Guys how do you act when you get an erection around someone you like?

So something strange happened to me regarding my guy friend.

He was sitting and talking to me. He seemed unsettled and uncomfortable, kept looking around and later found an excuse to get up and not be near me anymore. He ordered some food and later he came back.

I was sitting across him and did not notice an erection per se but my guess is that he was turned on. He has acted like that before when he was having an erection ( found an excuse and stood up, going away and adjusting his pants)

Is that uncomfortable to have an erection, even If nobody can notice It?

Do guys have the need to stand up as soon as they have one?

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  • My heart races and my palms get sweaty whenever I am around someone that I like and get an erection. Whether it’s their melons, boobies, tits, milkers, fried eggs, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, or jugs, that I find attractive, I become overwhelmed with an urge to touch them, to feel them in my hands. This feeling of arousal can cause me to become speechless and my brain to go into overdrive trying to figure out the best way to express my feelings.

    I experience a strong sense of desire when I'm around someone that I like and get an erection from. It's hard for me to suppress my thoughts as my mind constantly fantasizes about what it would be like to hold my partner close and share our most intimate moments.

    Although I have these strong physical sensations, I try to remain respectful and conscious of my decisions. I respect my partner’s boundaries and wishes, no matter how hard it is to control my urges. Although I may be too nervous to verbalize my desires, I still find ways to express them without being intrusive.

    When I'm around someone that I'm attracted to, I try to be as present and attentive as possible. I make sure that they know that I feel comfortable around them and that I enjoy spending time together. I focus on every minute detail and make sure to tell them how beautiful I think they are. By doing this I am able to convey my admiration without overwhelming them with my below-average penis.

    When I get an erection around someone I like, I understand that it can be awkward or uncomfortable for both parties. So, I do my best to maintain a friendly, relaxed atmosphere and put my partner at ease.

    Above all, I want my partner to feel safe and loved when I'm around them and give them the security to be vulnerable and open up. I hope that my actions will allow our connection to grow and that we will become closer each day and that she learns to enjoy my below-average penis between her melons, boobies, tits, milkers, fried eggs, chesticles, honkers, bazoombas, coconuts, fiery biscuits, cantaloupes, boom booms, or jugs.

Most Helpful Guy

  • If she's sitting down I usually find an excuse to stand so things are... on eye level. That way if she makes a comment I can say something like "what can I say, you really do it for me" (even if it wasn't her that caused it). If we're standing, like on the rooftop cafe at the museum, or the JRK center, I'll try to stand perpendicular to the wind so she'll be able to notice through the fabric as it get hung on me. Somewhere else inside, I don't know... overhead stretch?

Most Helpful Girl

  • I agree with virtualwasp sometimes this happens to my guy friends too and I ignore it and I don't think they want me jajjjaja😹😹😹 I guess guys untimely triggered or have constant sexual desires and sometimes can't suppress it.

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  • Well first of all just about every guy I know can control their erection they either make it happen or they don't make it happen it's that simple it just doesn't happen out of the blue so if he's making it happen and then acting as if he has no control of it I would die laughing on the ground I would just die laughing that's all I would say LOL that's all I can say besides w TF dude

  • If I'm wearing a tight pair of pants, I'll usually try to get behind something to obscure their view of my penis, but because I have a very small dick, I usually don't have to worry about her seeing it.

  • No.. there's nothing physically uncomfortable of having a boner..(unless when you are wearing pants or underwear that are really tight around that area LOL)

    Anyone would be obviously embarassed if someone sees their boner!!!

  • Just try to shift it around so it isn't noticeable.

  • Well from what I’ve read, most men wear their penis straight down so it goes over the testicles. So when you get an erection, the erecting penis is trapped in a precarious position trapped in the confines of underwear and the crotch area of the pants or shorts. However I couldn’t do that and I wear my penis straight up. If I get an erection, yes it shows through my pants as plain as day. But at least I’m not uncomfortable.

  • The first time that happened, she took care of it.

  • I will try to adjust it to get more comfortable or hide it. I'm a horny 18 yr old guy so I get boners all day long even if I'm not think about sex. Jerking off frequently helps somewhat.

  • Always good to let her see, it might start something. If she doesn't like it you can always apologize, sorry it just happens with some girls.

  • If we're taking about a friend and not an so, then, yes, I would find it embarrassing if I got an erection and she noticed it.

    I would do my best to act like everything is fine, but it does get uncomfortable/a little painful if there's nothing I can do about it. Especially if my penis was pointed down at the time I got hard. Then it's like my boner is pointed straight down, in the opposite direction it goes on it's own.

  • I kinda try to hide it or make it not obvious which is a little hard especially I am wearing tight paints in the crotch area. If I feel someone notice I might make a excuse to get up to take care either to make adjustment or find a way to lose my erection. It can be uncomfortable and awkward especially if we got a good size.

  • When I was younger it was definitely much more of an issue because you feel like everyone can see it. Now, though, I don't pay any attention to it. Once you realize that no one is actually looking at your crotch, you don't care anymore, and if anyone was actually looking at my cock I dint really give a damn anymore

  • I can't hide it. If it gets hard the girl will definitely see it. Not anything I can do.

  • depends who it is and do they like it or not

  • It can be uncomfortable based on how our penis is held in our boxers/briefs

  • I sit down or do something to try and hide it.

  • maybe he got hard.
    yes he will kinda be shy

  • lucky me I don't make BIG scene, however in such case it would be stupid to stand and walk to make it away as it will be more exposed, he should have stayed sitting, he should know that.

  • No such experience!

  • Well an errection comes with a strong desire too so yeah you kind of need to slap yourself and maybe use some cool water to chill sometimes if that passion and desire are otherwordly.

  • Having an erection with pants on is VERY uncomfortable. It's not healthy for your penis, either.