My best friend's girlfriend told him that she wanted to fulfill a lifelong fantasy of being with two men. The two of them invited me to participate, and it ended up being an amazing experience for all of us. I think it worked because we were all good friends, we talked about the ground rules from the beginning, and the two of them were very secure in their relationship. Other pluses were that he had a very large penis (mine is average) and that I love eating pussy (whereas he did not) because these naturally defined our respective roles with her. I was very comfortable with the fact that she selected him almost exclusively for vaginal penetration while I had the pleasure of going down on her, providing anal penetration, being sucked, etc. It was a wonderful experience for all of us, one that I would happily to entertain again if asked.
He had a very large penialso a plus because it defined our roles very naturally.
Depends on the guy.
I wouldn't want to share my girlfriend with someone else even it's with other girl.
true dat^^
Three somes are devastating on a relationship just trust me.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!1. I have always told my gf if I wanted a 3sum, nothing embarrassing for me in that
2. If my gf gave me the idea I'd be thrilled (I was given the idea by a gf and I WAS thrilled) and we'd do it (I'd look into any safety factors on all counts though)
Beleive it or not as a man unlike in the movies and the p*rn I am not for a threesome no good can come of it and it will destroy your relationship I would say dont do it.
If I was not in a real monogamous relationship then why not. If I was with a woman I thought only wanted me then that would be a problem. I have lived that life. I know many people think they will always stay with their SO but you wont. As soon as random guy hits spots you didn't know even existed your BF will fall back eventually sitting on a couch drinking a beer thinking life sucks. I've been random guy back at 22 and she was 20 and he was 30. He was supposed to be the man. This was a train, totally hetero. I was in the back at first and he was in the front. After that I stopped and he went solo. He tried his best to give her an orgasm. When he realized it wasn't going to happen he asked why she wasn't. Her response ended their relationship. She said because I came three times with him (me). That broke the guy. It was all fun until someone does it better. I promise you someone will not only do it better, but way better.
I think this would be a difficult situation for people within a relationship. Inviting someone else to have sex can be difficult, as it puts a barrier between two people (not physically). Personally most guys or girls within a relationship wouldn't want to share. Wanting to invite a guy into a threesome would make your boyfriend think you don't want just him, and with another girl you'd probably get jealous. Probably better to leave a threesome to someone you aren't in a relationship with
I would be okay with this.
I would think that all guy fantasize about a 3some with 2 girls... But most probably wouldn't do it... I wouldn't..
1) I don't want share my girlfriend with anyone
2) What are the emotional consequences... (Who is that guy on friends? His wife left him for another girl?)
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I'd be highly against it. I really don't have any interest in sharing. Just because you're not my property doesn't mean I'm going to stay your boyfriend if you try something like this.
If you need to bring another person into a relationship then the relationship is over. Nobody that loves somebody is ok with them having sex with another person. Even if your there with them. All your doing is trying to convince yourself that it will "spice" up a relationship that is over.
So if she said that to me I would ask her why her shit isn't already packed up since obviously we are done. It would be over that second.
Well said. :)
Does he seem like he has the personality that would go for it? Is he sexually adventurous or more conservative. Deep down inside, would you prefer it to be w/ another girl or guy? I would be pleased if it was brought up.
It works IF the third person is just a toy. I'm only being honest here. It's a great experience, but jealously is real (I don't give a shit how open-minded you think you are) and there can be a lot of emotion tied up in it. The third person needs to realize they're there as a toy. No attachments. Don't look into her eyes and talk dirty to her, etc. That person, girl or guy, is there for your pleasure AS A COUPLE.
I'm up for it and have done it a few times.
It is very exciting to be sharing with two people.
My Gf suggested it once or twice, but never followed thru.
I had a bud that had some horny girlfriends that we did up a few times.
Yes Yes Yes
I just posted this exact question pretty much a few days ago. My gf mentioned to me a few times that she thinks it would be hot to do a threesome with another girl but never with another guy. I think if you want to do one only mention it being with another girl. Two guys would be devastating to a relationship.
Of course all guys would say yes to another girl but hell no to another guy. So it's better to say no to them.
With a girl, yes. With a guy, hell no.
I wouldn't want it with another guy.
But if my girlfriend was bisexual i would consider another girl so she can experiance some of her fantasies with another girl. Its also because that way i wouldn't have to split my attention between the girls as much as if they wanted me to do everything.
It's a little weird for a girl to ask for a threesome
If my gf asked me I would be quite confused because i think that she is maybe testing me if I love her.
Any guy would be love to have a threesome but you should find the right moment to ask your boyfriend about it
If you're my official girl I'm not sharing!!! If I don't really care about you and it's just a sexual thing. I'll be down for it.
Yes I would be up for it and love women who think like you
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