Guys I am a complete pervert and I keep lusting after my boss... what do I do?

Help help help.

This situation has reached humiliating levels.

I'm kind of dating my boss... oops. He's not directly my boss, he's CFO and I'm just a random graduate analyst. Company is so big, we didn't realise we worked in the same building until I was moved to his floor.

Actually the people around us, coworkers and such haven't given us a hard time about it. The executives must know because they're all friends anyway. And my coworkers have been super relaxed about it, they even tease me. At work we ignore our relationship completely, we agreed it would be easier to stay focused this way.

But here's the thing, he told me even though he quite likes me near, he could move me to a different department if I'm uncomfortable... and there I was all noble, like it's no issue at all... totally fine.

But okay, I don't know since when I became such a lewd and lusty person, I was very innocent up until recently... but I cannot concentrate at all. I can't think straight. He's in a glass cube thingy in meetings, I can see him from my desk and I just keep staring at him while he's speaking. I feel like a horny teen boy. It was only recently he was making a speech and I was really effected, I was very wet. I'm sorry for being so blunt, but he's very sexy, I'm going to have to start bringing a change of underwear to work!

Anyway, I already told him everything is fine, and he doesn't seem to have any trouble, but without sounding exaggerating... I cannot continue like this! I also feel bad for being unprofessional because I can't resist visiting him sometimes.

I suppose I should just tell him and acknowledge it but I feel very embarrassed. What should I do... I'm worried I being creepy and I really don't want to cause fuss for him when he's so hardworking.
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  • Its normal for someone to be attracted to their s. o. in any heights.
    If it affects your work or puts a strain on your performance at work it will probly cause him a problem so to help that try find a different floor through him or the company itself

  • One quick question before I answer: are you currently or potentially a kinky couple? If so, that opens some fun options.

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  • While it may be difficult to deal with, its natural to have strong feelings of desire!
    How did it start off with him?

    • I joined the company on internship and was offered a permanent role. By this time we were already dating without realising we worked at the same company. Then on my first official day I was a bit surprised to see him.

    • Wow, ok. How old are you two?

  • Keep it professional. Don't shit where you eat.

  • If I was him I'd fire you for being a distraction. And dating the boss to me is very taboo.

    I mean if you get a raise or get moved to a higher position doesn't matter if you deserve it. Other workers are going to think you only got it because you're sleeping with the boss.

  • You should tell him. If your work suffers because you can't stop watching him it's best to change departments to ensure you aren't fired.

  • Control it and go watch porn or date someone else.

  • Tell him and take the move. Don't risk your job. Keep it professional at the office.

    How do I get to be your boss? Being lusted after at work sounds like fun. :)

  • You just have strong pheromonal attraction to him. If you think you can transfer companies it may make it easier to work. It sounds like you to are completely physically compatible. If you guys share beliefs, why not marry sooner?

  • Just go to him and tell him you thought you could handle it; but he is just too sexy. So you need to be transferred; before you soil another pair of panties. Then leave the panties you just soiled with your love juices on his desk.