Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I post this myTake because I see a lot of guys being concerned about this, and I think I must be one of few who really doesn't think it's very hard. Although guys ask the question and hate it if it really is easier for girls to get sex, if you tell them otherwise it's like they still don't want to hear it, but I'm gonna tell it anyway.
The reality is that anyone can get sex pretty easily in these times, not just females. Guys hear from female friends how easy it was to sleep with a guy or hear stories of other girls who had the same success, so because they haven't had the same luck with a girl, they start thinking the problem is them because they're a guy. But it's not because they're guys, and not about their "approach," it's because they've already decided they're going to fail. Also, when you're actually trying to get laid, or being anxious about it, you can kill your chances, yeah.
Most females are also going to tell you they think it's easier for them to get sex based on the rate of guys who hit on them or guys who've actually offered them sex, or based on actual instances where they or another girl they knew really did ask some guy and got it, but most women don't have this success on a regular basis. It's a female form of bragging that is really no different than the kind that females themselves say they hate guys doing when it comes to sex. If women were trying to get sex from guys they wanted, it's usually going to be harder than getting it from guys who are offering, that's what women aren't going to tell you. I also think a lot of women say it's easier for them as a way to deflect from the still large and true fact that many of them have been pretty "easy" for a guy to nail, so they want it to seem like the cards are in their favor instead, more than they really are.
A harsh reality is that females do give sex to males a lot easier than they want people to think but they try to ignore that fact. That's just the truth. All the talk of "standards" and looking for meaningful relationships is often times pretentious, idealistic proclamations more than is really the case. No doubt there are plenty of women who do hold on to those standards, but still quite a lot of women have slept with guys without the guy needing to do much to get it, and without her having any care about standards, and no care about their expectations in men either. Other theories float around that females are less receptive to casual sex than men, worry about a guy violating them, or don't think the instant sex will really be that great for her. And all of this is true, to an extent. Just because 1,000 females weren't receptive to casual sex or had worries, still doesn't mean 1,000 or 10,000 more had those same concerns like studies and research try to tell you. There are actually a lot more women in these times who have no problem with hopping in bed fast, and with little care about their safety or a relationship.
I was so glad when the Whatever channel on YouTube did a do-over of the girl Andrea asking guys on the street for sex at random last year. In the first project from 2013 she asked 14 guys and 7 said yes, and the project chalked her up as an instant winner, compared to their test with Robert Lewandowski, who asked 200 girls and got 0, although the way he asked seemed to be more of a joke, as if the producers set it up to be that way anyway. But when they tried again with Andrea asking 100 guys, 70 turned her down. That's a big number. A lot of people who saw the first viral video took it as fact, but the second one showed us some truth. Seriously, what guy is actually going to oblige some girl on the street asking him for sex at random? That's going to raise an alarm for most of us, not be a dream come true, because most females don't and wouldn't do that, so we're going to think something is fishy about one who's bold enough.
I myself have asked lots of women if they think they could get sex easy if they asked guys (as part of my own social research for my writings) and many say yes, but when I ask them what they think their success rate would be, most start going, "Well, I think it would depend on my surroundings and what type of guys I ask and where..." So which one is it? You either think you can get laid easy or you don't. If you're going to break it down to demographics and location, then you obviously don't think your self-proclaimed feminine sex appeal will work with just any man or even the majority. And really, if women did start walking around asking guys for sex and thinking they can get it, it would actually make sex even easier for guys to get. So when females think it'd be easy for them, they would really be doing a guy a much bigger favor.
In truth it's not really that hard for guys to get sex. Women often depend on looks to attract men, while men don't need them. Guys I've thought to be ugly have gotten laid easy and repeatedly and made me scratch my head. And male charm still works to get plenty of girls in bed. If it was really that hard for guys to get laid then you wouldn't have so many females complaining about how a guy used them or "persuaded" them into sex, blaming him for her weak resistance and standards. STDs also wouldn't be as highly common as they are, neither would unwanted pregnancies. And parents wouldn't be trying to warn their daughters of a guy trying to get them into bed. That pretty much says a guy's ability to get what he wants is more forbidable than we portray it. I also think the idea that it's harder for guys to get laid is generated more and more in these times as a way to lessen male prowess, if you will, and psychologically make him think he has little control over the "playing field," even though he doesn't.
I've read the studies and tests like the classic "Russell Clark experiment," and they don't really mean anything on the grand scale of things at the end of the day. Trying experiments like those on college campus will only get you facts for that demographic and atmosphere, but doesn't go for the rest of life. People also tend to use bar and nightclub scenarios and the Internet to gauge a guy or girl's success at getting laid, and it's just not the same when you apply it to other areas of life. There is a different kind of atmosphere, tension, and expectation in a bar or club that is not the same as being at a bus stop, work, grocery store, mall, etc. While there are cases of guys who struggle to take a girl home at a club while the girls are taking their pick, there are also cases ( - and I know these very well - ) of guys who go to the gym and are already about to nail the fifteenth girl who goes there too. And in turn there are women - some very attractive - who can't seem to get their male co-worker or neighbor to sleep with them. The situations become different and more realistic when you get it down to everyday life.
Females are sexualized more than males and depicted as more desirable, so we're already taught not to think or notice how guys can get sex. We're not supposed to believe guys who talked to a girl once and got laid the next moment. We're not supposed to believe the ones who talk about many different women they've slept with. And we're not supposed to believe that guys themselves have actually turned down women who were looking for it. We're trained to think all this is "rare" when it actually goes on a lot more than we want to think.
So I won't say it's easier for a female to get sex, but I certainly wouldn't say it's harder for a guy either.
What Girls & Guys Said
3 21Yes, guys have harder time, damn it, I'm a 36 years old virgin!
wow dude start asking all the time get that shit fixed
@skeptic007 The problem is - I'm too shy :(
Improve your confidence :)
@Dipsy I can't just buy confidence, how can I improve it?
Why are you shy?
Your request made surprised ne!
@lilalilalila I'm shy since I was born, it's just genetics I guess...
:)) i think it can be ruled out problem What do you feel when you speak with a woman?
My writings can be have some mistakes. Because my native language is Turkish. Loves from Turkey
@lilalilalila I feel awkward when I speak with a woman, because I have low self-confidence... by the way, it's ok - my native language is not English, but I can understand you :)
Nonsense. Guys have a much harder time