A man that doesn't want to date a promiscuous woman isn't doing anything wrong. A lot of women and people on this site complain about some double standard. That a man can sleep around but a woman can't.
I'll tell you how it is because I'm a man who thinks there's nothing wrong with the double standard. Here's why.
Women CAN sleep around if they want to. If a woman wants to sleep with 50 guys a year that's her choice. No one ever said they can't do that but there are consequences by doing so. A woman that has slept around and a woman that is a virgin are not the same...
Now I would sleep around but I would NEVER date a woman that has. It's my dating preference. What I want in a woman isn't your business. I don't care if the girl walking down the street has slept around. I do care if my future wife has though. I don't care if I'm unreasonable or feeding a double standard. Women aren't exactly reasonable either. It doesn't matter. IF A MAN DOES NOT WANT TO DATE A PROMISCUOUS WOMAN THAT'S HIS CHOICE AND ITS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS.
If you want to land a man that wants a virgin that don't have sex until marriage. If you're a woman that has slept around but still want a man that wants a virgin and blames the way he thinks and society than you're ashamed of your past. If you're a woman that has slept around than date a man that doesn't care about a woman's past but don't try to land a guy that does care and when he dumps you don't blame society or the double standard.
Things have consequences...
What Girls & Guys Said
26 47You do you
That's fine, more for me. :-)
Well…you've said that you don't care, so…truth: You are feeding ridiculous double standard, you are…unreasonable…? OK., aybe not that one. But you are hypocritical.
In the end it's about this: you don't have to date anyone who you don't want to date. Regardless of anything (gender, orientation, and so on). Cool.
I, as a guy, would like to date not promiscuous girl, who has strong stance against it. For example. Why? I'm the same way → I'm consistent. And I strongly believe in this.
I like your point of view, your delivery... not so much.
Makes. Me. Hot. To. Date. These. Girls. No. Biggie. They. Get. Horny. Need. Sex. Get. Tired. Of. Masturbating. Have. Sex. Instead. They. Need. To. Be. Satisfied
The author has serious sexual issues and insecurities.
You don't want to give up your right to be promiscuous but you don't want YOUR future girl to be it.
Which girls will you chose to be promiscuous with then?
Do you you consider them throw away flesh?
Or do you prefer hookers?
Girls don't have to date promiscuous guys either.
Freedom is choice, but there are consequences for actions, yes.
Exactly, I don't. I know most girls my age have definitely had past relationships and dated around, but it's easy to tell who's the more monogamous, committed type and who isn't.
So basically you're a hypocrite, congrats.
Yes it's way easier for a woman to get laid, but at the same time, no one is forcing men to be promiscuous when they have the chance to.
Everyone has different opinion about it :) I respect all.
Your rules are your rules. Whatever they are. Nobody is forcing anyone to do anything. Knew a heavy black girl wouldn't fuck a dude without a 6 pack. She must have weighted 275. Always had a jacked boyfriend
I don't date whores because I have to, I do it because I want to.
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No one can force you to date promiscuous girls, but they can call you out on hypocrisy if they feel like it. "Things have consequences..." I totally agree, stop complaining then dude.
They can call you out on hypocrisy? Can I call sluts out on promiscuity?
In my opinion, yes, if by sluts you mean all of them both male and female. If not, it's not like I can stop you. Most women hate this double standard and they also have all the right to keep pointing out how stupid it is. That's all I'm saying here.
As if there are no double standards that benefit women. Typical. Women want “equality” but only when it benefits them. If you wanna sleep around like a man and act like a man expect to be treated like one. But women want to be treated as innocent little princesses but suck 4 dicks every weekend...
If they call me stupid I will call them sluts.
@Lika_sal97 Okay, sweetie. You can move along now. myTake Owner, sure and women have such easy lives blah blah I get it. If you think sex is special and need a strong emotional bond with a woman to enjoy it, it would actually makes sense to not be a woman who doesn't think sex is a big deal. But that's not the case with you, it's just that sluts are too "worn out" right? I'm a virgin, I can see the appeal, but don't think it makes a difference. Even if it did, a slut is just a woman with the morals of a man...
The thing is, women don't gripe about this because they want a guy who didn't sleep around.
They gripe about this because THEY want to sleep around as much as possible, and then not feel guilty. If women actually had an issue with promiscuous men, dating culture would be very different than it is today.
Why would we feel guilty though? I don't have any guilt about my sex life. I left that noise behind in High School. I'm griping about his being an asshole.
@MlleCake you're on par with the guy who gripes that girls are hypocrites for wanting to date guys taller than themselves.
Why would we feel guilty though?
@MlleCake Guilty might not be the right word. Perhaps "suffer consequences" or "be viewed as not girlfriend material."
Ok, but WHY?
@MlleCake simple. Women who slept around aren't viewed as good of girlfriend material by men.
What you're not getting is that contact with a penis does not strike us suddenly worthless. The penis is just not that powerful an object. YOU are making a choice to denigrate women for doing exactly what it is we are groomed to do since birth. Men both simultaneously want/pressure/coerce women into bed, THEN want to denigrate us for doing the exact thing they desire the most. This ridiculous double-standard is not a natural consequence. It's not biologically or evolutionarily based, it's none of that. It's a tool of oppression, and I am going to keep reminding people that it is, until ideas like yours go extinct. Men and women can be excellent life partners after having been promiscuous, it's proven, it's true, it's a societal phenomena we observe frequently. So, the hypothesis that unchaste women are bad girlfriend/wife material, is well, demonstrably false, often enough, that declaring it as a universal truth is just asinine sounding. The idea isn't based in observable reality.
@MlleCake actually the statistics already show that the odds of divorce go up with the woman's partner count. We have seen more and more acceptance of women with high partner counts in the USA--but the marriage rate is the lowest ever recorded in American history. So yes, men are becoming accepting of sluts. Because they aren't marrying the sluts, so little to lose.
The same applies when a virgin woman dosent want to date a dude thats slept around. There are always two sides to a coin. Everyone has preferences and every decision has consequences. Its just a matter of finding someone who is ok with all of you and you them.
What about if a woman doesn't want to date a promiscuous man? How do you feel about that?
Next up:
"Why it is ok to bang prostitutes and 100 sluts since the age of 15 but still want a virgin as your wife"
It is okay as it is his life.
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Men who sleep around are the reason why virgins are going extinct, how do you then want to be with a virgin?
While you give your dick the right to dive in many pussies, you want the other guys to only masturbate in order to spare a virgin pussy for your dick to retire in.
How do promiscuous girls exist? guess
By having sex with promiscuous guys or with promiscuous ghosts?