Guys, do you have to pull out even when you have a condom?

My boyfriend and i always use condoms during sex but he always pulls out anyway before cumming.
why does he do that? It wouldn't be risky if he finished inside me, would it?
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  • It depends on what you call risky. Condoms, properly used, are very effective birth control. However, no birth control method is perfect. Condoms can break, have holes, slip down his shaft, or slide off his dick after he cums, spilling cum into the vagina. So, to be more safe, he had chosen to pull out, before cumming. It's most probably not necessary to keep you from getting pregnant, but pulling out does decrease the risk of pregnancy. by the way Using a condom properly, includes: Immediately after he cums, put his fingers on the condom, as the base of his dick, to hold the condom on, so it won'g slip off as his dick gets smaller. Continue holding the condom against his dick, and pull out, getting his dick away from your vagina, and disposing of the condom. No cuddling with a bare dick and bare pussy afterward.

    • Your last sentence is ridiculous. People can cuddle naked after sex, semen isn't gonna find its way to her ovaries from their parts externally touching.

    • @oftheHowl : Though the chances of pregnancy is small, there is still a chance of pregnancy from semen dripping from the penis, into the vagina. Especially if the cuddling causes some male arousal, and the cuddling gets tight. Unlikely? Sure. Possible, yes.

    • Umm have you ever actually been naked with a woman? A vagina isn't an open chasm, semen isn't going to go from the tip of a penis, up into a vagina, when it's outside of it. Even if the penis, which hypothetically still has cum on it?, directly touches the outside of the vagina, semen won't somehow "drip" into it lmao. That's not how it works. Now if she's grinding her pussy on his dick while it's still covered in cum, even then it's like a 1 in a billion chance. My point is don't go saying ridiculous shit like don't cuddle naked after sex when it's common as hell and isn't getting anyone pregnant.

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  • No. Not really.
    It's sort of like dropping on airstrike on a patch of land you just artillery shelled. Those little fuckers are dead for sure, maybe the odd time with a bad shelling there might be like 2 left, but the artillery is just adding on the overkill.
    You know what Ripley said, "nuke 'em from orbit, it's the only way to be sure".

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  • I mean, he is just trying to be extra careful. I'd also prefer a guy to pull out when using a condom cause I'm also a very careful person and really don't want to get pregnant by accident. Cause if the condom breaks and none of us knows about it, there is still a chance to get pregnant even though that's rare. So your boyfriend is just trying to be extra careful. Talk to him about it though if you have any concerns

  • It can still be risky.
    Did you not know that condoms break?
    i was having sex and I condom literally snapped. he didn't notice, but I felt it.

    • i know they can break but i thought the chance wasn't that high

    • It's happened to me two different times. Maybe three. I've had sex like 15 times.

    • oh wow.. well thanks then i guess i better leave him do his cautious thing

  • it don't have to be risky, just if the condom breaks, but you feel it, so is not risky.

  • cuz he rlllllllllllllllllllllllly doesn't wanna b a baby daddy

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  • Overly cautious, defeats half of the purpose of wearing it lmao. Ask him to stay inside next time?

    • i did but he still doesn't..

    • Just to ease any fears that other person might be giving you, I've had sex at least 100 times and I've never once had a condom rip. As long as he's wearing one that fits right, he shouldn't worry so much about getting you pregnant. Are you on any birth control by chance?

    • nope, we only use condoms thanks for the reassurance (:

  • He's just trying to be even more safe. Condoms can fail.

  • You don't have to but it's just to be extra safe same way you should also still be on contraceptives

  • Yes as it is just safer. Condoms can slip, or leak. I basically almost always pull out unless right before or after her period...

  • No need to pull out, the condom has that extra tip sack to catch the cum. Completely safe.

  • It wouldn't except if the condom was damaged. But anyway you can check later on, and in the worst case get an emergency pill.

  • No... it would be fine. That's the whole point of using them.
    He's scared to death of getting you pregnant

  • No it wouldn't be a problem, that's the point of the rubber. He then just needs to make sure he holds it on as he's withdrawing from you so nothing leaks out.

  • You don’t have to but you’re aware that condoms are not 100% safe, right? So to be very much in the safe side, yes.

  • It's probably a good thing to do to minimize the risk of pregnancy. Condoms do tear on occasion.

  • He's just being extra safe

  • no he wants to show you cumshot.

  • No not at all

  • I never pulled out

  • You don't have that's why you have to make extra space in the tip

  • No I never did

  • Condom destroys his fun... It irrates

  • What I never understood is when the guy will use a condom and fuck her and then pull out & when it’s time, he takes off the condom and shoots his load all over her pussy. Lol.

  • I case the condom breaks or comes off.

  • He's practising and gaining your trust for when he pulls out without a condom. Then he will forget to pull out and get you pregnant and ask you for marriage and buy you a house to live in with a car and maid. You should tell him to cum inside you.