Guys, How u get a girl to wanna have sex with u?

  • Let me make myself clear: I’m not talking mental manipulation like giving her a horniness pill or something,
  • im talking get her to want to do it with you so she’s not being molested because she’s choosing to do it with you (the same way every guy gets laid)

jus wondering because I’m a 23 yr old virgin n never even attempted to do it with a girl... I have no idea what to say or do to get a girl in bed... I’m pretty sure if I jus went up to a random girl n asked “wanna fuck?”
im pretty sure 99.9 percent of the time it would jus result in a slap or a restraining order... so what do you guys do or say?
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Superb Opinion

  • Just talk to her and pay close attention to the conversation. Be funny, make some jokes when they come to you, tease her over stuff. Be fun to be around. All that means is when you talk, always have a conversation that's going somewhere. Something that's in some way stimulating. It only needs to truly be interesting to one of you.

    And look at her in the eyes, she's gonna catch you glancing at her. And get her comfortable being around you. A girl having fun with a guy more often then not is a girl turned on.

    Listen to what she says, remember things she says, remembering 2 or 3 small details will impress her. If she sees that you understand what matters to her, she's gonna be really turned on. And finally, show some of yourself.

    Don't try to show off, just let things about yourself come out. And you do it by showing, not always telling. When you tell someone about yourself they roll their eyes and come up with a perspective on you that's totally different from whatever you said.

    Women are like pets, you gotta love them and feed them and give them lots of attention... Lol jkjk

    But they do need you to give them a lot of attention.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Know that there is a big difference in sexual attraction between a guy and a girl. And then you should be able to proceed.

    Us guys are easy: we're horny, we want to poke in and emit. Done.

    Girls are complicated. Very complicated.

    1) she is horny, wants a fuck bad.

    2) there's always guys available. Ya very unfair. There's always guys available.

    3) she looks and "hey, he's sexy, he's funny, ... "

    He: "sex?"

    4) that mental image changes to "what if i get pregnant?" "Does he loves me?" "Does he like kids?" "Will he leave me?" Etc.

    5) then she says "I'm not ready".

    You got the point?

    Point is, girls wants more than just a poke. They look for love, they want security of life and relationship, they want to know what we will do when she's most vulnerable.

    So to get a girl for sex, you must enter her vagina through her brain.

    First, woo her, tease her, make her laugh and feels that you're sexy.

    Then assure her that you love her and will care for her and her baby if it were to come.

    Finally, make her feel confident that you're not lying and have her best interest at heart.

    Hopefully when you ask for sex, she says "do you have condoms?"

Most Helpful Girl

  • 😂😂😂 good one. I wouldn't know. When i wanted a man, i would seduce him. Or tell him i want the dick. Any guy or dick i wanted, i always got! By telling him str8 up or seduction. there was Only one guy in my lifetime that rejected me.

    • Exaclly, that why guys dont like sluts even tough girls love players.

    • You guys falls in love with the sluts so stop lying to yourself

    • hmmm, you sound like a troll now

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  • You don't "get her" to have sex with you, she will have sex with you if she wants to, it's fully up to her, not you

    • That’s what I mean... all guys that have ever got a girl to fuck them have unintentionally got s girl to wanna fuck them wothot trying... because there’s something they did that is hot that made them want to do that... I’m asking what is that thing they do... it’s not illegal to recognise and learn whatever that thing is to gain from it... girls use a “secret thing” to make guys wanna fuck them... they grow big booties cos they know it’s hot... is that her “getting him” to have sex with her? Duhhh... “getting people to want sex with” has been happening since the dawn of time... how do u think anyone gets laid if we aren’t truing to be attractive... do u think guys and girls go around smelling and not showering to get some? No, the reason people shower everyday is for that exact reason... To be attractive I knew there was gonna be 1 of you ridiculous snowflakes... should of asked guys only

    • You're an idiot

    • What I mean is how to be the best u can be to be attractive so that girls wanna wanna do it with you... it’s not illegal to try n make urself atttactive and appealing to opposite gender dumbass. Girls do it all the time, is that harassment to men? No

  • I didn't get one yet so I really don't know

  • Just be cool and be yourself. Never talk about what you wanna do. Just make a move when the time is right. Make sure you get her alone and don't be a creep. Not very hard honestly. Take your time.

    • Hmmm,,, so basically you have to sort of develope a relationship with her or conversate with her about something beforehand?

    • And then jus slowly make little moves?

    • It's all about the vibes that you feel. You should be asking other questions before asking the one you have here. It's all about the journey.

  • Pretend you care about her and be around here be good to her than make your move.

  • I ask her out. We date for a while and decide if we're both ready to do it.

  • Unless you are good at talking and flirting and appearing sexy, your best chance is a girl coming to talk to you.

    But if you really need sex, the best way is to hire a prostitute

    • True

  • I'm a bass player.

    • I look at ur pic after you say that and I laugh HAHAHHA U madman

    • I guarantee you wouldn't say that to my face

  • You don't say anything you just start kissing long kissing usually always turns into sex. Women get turned on by kissing with passion. Then after a while you do little moves test her, touch her boob or between legs if she doesn't push you away you are on the horse.

  • just be confident. Make a move and don’t apologize for it. Tell her to let you know if you’re making her uncomfortable which will prepare her, then get comfy. You have to get physical, not saying grab her boobs first date but hold her hand, put your arm around her waist and pull her in