Guys, did you ever have a problem climaxing from blowjobs and/or intercourse? Girls, have you encoutered this?

[Anonymous]

I had blowjobs that last for 30 minutes, with no sign of climaxing... Is this normal? If not, how can I fix it?

Yes, I have tried not cranking one out for a few days... Still didn't help. It just feel lots of pleasure, but no sensation of it building up... One time, I actually started to feel a soreness since she went down for a while, and I had blue balls afterward (I took matters into my own hands by that point, and fixed it).

How can I talk to my doctor about it? It hurts me a little to know that my junk (Of which she is really happy with, and she tells me that I am a perfect size) is not working to its fullest :( I doubt it is physiological. I even have trouble maintaining an erection, when she is not sucking my dick...

I need answers, because I am bit concerned, especially since I do plan to raise a family in the future.

And yes, I am a virgin.

[Dargil]

"I had blowjobs that last for 30 minutes, with no sign of climaxing... Is this normal? If not, how can I fix it?"
*A blow job should last 10 minutes or less. More like 7. It is undoubtedly poor technique.
"One time, I actually started to feel a soreness since she went down for a while, and I had blue balls afterward (I took matters into my own hands by that point, and fixed it)."
*Exactly. Not trolling. How quickly can you get off fapping?

[Asker]

That depends how hard, and how fast I go xD

[RickPen]

Can't be a virgin if you're having oral sex. It's still sex. With that bit of semantics out of the way, I have a question.

Are you circumcised? This affects the entire sexual process, and pleasure.

[Asker]

I am circumcised.

[Asker]

Yes, in your eyes, I may not be a virgin, but I consider someone a virgin, if they have NOT had vaginal intercourse yet, and I haven't due to my inability to orgasm, and keep a full erection.

[RickPen]

You most likely have nerve damage from circumcision. It is surprisingly common, as most of the nerves of the penis are in the foreskin, so when it's cut off, according to a study done in 2007, a man loses 75-80% of sensation, making things more difficult. About 20,000 nerve endings are cut off, and "amputation neuromas" are common, making for constant chronic pain. Basically lifelong torture. I've had the same problems, basically giving up on sex. Oral feels... ok, but not earth shattering, and losing erection is possible. Vaginal sex feels like nothing at all, like humping the air. After visits to urologists, I was told it's extremely common, and nothing can be done about the problem, other than trying any alternative ways. I suggest visiting a urologist to get a real opinion, but be prepared. Stretching the remaining skin can be done, takes years, and is painful, but it will help the glans recover and dekeratinize, which helps sensation a little, but the full potential is lost. Hopefully Foregen comes out with a solution in the next decade. In the meantime, try "restoration", something like the dual tension restorer may help, see a doctor, hope for the best, and maybe have a talk with your parents about the problem. I had one with mine and finally got an apology when they realized how they crippled part of my life, and their chance for grandchildren. Fuck circumcision. Seriously. No benefits.

[BillieJean1070]

I've never had a guy last that long...10 minutes is a long time to last.

[Asker]

What techniques do you use to get him off? Maybe I can find out something that works for me?

[xjtbx]

Yes.
You got to stop thinking, close your eyes and enjoy it.
Often it can be bad technique.
She can't feel what feels good for you, so tell her when it feels good.

[jesshikasanchez]

I have never had this issue

[Asker]

Well, what about if you are with guys that are circumcised?

[Redstang88]

Probably a bit of anxiety, but honestly some girls are just really bad at it

[Anonymous]

Never had that issue.

[Anonymous]

I couldn't cum from doggy and 69

[Asker]

How so? Are you able to cum through masturbation?