Guys, do you prefer having sex with a virgin?

Question

I was a Virgin when I first slept with my boyfriend. He'd never been with a Virgin before, actually from what I've heard the other women he'd slept with in the past had been around more than a few times each if you get what I mean. Pretty experienced. And almost all of them were seeing other guys at the same time as seeing him. (So I'm also actually the first girl that hasn't cheated on him or had an open relationship with him)

However I remember when we first did it. It kinda hurt, not bad, but I remember he was REALLY REALLY nervous and had actually put off doing it with me. We'd played around a few times, but I wanted to have sex about 2 months into being together, however he was actually the one that waited until our 3 month mark before finally doing it just because he was nervous.
He said he was scared of hurting me, or that it wouldn't be good, and then my first time would suck because of him so it was a lot of pressure to make sure I was having a good time.
As I said, it did kinda hurt, but I still enjoyed it. I remember he went really really slowly and kept asking if I wanted him to stop.

Is this normal for a guy to do with a Virginia?

God_of_Thunder · Accepted Answer

Whether a girl is a virgin, or not, personally makes no difference in how I feel about her, nor would it make me nervous about doing anything sexual with her.

I would be more gentle, though, when the time came, simply because I know it's not something she's used to, and I wouldn't want to scare her.

Typically, I will give a girl oral, first, and help her to relax, and get in the mood. I would do the same with a virgin, as making sure she's relaxed, comfortable, and aroused can help minimize/eliminate any pain that she may feel.

Thus, my technique wouldn't even change that much, for a virgin.

Leavesbound · Accepted Answer

I'd feel sorry for any guy who does. Virgins are not that common any more and once they have sex they are no longer one and that means if you prefer sex with a virgin you will only be doing one night stands.

I don't care. Sure it probably would be a nice thing to marry a girl who gives me her virginity as a wedding gift on our wedding night but then it's also nice I don't got to teach her much. And then there is the whole part about me not liking to do anything to make a girl cry and busing a cherry hurts, usually.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Nope really don’t like sex with virgins

Red_Arrow · Answer

You are only a virgin the first time, so if his thing is fucking a virgin, he can't do it with you again.

The_Maphio · Answer

Virgins are a pain in the ass. Even if little, it's better if they already have some experience of sort.

Achilles1 · Answer

I wouldn't have it before marriage, so yep, I'd prefer a virgin. I don't want to have it with a girl that's been around the block.

exitseven · Answer

I never had sex with a virgin before.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Fresh v-jay vs a used one? I'll take the Fresh v-jay. 🤪

IHateBeingaMan · Answer

doesn't matter to me

Guardian45 · Answer

No, I don't prefer it, but it's fine if it happens as long as I know it.

Steinkopf · Answer

For me it just seems like a lot fun explaining some stuff about dicks/balls and her exploring the male body. The sex isn't likely to be good but that's okay because it is not the focus and you can have a relaxing evening nonetheless. Also no STD's.

msc545 · Answer

I really don't see why this matters and I certainly don't understand the obsession with virgins on Gag. It's like all the people that keep worrying out loud about this have been transported back to the 1950s when there actually were virgins.