Guys, how do I become a good fuck buddy? What are some things you've done or want your fuck buddy to do?
please keep this zone judgement free. i have a rough college life and i would like to blow off some steam and relationship is too much drama, no offense
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6 60Try to use your womanly charm and of course sex appeal, us guys are really easy to seduce just try to keep yourself healthy while finding sexy clothing than most guys would definitely want to put their dick inside of you I know I would.
Work on riding fast as you can. It's all in the hips love😉
Whatever rules you've set up, follow them. Also the number one thing, don't get attached. This usually happens and is generally why most friends with benefits don't work because they start to turn into a real relationship.
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I don't do that, only with a girl I care about, that cares about me.
When having sex don’t just lie there for the whole thing, not that I think you do, just saying something that annoyed me. You got to work a little to. I like keeping it fun feeling a connection across the board, not just like I’m getting my rocks off but we’re both sharing an experience that is intangible to some extent. If you really want to just be a fuck buddy get good at it and be honest about what you want even if it’s giving him what he wants.
In college it should be easy. OK, maybe not while covid is here.
You need to be available and have some rules and guidelines first before you actually start having sex. First you might want to start with oral sex or explore each other body and not just jump right into sex. Be open do different things and time to experiment like different positions and maybe roleplay. Also be vocal tell him want you want and like and ask him what he wants and like. Talk dirty and most importantly have fun.
You just go with the flow. You live your life. I live my life. I may text you on my break to come over later. You say sounds good. You come over. We hangout talk. Then we fuck. We can shower together. You can sleep over or just go home. Keep everything positive and don’t bring up unnecessary drama.
Just be safe and socially responsible about it. Like make sure you and he have adequate protection and make sure he knows that this is just about sex and nothing more than friends.
You could just find someone interested in the same and see what he wants to do and if that meshes with what you want to do.
Stroke his ego and don't tx a lot
Very important! 😘
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Best advice. Texting=bullshit guys don't want to deal with.
@spartan55 and crying
@Wowwgirl Yeah, that's bad enough in a committed relationship. But in a fuck buddy situation? Likely an instant out.
@spartan55 I'd leave him
I don't think you're looking in the right place for blowing off steam.
Fuckbuddy relationships sound perfect on paper, but when applied in real life they can be absolutely disastrous to your mental health and social life.
I highly don't recommend, speaking from personal experience and the experiences of my female friends too.
The desperate @Super-sam blocked me because I hit his tiny little ego
You sure it was tiny? Lol
Anyway, I get what you're trying to say. I may try something else I don't know.
Oh sorry, not tiny, I meant non-existent. And hey, have you ever tried online fuckbuddies? I know that ain't exactly the same and there's a huge difference but sexting can be a good way to blow off some steam. Especially with someone you trust and on stressful nights. There's a lot less risk too.
Yes I have. Doesn't work for me.
Hmmmm I assume you feel sexual frustration often? And you think satisfying that frustration could relieve a lot of stress easily?
There are good things about haveing a fuck buddy. First and foremost is that your friends and always remember that comes first.
Jealousy is a issue on both sides and you need to keep it in check.
Experiment with each other's fantasies.
Just have fun sexually with no expectations
Do it online and get paid for it.
I could not tell you, Im usually bored after our first encounter & ill look for you to do something i dont like just to quit talking to you or block you cause i dont like sticking to one girl
A good fuck buddy isn't shy or weirded out from communcating with their buddy about sex.
Once you've gotten the hang of that you can try anything you're both into. Have fun!
Damn wish I could help! Haha.
I’ve had a few fuck buddies before.
So you’re just wanting sex basically right? But u want it with the same person.
Yeah
I get that. Sounds like me sometimes. Haha.
Haha alright
Is it satisfying at least?
Listen, the best thing I can do to be a good fuck buddy is listen to her and her heeds... And not be a shame to ask questions while pleasing her. Putting her pleasure first and foremost. The one thing I have learned is that if I am pleasing her she Will make sure I am pleased as well.
Find a different way
I mean to go though your college life
Girls are shit
Didn't mean that
Then?
What do you mean rough college life?
Too many assignments, homosexual crush is straight, no sexperiment, research psychology is shit, girl drama