Guys Guide: How to Dominate When Going Down on Her

The one thing I hate about watching porn, is that whenever it shows the guy going down on the woman he always looks so submissive. I have to close my eyes and focus on the sounds to actually get aroused. Him looking so submissive isn't exciting at all. And in reality, I need my guy to dominate me during oral. And lots of guys on GAG ask for advice on this, so here are some of the things I'd like...Hope it helps someone:

Guide for guys: How to be dominate when going down on her

Holding me down

I like it when his hands clamp on my thighs and holds them down. Then he licks all around them and my inner thighs before finally touching my vagina. I also like it when he puts his hands on my chest and holds my breasts down. Or he can hold my hip-bones to hold me in place so I can't even move at all. I also like it a lot when he holds my hands to the bed...I just need to feel like he's on top basically.

Dirty talking

When he teases me. A lot of the time in porn, they'll have the guy look into her eyes while he's going down. Usually this makes him seem really submissive, but in real life you can look into her eyes and be dominate. It just depends on the kind of energy you have. And I don't just mean physical teases, but the words. Just all the ways you usually talk during sex, but I like to hear when he says I'm his and that I won't get away...like I need to be teased about escaping and not being allowed to. Just my personal preference.

The technique

A lot of guys can really worry about this, but for me 90% of the reason for me orgasming or not is mental. The physical things don't need to be perfect at all. You could even just lick my clit and I would cum, if you do it right...but I like tongue fucking. And I like him making sounds....one of the sexiest things is when HE moans, like he just loves touching he so much. Not a dramatic moan, but just a low one or even like a slight growl sound. I like him to be dominate like a lot. I also like if we can do fun things, like if he chases me around first and then forces me to submit into having an orgasm. Even if it's only oral, it's really sexy.

So to guys, just because you're on your knees during oral doesn't have to mean you're submissive at all. I can be standing up and he's on his knees, and it's extremely sexy to look at him. It's all about the energy.

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