Guys, have you hooked up with a girl that can deepthroat?

[SoulGirl]

I've had quite a lot of experience with my past bf and hookups, but I can never seem to deepthroat since my mouth is small in general and I gag when it goes in too far. Is that a turn off? Does this mean I'm not very good?

[Anonymous]

it's absolutely a natural reflex to gag. but the more you try the easier it becomes. guys love it, but it's not necessary to please. so do whatever you're comfortable with. i had tried it a couple times when i was new at it and gagged but my ex was nice about it and didn't think it was a turn off. it also depends on how the guy reacts and how they handle it after- its better (obviously) if they said it's okay. once you start to build confidence it comes easier

[Anonymous]

OOO I have a question related to this too! Is gagging during oral a turn off or nasty?:-( Or the weird choking noises girls make? B/c a guy once told me it was pretty hot (but he was into weird shit lol). And my current bf is a little big and the only time I gave him head I felt like I made a lot of gagging sounds from going too deep, he didn't say anything but is it gross?/:

[amnatural]

doesn't really matter if he is having a satisfying experience by you going deepthroat, he will be totally lost that he wouldn't mind

[AustinMan]

You can learn to deep throat if you want to. Start by using your toothbrush to touch farther and farther back on your tongue. Over time, you can desensitize your gag reflex. Don't try to breathe when he's in your throat. If you hit a place where you can't go further, back off a tiny bit, change the angle and try again. Eventually you'll find the angle that works.

[Crossroads-USMC]

I don't let girls I like suck me. I would much rather go down on them. I just kind of find it degrading for her to do. If she really, really wants it in her mouth, OK, but I don't want her to. I'm like to only cat who REALLY enjoys eating a girl. Like, REALLY... A LOT. Go figure.

[SoulGirl]

Wow I've never heard of that. Every single time the guy expects me from me..

[Crossroads-USMC]

Yeah, my girlfriends are always caught by surprise when I tell them that. I've actually had girls want to break up, but, in the same conversation, ask if I wouldn't mind doing that with them on occasion. I guess it really is a rare thing. Tell me something... When you cum from being licked, is it that much better than a guy's dick? They way my girls with me used to cum suggests so - They shake violently, their abs contract so fast and hard that they can't make a sound - But is it better than say a 7'' cock inside? I'd really like your opinion.

[SoulGirl]

Honestly… In my opinion. It's so much hotter when the guy knows what he's doing and bed and can make me orgasm while he's inside me. I can make myself orgasm by playing with myself, but I won't have the real thing with me. It feels really good being stretched out from a man's nice penis. But if the guy is really small or isn't good, I'll turn to oral and hope he's at least good at that.

[Crossroads-USMC]

Is 7'' too small? Even though I'm pretty thick? I know its not huge, but I have counted girls' contraction while inside her, so I know they had cum. Of course, this was after eating them so they would cum several times before entering therm. But its never as wild an orgasm as when I am down on a girl. That's normal right? And is 7'' really too small?

[SoulGirl]

7" isn't small at all, it's a great size. It's better thick than skinny. Rather have a guy that's short and thick rather than skinny and long any day. Sometimes I hear that girls sometimes have a hard time getting an orgasm through penetration alone. It really depends on the girl. Some like getting off to oral better, and some like the sex!

[Crossroads-USMC]

Yeah, that's been my experience too. Its EASY to make a girl cum with my mouth, but just from my dick, I can only make about 1 out of 5 cum. Its easier to make them cum if I go down on them first until they cum a couple time, then, right before they cum again, switch, and go inside her... but that's kinda cheating. That's really interesting that you'd prefer thick to long. Can I ask you something else, kind of along these same lines?

[HandsomeRaj]

Yes only once though :-( even though ofcourse I'm only an inch or so over average but a bit thick. Whichever way it was good for an experience. Also it's not about if a girl can deep throat or not, it's about how well she can do it and the chemistry between us :-)

Deep throating as is swallowing cum etc is more of a fantasy and not a real requirement most times and hence it's not a turn off for sure :-) and also it doesn't grade how good or bad you are :-)

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[cuzzy]

Na m8 had a shila who could deepthroat my current missus can't but she is a shitload better at giving head than the other shila ever was.

[Michael-in-SC]

Yes, I've been with several who could deep throat. While it is enjoyable, the inability to do so would definitely not be a deal breaker for me, and does not reflect on how good you are in sexually. Some women just can't do it, and I'm OK with that.

[Ihav2fart]

I wouldn't know I'm not long enough to make it "deepthroat".

[Mark987]

No it's not a turn off.. do you do oral normally?

[Anonymous]

I have had only 2 girls who could actually deepthoat me and actually feel good, most girls just jam my cock in the back of their throat repeatedly. Feels like I'm walking in to a wall with my hard-on... it's not pleasurable for me or her so I would rather skip the deepthroat.

[Anonymous]

If a girl was unable to deepthroat me she would have serious problems. Like serious medical problems.

[Anonymous]

don't worry most girls can't. you would have to take drugs or just not have a gag reflex to do that.
Deep throat probably feels good but if you can't do it there is plenty of other ways to please your man.
Good luck and don't stress it. gagging isn't a turn off, and not being able to deep throat doesn't mean you are not good

[Anonymous]

I wish my girlfriend did that to me. I have the enough lenght for she to do an autentic deeptroath, the problem is that she is not intrested so nothing happens when it comes to that.