Guys , can you be forced into sex?

like if a girl really wants it. Do guys give in or they can't be forced
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I'm not talking about rape. I meant personally would you allow it or not
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Not in a playful /teasing way. Like a girl forcing you when you don't feel like it at that time
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  • Forced is perhaps the wrong choice of words. If I really didn't want to, she couldn't make me. But the standing policy was, if she wants it she can take it. I consider it a form of service. Like if I promise to give someone a massage and then I am really tired and would prefer to skip this evening. But if she insist, I will still do it.
    Same with sex. It's a mentality I developed in a situation when my ex complained that she is not getting enough sex but would never ever initiate herself. And even asking for it was too weird for her apparently. Then she sometimes didn't feel like it when I started.
    So I told her she can just do it any time. She only did it twice anyway and then proceeded to complain. But now I subconsciously see it as a girl's right to have sex whenever she wants. I might change my mind if I end up with someone willing to abuse that mindset :-D

    • Of course this means a girlfriend. A random friend wanting to get casual sex will hear a resolute no.

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  • Up to a point- there's a big difference between "I'm just not feeling it" (where I can usually be pushed, without much resistance, into something quick or simple) and "I despise you and all you stand for" (where it doesn't matter HOW big the gun you point in my face is). I've never been the type to have sex outside of a relationship, though (not for moral reasons; I just know how hard bonding hormones hit me); a proposition along those lines probably won't get you more than a polite but firm refusal.

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  • I would have to be raped to cheat on my bride. Even tho a man doesn't want sex he could be forced into it. Maybe drugged or tied up, if he there was no way to defend himself. In an instance like that he is still gonna get an erect penis and have orgasm. Just like woman will get wet and possible orgasm while being raped. Some have tried to use that as a defense in court they ultimately lose as they should, our bodies are just reacting like they were designed to do but that doesn't make it consensual.

  • I can be yes
    Like if you were to say Steve
    I'm forcing you on to sex. I would say ok.
    When

  • If someone doesn't want it, its rape.

    If someone does want it, there isn't any force involved.

    There is no in between.

  • yes, males can forced into sex as well and it does happen

    • edit/update* I still think that being FORCED constitutes rape, regardless of gender... " forcible - obtained or imposed by coercion or physical power " " rape - unlawful sexual activity and usually sexual intercourse carried out forcibly or under threat of injury against " perhaps is just the wording of this question in particular

  • It's not as likely, but it's possible.

  • Rape does happen to guys yes.

    • In that case depends on the guy i suppose. I know i would allow it. But it depends how much the don't really want it.

  • Forced into intercourse? Seems unlikely.

  • Not forced. Coerced.

  • As far as I know they can't be forced but I HAVE heard of guys that have been rapped by a woman and there was even a movie about it back in the mid `70's. Of course, once she let the guy go and he ran to tell the cops, they wouldn't believe him!

  • Depends on the girl.. I know I've been woken up by my girlfriend on top of me.. I didn't care much for that tho.. lol

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