Guys, have you ever had spontaneous angry sex?

I don't mean the kind of sex where you feel real anger or rage, but something like where you're fighting with someone and you're both so frustrated with each other. Then someone roughly kisses the other and before you know you're going at it. I've seen this so many times on movies and tv, but is it at all realistic?
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  • I can think of roleplaying - that's what my ex loves to do. conjur up a fight for no reason, because she wants it rough, gets in the attitude - that is cool. If I were actually frustrated with her, sex would have been the last thing on my mind.

    Stuff in the movies is seldom realistic :D

  • Sure have... it was one of the most intense "fuck sessions" I've ever had with a former fuck buddy. My God... it felt earth shattering now that I am remembering it...

    • What made it so earth shattering?

    • The passion! That was fueled by what started as anger. Could hardly remember what we were even arguing about!

    • Thank you for MHO!

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  • Tbh I don't understand the appeal of that.

    • @lumos Depends on what kind of sexual partner you are to begin with. For example if you're submissive then maybe you'd find it attractive to see your bf/husband take control of the situation and be rougher. It's one of those things that are like "it's so wrong (because we're mad) but it feels so right" Did that make any sense? I tend to ramble lol

    • @zorro8888 I consider myself to be pretty submissive, and yeah, I can like it rough. But I'd prefer it if it was a happy rough, not an angry/frustrated rough. Hence, I don't understand the appeal. Doesn't mean I think it's wrong, just that I can't empathize with it. :p

    • Lol I get exactly what you're saying, I was debating this topic with someone else today and overall the thing is even if you're mad, you still love each other so it's not completely a state of anger. I thought it would be fun especially if both people are constantly bringing in some aspects of the fight in sex. So you guys might be lightly wrestling to get on top and make a game out of it xD In the end it might help actually solve the dispute once everyone feels good lol

  • Yeah it happens. And it's pretty hot when it does.

    • Can you explain what's going through you're head when it does?

    • Well we had gotten back from doing the food shopping. Traffic had been a nightmare. We still had to cook dinner. The dog needed fed. We were putting the shopping away and bumping in to each other. Having little spats. And things just got really tense so I just grabbed her, kissed her and carried her to the couch. Couple of torn shirts later we just ordered a take away and she showered while I finished tidying up. If was really good. Just a release of the days tensions.

  • Can't say I've ever had that like in the movies. We've had angry sex like right before bed though. That makes for a good time :)

  • Nope lol!
    usually i dont give them that satisfaction lol
    My ex tried some shit like that during an argument and i pushed her away
    sex doesn't solve everything you know lol!

  • I plan on making my guy mad so we could do that. Sounds hot.

    • Lucky guy

  • It's unrealistic.

  • No.. not yet