Guys: do you have any female friends that you AREN'T attracted to?
ManOnFireInfluencer
Or female friends who you really don't want to have sex with? I know it seems pretty rare, but I think it's possible. I would have sex with most of my female friends and acquaintances but I actually wouldn't with my very close one. She is beautiful and has guys coming after her all the time, even in the beginning I was into her before I met my ex at that time. But since then I have no feelings for her or no sexual attraction to her even though she is beautiful. Occasionally I will joke about her giving me head or fucking on the beach, but deep down I don't really want to and am just not attracted to her in the way that most other men are. She is a great friend and there's always something to learn from her, but there are still other things about her that actually do turn me off from wanting to sleep with her or date her.
So I guess I want to know if other men have experiences of not feeling any kind of attraction to a female friend?
I have plenty of female friends I'm not interested in
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SlartybartfastExplorer
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I have lots of female friends, I'm sure none of them are attracted to me..
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ManOnFire
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But do you have any that YOU aren’t attracted to?
Slartybartfast
1 y
At this point I don't care anymore. The thought of being in another relationship makes me feel sick.
malwins
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Well what happened
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Slartybartfast
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@malwins I'm divorced
glennos89Xper 7
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yes more then 1
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HopefulGuy94Xper 5
1 y
Almost never , except 2 platonic ones in sometime during my lifetime , the both were when I was in primary school in different years as a child lol But those were unintentionally and I have never felt any emotional things against anyone excluding those. Thankfully , I never told them anything not to be got wrong and mess up our friendship just lived my inside , I have been always shy against the opposite gender like I am now already.
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HopefulGuy94
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Almost always I mean
Toast792Xper 6
1 y
I'm not attracted to any of them lol
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SimpleGuy95Xper 5
1 y
Yes I do but the reason could be that I have klinefelter but they don´t know because I haven´t told. I try to do my best showing an interest in them and at the same moment signaling that I´m not interest in sex and it works suprisingly well. Like those friendships aren´t that deep but most of friendships with men aren´t either so they are surely similar. Besides that I do know when I don´t consider hot or overly attractive but I like their opinions to certain topics like the development of society or others and I like spending time with them.
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RealMarekGuru
1 y
Yes, of course. It gets more common as people age and a lot of people get overweight.
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AssholeNumberOneXper 5
1 y
I do. Vice versa. I'm extremely close with my guy best friend, probably never been closer to another human like I am to him, but I don't wanna date him.
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The_Shadow_Dweller
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Same here! I have more interactions with my female friends than my friends, but I really don't feel any kind of attraction to any of them. I don't know why, but it kind of feels really good to be in this position. You have healthy relations too and at the same time, just can disconnect whenever you want. Total freedom.
AssholeNumberOne
1 y
@The_Shadow_Dweller IKR. Relationships don't always last, but friendships sure as hell can
The_Shadow_Dweller
1 y
Damn right!
billmunchXper 5
1 y
I have a pic of my best female friend wearing a bikini. I use it to masturbate sometimes. I would never tell her, though.
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sheikalanaMaster
1 y
I actually have a few straight friends I’ve never been attracted to.
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ThinkerShell
1 y
You mean there are non-straight ones and you are into them?
libsaretardsYoda
1 y
I have more female friends than male friends. One of them is my crush and she is single and it seems like we will be dating soon. The rest I have no attraction to.
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ManOnFire
1 y
Awesome.
snackthatsmilesbackYoda
1 y
All of them?
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boombastikXper 5
1 y
Umm, yes I'd screw them all given the chance. There are some I've been friends with for almost 40 years and if I knew it would not mess things up, id hit it.
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exitsevenMaster
1 y
Well, I guess you caught me. I had a few female friends and at some point I was maybe attracted to each one of them. I never did anything about it though.
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humanearthMaster
1 y
Yes, one of them we been friends for about 40 years. Give or take a year or two
We never fooled around or anything
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bowenwMaster
1 y
A few, yes.
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DarkWinterNightsYoda
1 y
No, I don’t really have female friends. Only women I know are either co-workers or married to my male friends.
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EyeKnowMeNahYouXper 5
1 y
Yes, but they're good people
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FilmGuy93Guru
1 y
Yeah.
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JHNS98Xper 7
1 y
I have many female friends, but I don't really hang out with them that much. Though I do struggle with an attraction to one of my friends to this day. I've been attracted to her for seven years, meanwhile she has been in a relationship.
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12 114I have plenty of female friends I'm not interested in
I have lots of female friends, I'm sure none of them are attracted to me..
But do you have any that YOU aren’t attracted to?
At this point I don't care anymore. The thought of being in another relationship makes me feel sick.
Well what happened
@malwins I'm divorced
yes more then 1
Almost never , except 2 platonic ones in sometime during my lifetime , the both were when I was in primary school in different years as a child lol But those were unintentionally and I have never felt any emotional things against anyone excluding those. Thankfully , I never told them anything not to be got wrong and mess up our friendship just lived my inside , I have been always shy against the opposite gender like I am now already.
Almost always I mean
I'm not attracted to any of them lol
Yes I do but the reason could be that I have klinefelter but they don´t know because I haven´t told. I try to do my best showing an interest in them and at the same moment signaling that I´m not interest in sex and it works suprisingly well.
Like those friendships aren´t that deep but most of friendships with men aren´t either so they are surely similar.
Besides that I do know when I don´t consider hot or overly attractive but I like their opinions to certain topics like the development of society or others and I like spending time with them.
Yes, of course. It gets more common as people age and a lot of people get overweight.
I do. Vice versa. I'm extremely close with my guy best friend, probably never been closer to another human like I am to him, but I don't wanna date him.
Same here! I have more interactions with my female friends than my friends, but I really don't feel any kind of attraction to any of them. I don't know why, but it kind of feels really good to be in this position. You have healthy relations too and at the same time, just can disconnect whenever you want. Total freedom.
@The_Shadow_Dweller IKR. Relationships don't always last, but friendships sure as hell can
Damn right!
I have a pic of my best female friend wearing a bikini. I use it to masturbate sometimes. I would never tell her, though.
I actually have a few straight friends I’ve never been attracted to.
You mean there are non-straight ones and you are into them?
I have more female friends than male friends. One of them is my crush and she is single and it seems like we will be dating soon. The rest I have no attraction to.
Awesome.
All of them?
Umm, yes I'd screw them all given the chance. There are some I've been friends with for almost 40 years and if I knew it would not mess things up, id hit it.
Well, I guess you caught me. I had a few female friends and at some point I was maybe attracted to each one of them. I never did anything about it though.
Yes, one of them we been friends for about 40 years. Give or take a year or two
We never fooled around or anything
A few, yes.
No, I don’t really have female friends. Only women I know are either co-workers or married to my male friends.
Yes, but they're good people
Yeah.
I have many female friends, but I don't really hang out with them that much. Though I do struggle with an attraction to one of my friends to this day. I've been attracted to her for seven years, meanwhile she has been in a relationship.
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