Guys, do you care whether a girl swallows during a blowjob?

[carmen1313]

[DaveJord]

Honestly no I do not. I mean making a man cum during a blow job is a lot harder then it looks. I mean she has to really work at it, and if she stops to pull it out of her mouth then it can really limit your orgasm... but honestly, I cannot blame her.

I never fault a woman for not swallowing... but I will be honest with you... there is nothing hotter than a woman that sucks you off and gives you the happy ending in the mouth.

But I had one chick that swallowed all the time. I mean she really liked the taste of it I guess? I do not know, but she would go down all the time... but when she did, she went to work on it. Then when she was down, she would swallow and immediately want to kiss you, tongue and all and bro!!!

WTF are you supposed to do, this woman just sucked you off dry. I would kiss her, and imagine I was not tasting anything.

[ShadowYamihiro]

Honestly no, bj is a bj and no way i would turn it down. I do prefer if a girl swallow, i guess there is some part of male DNA that gives you that feeling of her accepting you more in some weird way but like i said it is some stupid DNA part of us, i mean girl giving you bj then ofc she accepted you already, its about mindset. I really dont mind if she doesn't swallow, i do prefer it and love it when a girl does that but not all girls are into that and i gotta respect that and be ok with this, putting pressure on a girl to do something she clearly isn't comfortable doing is wrong on so many lvls, F the DNA part, my heart and her feelings far surpasses that bs.

[Hawkes_Lady]

I don't usually swallow... and I don't do facials, I think that is rather degrading. If I am very enthusiastic and really into a specific BJ then I will swallow. I enjoy the pre-cum but am not a huge fan of the glob of cum in one gulp.

I think that @bricealan said it best, "I would not like a mouthful of "warm snot" ... ugh... so slimy... just the thought is making me nauseated."

[Bricealan]

@Hawkes_Lady... I had a good girlfriend at work tell me that. She described it just that way..."... a mouthful of warm snot" ... There is too much of that BS in PORN and that is where most of these guys get that idea that women like it.

[Hawkes_Lady]

@Bricealan I agree about the porn, it is all about them shooting his wad down her throat or worse all over her face. Why do men believe that women want that? Then again, I have issues with most porn movies because they give an unrealistic expectation of sex, and trying to live up to the expectation in real life just causes disappointment.

[Bricealan]

@Hawkes_Lady... You and I must have grown up in the same place or with the same 'like people' I thought I was the only one using the expression "shooting his wad" ! My first women friends used that term, but I rarely hear it on here! Glad to know that I'm not the only one using those "WADS" LOLOL Thanks, you made my day!!! May I follow you?

[Hawkes_Lady]

@Bricealan Yes, you may follow me. I am glad that I could make your day brighter. I am from the West Coast, maybe that phrase is one of those phrases that is geographical.

[chrissykerdock]

guys definitely care if your a swallower... they do get upset even if you joke about not swallowing their cum... plus it's always worth it to swallow just so you don't have to hear their pain that you didn't... and it's not a big deal to do... i mean you can even bypass tasting it if you hate it that much.

[Katie1964]

Hubby definitely wants me to swallow his cum. He has told me it just makes him feel loved and valued, honestly I don't get that but if it makes him feel that way then I am going to do it everytime.

[LoverOfBooty23]

Lucky guy!

[OlderAndWiser]

Finishing in her mouth is so much better, but then I don't care whether she swallows or. spits.

[Funnygirl1500]

Honestly I just swallow when I don't want to clean up the mess. Its so much easier and the guy loves it. If I have some extra time and don't mind cleaning up I'll let him cum on my face or anywhere else he wants to.

[LoverOfBooty23]

That was so sexy. This should be the most helpful opinion haha damn

[spartan55]

It is preferable.

[Apple1996]

It really depends on the guy. Mine doesn't like when I swallow and would rather give a facial. Other guys might be different

[turnpost]

Why would he not want you to swallow?

[Apple1996]

@turnpost he thinks it's too degrading. I've tried telling him it's fine but he just can't get into it and feels bad after

[Apple1996]

@turnpost also prefers that I'm not sucking while he's cumming so that's part of the reason to. I don't give blowjobs in the typical way

[turnpost]

Your boyfriend is like Joker from that Christopher Nolan movie. He just wants to see the world burn. jkjk I am sure he is nice person. Its funny how poeple are so different love the diversity. Yeahhhh I would demand the swallow. (Its just so narratively hot like she is craving my essense like come on now.)

[turnpost]

She can demand I eat her and swallow on her side to so I am into equalness. On that front.

[Apple1996]

@turnpost I think it's a hot thought but if it's a woman that a man truly respect then they wouldn't want her doing that

[turnpost]

Its not about respect, when its consentual and she agrees on it and enjoys it. If she hates it and finds it degrading and truly humilating. Then I should stop, but its a bummer. But lol a small fetish shouldn't get in the way of marriage.

[Apple1996]

@turnpost yeah I enjoy it but he still thinks that way. It's about respect on some level but a lot of men don't respect their spouses anyways

[turnpost]

"""I think it's a hot thought but if it's a woman that a man truly respect then they wouldn't want her doing that""""" That is quite a strange thought. They both love eachother and they want to express there love to eachother. Its part of the language the couple has decided to express themselves. Who are we to judge. There are some disrepectful things that do draw the line. I remember this Shibari? tying thing there were doing to evie lupine she consented. But the amount of struggle she had in the ropes, I felt genuinely sad for her. Like I would totally stop. Sometimes a partner is just dying to please there partner out of validation and that can be toxic to. But swallowing yes do. (Not you lol)

[turnpost]

Lol sometimes as foreplay the boyfriend can say is that, "you haven't earned my glaze" lol (I think its a hot way to end the scene in my head) There should romantic love making and bdsm lovemaking the above is bdsm way of it.

[turnpost]

Thats sounds way more cruel to be honest

[Apple1996]

@turnpost yeah people do a lot of disrespectful things to their partner because porn has normalized them. It's not good tbh. Nobody should view their partner as a person to live our porn fantasies with. This is something me and my husband have had to learn the hard way

[Apple1996]

He won't do anal with me anymore because of this either

[turnpost]

God your so sweet. (I wish my future wife would be like you) I would totally be monogamist till my last dying breath towards her. Buutttttttttttt yeah totally doing fantasies. Towards realism and realistic and reasonably and respectful and secretly as possible. Porn is garbage. Just as good cigarettes. I look at photos though :/ but its just the girl and there natural. Like Tina Fey inspirational. Thiss is wayyyy too tmi.

[turnpost]

ohhhh view first and foremost is what you mean... Yeah I agree. Love as friends first. Then intercourse is the cherry.

[Apple1996]

@turnpost photos are not bad in my opinion or just realistic porn. Problem is when porn starts causing a lot of fetishes

[Apple1996]

@turnpost is Tina fey really what you are into? Lol

[turnpost]

Yes, Tina Fey is so hot, and well balenced and well thought out. Open to improvise, easy to laugh, genuine, expressive. I sound like a psychopath but one could see how she would be a prize. Surprisingly its when I stop watching porn thats when I got more fetishes. I just got alott more creative. (it makes sense, i am just upping the anty with novelty however if you reduce exposure you get like a middle line. ) But for the part. Id say no to drugs Porn

[turnpost]

I need photos, life sucks being alone. Ill dump them when I curate new ones with wife.

[Red_Arrow]

I can understand when gals do not like to swallow, and that does not bother me. I find it better when she does swallow. I have never been interested in giving a facial. I think that is demeaning and certainly worse than the gal swallowing.

[Apple1996]

@Red_Arrow on the face is good for the skin

[Red_Arrow]

So I have heard, though I am not sure it really is. In any case, I would prefer that she takes care of her face at a time different from when he are having sex.

[Apple1996]

@Red_Arrow I don't get how a facial would be more degrading then swallowing tho? The face can be cleaned off. Swallowing it then its literally inside her and cannot be cleaned

[Red_Arrow]

Nothing degrading about swallowing and does not need to be cleaned. Even you said it is not degrading. But facials are like marking your territory, and I feel no need to "mark my territory."

[Apple1996]

@Red_Arrow still I don't get that. Swallowing or a creampie seems more degrading then cumming anywhere on the body

[Red_Arrow]

You said "? he thinks it's too degrading. I've tried telling him it's fine". Why did you say it is fine and now say it is degrading? Swallowing is just a normal finish to oral. Spitting it out could be considered more degrading.

[Apple1996]

@Red_Arrow I don't think anything is to degrading to do personally but for people that do think so I just don't understand that type of logic. And who spits? That's like not even a option in my opinion. Rarely do I ever give blowjobs with my mouth on the dick like that. There are so many other things to do so swallow/spit are only things for people that are giving basic blowjobs

[Red_Arrow]

Who spits? Obviously those who do not swallow. And what do you mean by "Rarely do I ever give blowjobs with my mouth on the dick like that." How do you give blowjobs without you mouth on his dick?

[Apple1996]

@Red_Arrow there is always the option to not cum in the mouth so there is no spit or swallow. And men have a lot more to suck and lick during a blowjob then just the dick. I take advantage of everything and they almost never cum while I'm sucking the dick since that's just more of a tease

[turnpost]

They? lol I can imagine myself cumming to my wife by her sucking. lol she would have to bop fast though or use tongue.

[Lionman95]

No I don´t. I wouldn´t make her. There are things that are way more important to me.

[OfMiceandMen]

It's not something that I need. If it grosses her out though, I'd completely understand. Maybe she makes up for it during rather than at the end?

The other option is a flavored condom. Been there, done that and it still feels great.

[normalice]

It's easier for her to keep sucking if she doesn't stop to rinse out,

[BoopBoopBeep]

Not mandatory, but yeah certainly better. When she's riding my face I'm certainly swallowing her... just saying.

[Paul_in_Indy]

I do not. I prefer to ejaculate into the air —not in her mouth and, definitely, not on her face. I admit that it is strangely hot when a girl swallows and acts like she enjoys it. I won’t ask her to do it, though.

[SarahP080102]

I prefer to swallow

[LoverOfBooty23]

I’d prefer to meet you and find out

[Bricealan]

Yes, I would rather not shoot in her mouth, and if I did, have her spit it on my stomach. I would not like a mouthful of "warm snot" ... ugh... so slimy... just the thought is making me nauseated.

[artgorgeous]

If she swallows, she's naughty.

[Dargil]

A blow job is incomplete and inadequate if I do not ejaculate while she is sucking (and stroking!). But once I deliver my payload, how she manages it, swallow, spit or drool, is up to her.

[Fireguy17]

nope.
I have a buddy who can be a bit crass say: once it's in her mouth she can do whatever she wants to with it.

[Nifrayu]

I've never climaxed from a blow job. But if I did there is something that's just really sexy about swallowing.

[Finchie40]

Not really , but if she does swallow , then to me that’s a huge turn on , because it shows she is really into me is how I look at it , especially if she did it without me asking or knowing she was going to do it , Little does she realize by her swallowing makes me want her even more.. Most girls’ do not like swallowing so when I am with a girl that does I tend to fall in love with her as long as she isn’t swallowing other Guy’s loads as well lol

[JosyJosy]

I've always heard that they do.

[LoverOfBooty23]

You heard right

[Thumper2thump]

It definitely depends on the guy.

[MarkyMark77]

@thumper2thump what makes u wanna swallow a guy?

[Thumper2thump]

@markymark77. not just any guy' only if i am supper into them. its such a turn on

[Nikki1989]

Only childish men obsessed with porn make an issue of it.

Quality men respect their women more than to treat her like a trash can.

[turnpost]

Lol your last sentance is funny. Quality men respect their women more then a trash can. low bar lady lo