Guys do you find it hard to stop midway?

When I mean midway, I mean midway through flirting and messing around not sex.
Like 2nd to 3rd base.
The guy I am casually seeing says he find it hard to just stop at that and wants to go full on, though we have only seen each other 4 times.
I am not ready for full on sex.
Fun disclosure is that I am younger than the age stated and I am still a virgin with 0 experience.
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  • Not really. I mean, you want to continue and you may get left with a bit of an ache but there is nothing physically stopping you from stopping and it's not like it's that difficult. Once you start to accept that you cannot stop you stray into dangerous territory where you can justify your actions based on your libido. The truth is that willpower is always stronger than libido and if you start telling yourself that it isn't then you're on a fast track to jail.

    • Lmao true

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  • It is difficult to stop when you are horny and the guy has a raging boner that wants release. Would you be comfortable giving him a handjob? Guys love them!

    When you are ready for sex talk about and plan for birth control so it is one less thing to worry about.

    What do you mean by "casually seeing" the guy. Is he a boyfriend or just a friend?

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  • Not easy but not hard. It's like eating one bite of pizza and having to stop and not even be able to have one slice. But very doable. I just kind of go to the other room and jerk off.

    • The only time I ever had that happen to me though was when my girlfriend fell asleep on me while we were getting really frisky. Then it was kind of annoying but I stopped right away.

    • Imagine being so bad at sex that your girl literally falls asleep while you're inside her lmao

    • @RebeccaW We didn't get that far! Just kissing and hugging and then... zzz.

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  • Yes of course, every human is programmed with a fight or flight thing, also the NO, works.

    what he is saying is so much bollox.

    you need him to respect your boundaries and understand you mean NO when you say it.

    oh and get your age fixed please.

  • Guys will say anything to get in your pants. It's not that difficult to stop, and if he doesn't stop when you say stop then it's rape.

  • No, but I am a grown up man.

  • They can stop,

  • Nah, it's ez pz. I guess what he means is that he just hates having to keep talking and flirting without seeing it progress any further for a too long, which is understandable at the very least. It can get really boring that way.

  • I will go as far as she's willing after I am ready. For a virgin we gave to wait at least 6 months before sex

  • were you saving it for marriage or something else?

  • It sounds like he just wants to have sex with you and is impatient. When a guy is hoping he'll go all the way, it's hard to stop before he gets there.

  • I can easily stop if I need to so no

  • No it is not hard at all it is just self control