Guys, do you ever wonder why your dick doesn't hurt her pussy? Or if it does hurt a little?

Since you're making the pussy stretch? Just was wondering what it feels like, to be thrusting into someone and stretching them out. Sure it's warm and wet, and she'd tell you if it hurt. But you're forcing the walls apart, like they conform to the shape of your dick.
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Like pounding into someone, and moving their body like that, when you're on top. Sometimes I wonder why guys don't feel dominate just for fucking in the first place.
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  • For a man, yes, having sex always feels at least at little dominant, even if she's on top. He's entering his partner's body and she has to make herself vulnerable to accommodate that. Part of being a good lover is taking her comfort and wellbeing into consideration. I'm not perfect and I'm not a mind reader, so I check in with my partner a lot, even after having had sex with her for 28 years. She still occasionally tells me, "I was sore all day" or "It hurt so good". Despite the fact that she often likes it rough, her yelping in pain is definitely not my goal.

    So yeah, I wonder about it a lot, actually. The female experience is fascinating to me.

    • Oh yeah. It can hurt good.

    • I actually was hoping for descriptions so I could try painful on purpose sex. Mildly painful.

    • Help me out… descriptions of what exactly? There are positions where it's easier to "hit bottom" or ram into her cervix, which, I'm given to understand, isn't exactly comfortable. Pressing her legs back into her chest in missionary is a good example. Doggie, if you're really slamming hard, is like that, too.

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  • If we feel like we're stretching her out, forcing her tight little pussy to stretch out and become the size for our cock?

    Yeah we feel pretty dominant. And it's hot.

    Of course if you think she's slept with a bunch of guys bigger than you? So much for that fantasy.

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  • I assume you're a virgin. Just remember a Dick is much much smaller than one of these...
    lovinthelight.com/.../...the-Light-Brodie-4107.png

    • Babies do hurt a lot. But see your point. Was trying to imagine how it feels to pound someone inside like that. And babies don't pound over and over either.

    • Yeah pounding is probably the best part. Lol. Unless he's too big (long) and hitting my insides the stretching feels good when properly wet. But like Betty White says...
      www.bigfishink.com/.../...y-White-on-Balls-jpg.jpg

    • Agreed. I actually have been wanting to try mildly on purpose painful sex, to see if it'd be more intense. I think it's hard to make it hurt too.

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  • Oh, I've been told plenty of times that my dick can hurt.

    That's why I've always been very careful not to do that. I've learned how to take it easy, during penetration, and I don't usually thrust as deep as I could, either.

    You just learn what feels good, to a particular girl, and then make sure you don't go beyond that.

  • it always hurts if you don't "warm her up" first. make her pliable, and then... ply.

  • My dick always hurts girls in a good way, but most of the girls I know, love to have painful sex and to be dominated, and I enjoy it so much!

  • I look at it like this: The vagina is meant to receive an erect penis. So I don't agonize over whether I'm expanding the normally collapsed walls of that space. And as for the dom/sub aspects to sex, I'm not into that stuff anyway so to me it's not relevant. Unlike some radical feminists I don't consider the mere act of consensual sex to be some kind of symbolic act of phallic assault.

  • Think in our heads it had to do with "getting her ready", we've learned that as long as she is horny enough she will be slippery and stretchable enough to accommodate. So the fear of hurting sort of goes away after some experience, because of the reactions we get. Keep in mind the experience include some women actually telling us that they like rough and that they won't break, so we can go wild. So the idea of a soft feminine body breaking by accident sort of disappears in time.

    Yes, some men like to give pain, so thats the exception.

    • I think msot guys think like what you said, but some guys like to make sex hurt? I could see manhandling her, but sex hurting?

    • Yes, women sometimes like pain, some men do also, so they go in dry. Also clamps and whips etc.

    • Dry sex sounds ouch.

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  • I mean painful sex exits for a fetish. But if it hurts then he's doing it wrong. Also for me personally sex is not about submitting or dominating, but mutual trust and compassion; that is if you're not sleeping with an escort.
    May I also add that if she is tight to begin with then it is likely she respects herself and doesn't sleep around.

  • Yeah, grab some of your flesh and pull on it a bit. Doesn't hurt either, does it? And then you have the vagina which is elastic and designed to stretch.

    By your thinking, opening your mouth to eat food, or having a shit would also hurt.

    • Of course, but I was talking about the pounding and just trying to imagine.

  • Well, I wouldn't really want my partner to hurt but I definitely love to dominate and lead in bed.

  • it feels so good when their pussy grips you tight and have to stretch for you a little bit. Most girls have said they like when it hurts a little bit like that feeling sore in a good way feeling.

  • wait the pussy stretches to a dick?

    • what did you think happened?

    • i never penetrated before.. but now i knkw why they call it penetration

    • yupp

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  • I always feel dominant whenever I'm doing anything romantic, whether it's even kissing or dirty talk.
    I never wondered why, but I've found it interesting, just like I think it's interesting how some girls like a little pain and others don't.

    • Romantic is dominate how?

    • it's, not. it's just how it makes me feel. I'm kissing her, I'm pulling her hair. etc. I just take charge ;j

  • Feels great, lol.

  • I ask my wife and she is like it's not painful

  • During sex it feels very dominating to insert into her. I don't really let her have a say on how it will be inserted into her as once she has made the decision to do it, how and when I insert my dick into her will be entirely up to me.

    There are few things I want when inserting into her, I want to feel that I'm taking ownership of her. I want her to feel it as much as possible that a man is inserting a big dick into her pussy. I don't particularly do anything to make it easier for her and don't usually do foreplay for more than 5-10 minutes as I don't really want her to get too wet or too aroused before I put it into her. I do like her to feel filled, pain and stretched when I put it into her.

    When I start thrusting, I do like her to feel that it is an energetic and strong guy doing her, I move my dick to try to hurt, fill or stretch her and it is extremely pleasing to stretch and hurt her during sex.

    • Why does it please you so much? This does sound hot in a way.

    • There is a certain triumphant feel to it and a sense of achievement to it, this is especially if she is a married woman.

  • Since a vagina is designed for this, I never wonder.

  • Women give birth. A baby is a lot bigger then my penis. I wonder about the guys that just "ram" it in, I'm sure that does hurt women, especially if they aren't aroused and wet yet.

  • My dick did hurts her pussy last time i fucked her.

  • I figure it's just designed to except it so it should be fine

    • As for your update/ yes I do feel like I'm dominating her when having sex with a petite girl because she can't even move me off when I'm on top😊