lot of women don't appreciate it anymore. they rather hook up with a bad guy who treats them like crap, so why put in all that extra effort for no pay off

    • MyTake was meant for good women not sluts.

    • Although I agree those types of women are also increasing.