Guys, does it mean you are attracted to a woman while you get an erection while cuddling in half spoon position or is it just a normal reaction?

[Anonymous]

Does an erection mean you like her very much or is it something you always get when cuddling a woman and might not mean anything? thanks

[connemara_crocodile]

It means that the girl turns me on, which it's not the same as to say I like her, but obviously attracted to her in some way.

I've been hard for being "close" to a woman who I only find attractive at an intelectual level, and even to a woman who I have no attraction whatsoever but just because I knew she liked me, the sexual tension turned me on alone

[ChrisMaster69]

It’s a normal reaction, sit a guy in a chair and put a cushion on his lap or even a cat. He will likely get hard.

[Asker]

yes but when it is a half-spoon position then nothing is touching this part of him. before i thought that men get erections when they like you more than a friend. but now i am told that it is just a normal reaction and doesn’t mean that he likes a woman more than a friend?

[ChrisMaster69]

Guys can get hard for loads of reasons, I get hard randomly all the time. Yes there is a good chance cuddling up with someone you like you will have a greater chance of getting hard. Equally sitting listening to music I can end up with a hard on

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

If I was a guy and there was a woman’s butt near my penis, it would get hard too.
I think that there had to have some level of physical attraction to even end up cuddling, so yes

[DonkeyDan]

Mostly a normal reaction if spooning a woman.

[Asker]

even when nothing is touching this part of him? so it really doesn’t mean that he is attracted to you and it is just a normal reaction to closeness and cuddling?

[boggboss]

Yes there has to be some level of attraction

[jahaims]

If a guy is cuddling you he is attracted toyou

[Asker]

but sometimes you can also cuddle a friend who is a girl. so if you would cuddle a friend who is a girl and you get an erection even though it is a half-spoon position it might not mean that you like her more than a friend as it is just a normal reaction?

[jahaims]

I know zero guys who have cuddled a female friend.

[Asker]

I just had a guy friend who I know for years. I asked for a hug as I was so lonely and sad. He initiated cuddling and held me for ca 2h. He had an erection the entire time and got quite turned on, but all he did was just give me forehead kisses and held me. I asked how he sees me, he said friends. So it meant nothing and he is not attracted to me?

[jahaims]

Again if someone is cuddling you they are attracted to you

[Caliguy88]

I’d have to be attracted