Guys and girls on crossdressing?

Question

What is your honest opinion about crossdressers. Please be honest, be specific.

truthbeknown · Accepted Answer

It seems to be one of the least accepted fetishes there are. Men are labeled automatically gay for having interests in it or doing it, which baffles me. Many women say they would instantly dump their boyfriends if they ever found out. I understand that as women want their man to be manly, but it is harsh to be cast aside or thrown out with the trash for having a fetish. I love it. This is my fetish, my kink. I have a thing for wearing womens lingerie during sex. That's it for me. I have no interest in fully dressing or going out, that isn't for me. But I think it is great to see and neat sometimes too with respect to how convincing some guys can be. My wife totally hates it, assumed I was turning gay. I really don't understand what having interests in womens clothes, womens looks, being feminine or feeling pretty has to do with being attracted to another man? My wife tolerates it so I can enjoy it. This is something I do only 2-3 times a year because I know she isn't into in and doesn't enjoy it, so I can't really enjoy it either.

justjoshky · Accepted Answer

Wow this is very tough to answer.

If someone in the privacy of their home wants to wear clothing that's not designed for their gender then that's their business and who really cares? It seems to be pretty much of fad now where some people feel comfortable in the other genders clothing.

There are drag queens there's also cosplay any of those environments it may be harmless.

The last ones attire is there to harass people that is their personal expression and why aren't they giving that right?

Now some can argue that transgenders also crossdress. I'm a tad confused about transgenders on how there seems to be more and more each year. Some people argue that if they're dressing as a parent opposite gender that it's wrong when you're trying to pick up somebody that's obviously straight. Yet on the flip side they have a transgender woman is in a gay bar why can't she dress as a transgender woman?

MlleCake · Accepted Answer

My experience in BDSM means that I have meat and dealt with many crossdressers, transvestittes, pre-op trangender people, post-op, androgynous types, and butch/stud lesbians.

My experience with most cross dressing men is that they don't often respect or understand women. They have a fetish for the humiliation of being "feminized" and that is actually pretty insulting to women.

Many are just trying things out because they believe they may be transgender. That's a whole different story. They come off differently when you talk to them.

NicoletteKomotov · Accepted Answer

Love them. They're the best of both worlds. When a guy takes the time and effort to be the most feminine he can be, it changes him for the better and he loses all the unlikeable parts of masculinity such as machoness etc. He becomes sensual, sexy, powerful and a delight to be with. A girl then has a girlfriend to shop with and cuddle, and a girlfriend with something special under her dress to be able to indulge in and enjoy together sensually and passionately. I prefer feminized men like the ones in these pics.

DinaM · Accepted Answer

Whatever floats your boat, I say. ^_^ I've known guys who looked better in a dress than I do!

CrazyTurboBeast · Answer

Weird. Don’t get it.

hahahmm · Answer

As long as someone is not trying to harm others I’m pretty open minded.

ChronicThinker · Answer

I don't care what they do but, like, I wouldn't date someone like that. We could be buddies.

colorsoft · Answer

Why should anyone care?

EmmaMary · Answer

I know and fully realise that I shall be in the minority, in saying that it simply makes my blood run cold with just the sheer thought of it.
I would not be able to bare seeing my fiancé dressed up as a woman, I like my man tobe just that A Man.

HungLikeAHorsefly · Answer

My wife has a funny T-shirt that I like to wear sometimes. It feels good being a crossdresser. Even if it's technically a unisex shirt.

ScarletAngelic · Answer

I think it's cool and fun for both genders. I'd do it, and consider doing it for cosplay.

billmunch · Answer

I'm a straight guy who started cross dressing about 10 years ago and I love it!. I'm only a partial cross dresser, though, meaning I wear panties and hose under my pants and long dresses and sometimes a bra around the house, but that's it. I also shave all my body hair. There's nothing wrong with liking girlish stuff.

MackToday · Answer

It's a kink for the most part but could indicate serous mental illness as in the case of "transgenderism" .

kingofthellamas · Answer

Who cares? Whatever floats your boat.

douride2 · Answer

If your not hurting anyone it won't bother me.

readywriter · Answer

People who go out in public and intend to fool people ordo you mean two bored lovers on a wild Saturday night swapping shirts or pants or whatever between themselves?