Guys, does having sex too early ruin a woman's opportunity to be with you long term?
Anonymous
I'm wondering if I should hold off on having sex too early with a guy. I typically don't have sex early on, but I will make out or borderline go there if I fw the vibes.
However, it usually causes problems for me later on. What goes through a man's mind when it happens early? Advice?
not at all it shows the girl is confident and also knows what she wants
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dolemite89Yoda
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not at all, i’m more suspicious of girls that make it a point to have you wait for it.
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Amur8711Guru
+1 y
It really depends on the guy, but honestly if he wouldn't wait he isn't for you.
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Amur8711
+1 y
That position looks so fun in picture 😜
lycanthrope3Yoda
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depends on how shallow the guy is
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Texas_guyXper 5
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Not at all.
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Beekeeper2Xper 1
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No. Being a bitch makes the long term no happen.
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Anonymous
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yep it does
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Anonymous
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For me it's the total opposite.
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Anonymous
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No. It's how she acts and having had sex with other people that sabotages the long term.
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Anonymous
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Yup. We know we aren’t that special and you have done it a million times before with random dicks so your value drops to zero
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Anonymous
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I do tend to see a woman differently if she has sex early in a relationship. It's not something I have any control over. My perception of her just changes.
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Anonymous
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Yes, if you want sex early it means that you are not for me.
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Anonymous
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Not really. The guys who don't really want a relationship aren't going to give you one no matter when you have sex. Other guys like me you could bang in the first night and I would see it as fireworks and chemistry between us and I would probably get attached. The only thing that can potentially ruin a chance at a relationship for me is if I find out that she has friends with benefits or a racial preference for a different race than me. Even if she says she's gonna stop seeing them, I still don't feel great about the situation. It's a lot to compete with, but I could try.
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Anonymous
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If you give sex early to him, you probs give it early to other guys. A man respects a woman from whom he has to earn sex. Doesn’t mean he’ll like it in the moment, but liking someone isn’t the same as respecting them
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0 36not at all it shows the girl is confident and also knows what she wants
not at all, i’m more suspicious of girls that make it a point to have you wait for it.
It really depends on the guy, but honestly if he wouldn't wait he isn't for you.
That position looks so fun in picture 😜
depends on how shallow the guy is
Not at all.
No. Being a bitch makes the long term no happen.
yep it does
For me it's the total opposite.
No. It's how she acts and having had sex with other people that sabotages the long term.
Yup.
We know we aren’t that special and you have done it a million times before with random dicks so your value drops to zero
I do tend to see a woman differently if she has sex early in a relationship. It's not something I have any control over. My perception of her just changes.
Yes, if you want sex early it means that you are not for me.
Not really.
The guys who don't really want a relationship aren't going to give you one no matter when you have sex. Other guys like me you could bang in the first night and I would see it as fireworks and chemistry between us and I would probably get attached.
The only thing that can potentially ruin a chance at a relationship for me is if I find out that she has friends with benefits or a racial preference for a different race than me. Even if she says she's gonna stop seeing them, I still don't feel great about the situation.
It's a lot to compete with, but I could try.
If you give sex early to him, you probs give it early to other guys. A man respects a woman from whom he has to earn sex. Doesn’t mean he’ll like it in the moment, but liking someone isn’t the same as respecting them