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Guys, how dominant or submissive would you like a girl in bed to be?

100% submissive, I like to take care of her in bed
Vote A
I like to do all the work most of the time, just once in a while I'd like her to take charge
Vote B
70%/30% I like her to be submissive, but sometimes she takes charge
Vote C
50/50 I want us to take turns equally
Vote D
30%/70% I am more submissive, I like her to be dominant more than me
Vote E
I like her to be dominant most or all of the time
Vote F
Other
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I like a girl who's submissive but that doesn't mean she has to be passive. We can come up with more hot ways for her to be submissive together. If I always have to have all the ideas and she's too passive it will get tiring. I don't think submissive has to equal not taking part. The meeting of our minds, exploring together what we're into and coming up with new things we've never thought about before is one of the coolest and hottest things about having this kind of relationship.

    • I know this, I never implied passive is same as submissive, so if she is suggesting ideas but still likes when you always take control of her body would that be enough for you?

    • Yeah. I also love when the girl just says or does dirty things to pleasure me without my input. That just makes it feel like she's more willing and wants to please me and that's a nice feeling :). Being in control and doing what I want or telling her what to do is also nice. Yeah it would be enough for me I'm not into switching at least not yet. Maybe I'll discover it some day but so far I've never had any desire to be submissive.

    • Not quite getting your point of view if you say you want submissive but also want her to do dirty things to you on her own initiative :) I guess you enjoy both

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  • 50/50 split works for my wife and I We have learned a lot from each other by switching roles. At first I was mostly dominant then one night she said "I want to have some of that fun also". I discovered that by letting her "take over" we discovered more kinks we both had and made sex more intense.

    • Nice, your profile says you are 64, are you and your wife still active sexually if that is not too private?

    • We are. After menopause she can only have penetration once in a while but we still do every thing else.

    • nice

Most Helpful Girls

  • 50/50 or 70/30. My boyfriend, who is a big broad-shouldered guy, likes it when I take charge. Which is good as I can never be 100% submissive in bed.

  • I'm 100% dominant and my boyfriend likes it that way, all of my boyfriends were submissive.

    • Thank you for MHO

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • It is a huge turn on for me to be dominated by a woman
    Not always. But really love it when I am dominated sexually

  • Never had sex, but I think I'm more of a sub, so I'd like to be dominated most of the time, I think.

  • "70%/30% I like her to be submissive, but sometimes she takes charge" sounds perfect. Like most of the time she's sub, but I wouldn't mind her taking lead every once in a while.

  • I enjoy teasing her and being dominate so that it drives her crazy and she can’t help but take action

    • I want her to feel free to be herself and not hold anything back. So if she feels feminine and wants to be submissive I will control things. If she feels more aggressive and wants to direct I will let her to a point. It usually brings my passion on more and I become even more dominant later on

    • Does that make sense?

    • yes, it does :)

  • If dominant, is the same thing as her taking the initiative to do something exciting then yes, submissive-dominant mixes have been my best experiences. I had some very dominant and some very submissive and they were not as good.

  • I’d like her to be willing to every once in a while take on a dominant role, just for some variety and exploring different pleasures.

    • So most of the time you prefer to take charge? or you do it becuase she doesn't take charge otherwise?

    • It’s not that I really “take charger”, we are just in the (seeming) default roles. I’d like to have her take that role every once in awhile, for maybe some light BDSM, try some pegging, etc.

  • It's a sex not a rape. So chances should be 50/50.

    • submissive is not the same as enslaved and forced. submissive is still consensual and allowing her man to do what he wants and enjoying it. wtf

    • If it's she who wants always submissive then it's fine. But if she's not willing and yet he's forcing her to be submissive then it's rape.

    • Forcing to have sex is rape. Even if she doesn't like to be submissive as long as she agrees on having sex it's not rape

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  • There is something sweet and soothing about letting the girl take the lead can't explain it.

    • I get it

  • Completely submissive, but willing to suggest new things to try.

    • Interesting. So I guess it would be new things for you to do to her haha

    • Not always, but things that she would be interested in that I couldn't or didn't think of. Lol.

    • well you said completely submissive, so I guess things she suggests still would be of you doing something

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  • Very submissive like sweet 'ol @Apple1996 is towards her husband.

    • 😆😆😆 hey I can be dominant sometimes

    • Yeah, like how excited your eyes was when seeing all of me.

    • 👀👀

  • Gotta be all sub.

    • Really? What are your reasons for enjoying that?

    • Gives a sense of control which I lack in other areas of my life. At least probably that lol. Tried to let girls play dom but i can't do it. I don't know lol

    • That's fine, it's only natural for a man to take charge especially in bedroom ;)

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  • I’m more into being dominant

    • Cool. But I wonder how the guys prefer it. How does your boyfriend prefer?

    • I can say that it is really really great to be dominated by a woman

  • When it cums to oral what do u perfere?

    • I don't like oral

  • I would like her to strip me and talk dirty to me and rough

    • so your vote is?

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