Guys do you ALWAYS get off from sexting, or is there ever a time when it becomes a bit of a chore where you don’t?

I’m just curious because I imagine the excitement starts to wear off after a while...
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  • If I initiate then I’m there to get off and I get off the best if I know she’s getting off so it’s a two sided thing for sure. I have sent videos that I have saved to girls who are in the mood but either I’m at work or something and can’t join. Sometimes just bc they ask politely lol XD but I love it. The fantasies that get created are amazing. Pm me and let’s see together ;)

    • Yeah I can relate to that! Knowing he’s getting off also gets me off.

    • Well... this is me initiating. You know I was gonna ask. Lol ;)

    • Haha thanks but I’m not one to enjoy it with strangers. I’m sure some other women out there might be open to it though.

  • If you keep doing it with the same person on a regular basis then the effect is definitely watered down and it stops being that interesting. You probably end up just pretending that you got off when you actually didn't.

    When you give all of yourself too soon you take away all of the mystery. That's why less is often more.

    • There isn’t really mystery left between us now, we’ve already had sex in person too.

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  • Not all of them do. I know the guys that I've done it to haven't because I would stop half-way through (I'm bored and not getting off while he's getting off? Why would I help him through that?).

    • I like to splice together ‘cumpilation’ vids for girls that are asking but I’m not available to put in 100% effort. Lol the best part is when she cums why not be around for that part ;)

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  • Sexting is always a chore. It’s really just meaningless and time consuming. I’d rather spend my time actually getting to know someone.

    • Yeah for sure if you’re talking about a stranger

    • Even if it’s someone you know. If you’re going to talk, might as well make it meaningful. People can get off on their own time. Haha.

    • Yeah true, but if you’re getting to know them would you still not find it a bonus?

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  • I've never done it, but no desire to either ever. The whole thing sounds like a "chore" lol. I want you in person to see and touch, sexting is like, why bother?

    • I completely agree 100% it’s better in person, but sometimes it’s just not always possible.

  • I don't get the point in sexting, doesn't turn me on on the slightest

    • I always said that too until now

    • It would just make me want to be with her and that'd me miss her and that'd make me sad, I don't like it

    • Yeah I was the sameness first too! You kind of just get used to it though I guess.

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  • I'll entertain it for 5 minutes tops. Anything longer is a waste of time. It's better to schedule a date for an actual hookup instead of playing fantasy.

    • True, but I don’t think everyone’s always into hook ups

    • Don't waste time then. Move on to someone who's interested.

    • Thanks but I just meant it’s not always possible to meet in person and it’s nice when you have history as it’s more familiar, rather that going out to hook with a random.

  • I always do as long as it doesn't go on for like forever. How about you, do you get off from sexting?

    • Yeah I do but only with a certain person who I’ve already had sex with - we have good chemistry. But I just can’t help but feel like it may start wearing off the more we do it.

    • Having good sex with him periodically should help to not wear it out.

    • I agree, but it’s long distance now.

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  • Sexting is fun if both parties are chipping in. I get super bord if all she is doing is begging for more.

  • I have never liked it, let alone get off from it. How can you seriously get off from words on a screen or the odd pic. I can see how webcam might be seen as exciting for some but to me it is cold and extremely dull. I want the real thing or nothing at all. It reeks of desperation to me.

    • I would have always agreed with you before now, this person just has a certain way I guess.

  • Tbh I would never find sexting even remotely exciting. The real thing or gtfo!

  • depends on the woman, a lot of women are not good at sexting, so its not fun doing it with them

  • I've never really done it but I think it would be the same as masturbating. U look at porn or whatever and your mind just zones onto other things at times and helps you get there. Lol.

    • Have u done anything?

    • Yeah I sext with a certain person - we have history though, it’s not random.

    • Nice. So like your question asks, does it work for u too?

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  • I’m not really a fan myself.

  • I like it. Care to give it a go

    • Thanks but I don’t do it with strangers personally. That being said I’m sure there’s other women out there who may be open to it though.

    • I wish I could find some (at least one)

  • Not always but if I say that I am I am :)

    • Do you always get off while sexting?

    • So far yeah, I do wonder if it’ll wear off though.

    • Trick is to keep it fresh and fun. Message me if you want to chat :P

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  • Thnx for asking I'll look about that

  • After I jacked off yeah I'm done for the day. ... Or at least for the next few hours. Though I don't like to when I'm stressed or dealing with major issues.

  • It depends how good it was more than likely while sexting the stimuli from imagining what the two are doing can set it off. but it does take alittle work to get there.

    • Yeah ironically I think the more you do it the more work it can take as the excitement may start to fade.

    • interesting, it takes work from both parties. they both have to have the ability to use an extensive vocabulary to paint the picture. Also both people have to have an extensive imagination when done right its a real turn from my experience, the discriptive words are really powerful.

    • Yeah you’re right, but there’s only so many scenarios you can create isn’t there...

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