Guys, if a friend accidentally finds you getting undressed, would you prefer it if she did it in secret, or kept staring until you saw her gazing?

As in, a female friend who accidentally walked past the room you were getting undressed in, and she was attracted to you enough to want to stand there as long as possible to see what you looked like. Would you be offended if she kept staring even when you looked over and saw her, and would prefer it if she at least tried to be a bit more discrete about her curiosity by running away embarrassingly?

I'd be comfortable if she continued staring instead of running away to avoid getting caught watching
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I would prefer to not find out she was watching me
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  • This actually happened to me , with a so called girl friend of mine that I just considered a friend , even though i thought she was attractive , I considered her a friend , we were at a party at my friends’ house. I kind of knew she was attracted to me from the way she was flirting with me that night but I didn’t act on it , cuz we were both boozed up.. We ended up passing out at my friends’ house in separate rooms , i eel asleep on his couch and she fell asleep in the spare bedroom The next morning I woke up early and jumped in his pool to sober up lol I then went back in to his house to change into my clothes to get ready to leave. , and that’s when I noticed my so called girl friend checking me out and staring at me, I looked at her and jokingly said Do you like what you see? And she smiled and nodded yes , I said Come here, and she did and we ended up making out and screwing in the spare bedroom.
    Pretty much why opposite sex friends can’t really be friends , they can be if there is no attraction to each other what’s so ever, She wasn’t the only so called girl friend I ended up on bed with , so it just goes to show what can possibly happen when you have opposite sex friends

  • The first one. I'm an exhibitionist so that is hot as fuck and would turn me on so much

    • So many great answers and you selected MINE. Thank you very much. I really appreciate that🙂

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  • I see no reason for her to feign embarrassment. If she's enjoying the show, let her do so unashamedly and communicate that she was not disturbed by the experience. The idea of her trying to take in what she can without my being aware of the fact has some appeal to it. (It may insinuate that she is into me but is nervous of how I might react to knowing that, and for some reason that is an interesting dynamic that is, of course, not something that is generally within the scope of my knowledge.) However, I find that honesty is the best policy, so we might as well not play any games and be upfront about our true feelings. That way there's no misunderstandings.

  • I wouldn't be offended she wanted to watch but honestly I would be very uncomfortable actually. Prefer her not to watch as flattering as it would be

  • I would feel awkward if she just stood there staring at me.

    • why lol

    • Uh, why do you think? Smh 🤦‍♀️

    • i’m asking to understand because the same thing happened to me i’ll tag you in my comment

  • No big deal, especially if she's sticking around for the show.

  • It happened to me when a friend (who is a sports massage therapist) was going to be massaging me in my room at our shared apartment - she told me to undress and wrap the large towel she placed on the bed around me

    She left the room and I undressed but my phone rang and I took the call - before I could even unfold the towel she came back in and I saw her eyes almost automatically looking down directly at my pns -- her gaze was very intent, I have to say that made me feel sexual and 'it' almost instantly became semi-erect !

    In truth, I loved the fact she stayed and looked at my nakedness, and nowadays if/when she massages me I like that I can be uninhibitedly naked in her presence

  • when my friends did this they would just walk in, joke about it one way or another... and then just go on with their day

  • Your framing of this question was a very good way at veiling the equivalent and simplified way of asking if you are secure w. r. t your self image or insecure.

  • I’d prefer it if she just walked in. Chances are if I left the ability to see me even open I was trying to show off.

  • I'd be perfectly okay with her watching me. I'm pretty sure most women have seen naked or half-naked men before, so it's no big deal.

  • Depends on which friend, but I'm fairly comfortable in what's left of my body so I'd be ok if she came in and say down.

    If she tries tucking notes in my boxers it might be weird though...

  • It would depend on the nature of the friendship and whether I was attracted to the friend.

  • Don't have any female friends that being said if someone saw me undressing they can do whatever they want long as it doesn't involve me. If they want to stare they can stare. If they want to run away they can run away.

  • Other.

    So, IF I was single in this scenario, I'd feel flattered that she wanted to get a sneak peak sooo I wouldn't mind her looking me over. That said, I'd feel really awkward if she kept watching me once I noticed so I'd prefer her to get embarrassed and run away lol

  • this has happened to me lol

    was getting undressed got down to my pants and as i pulled them down i heard a laugh i look up and saw her waiting at my door id have much rather her say something then me expose my little willy to her😂🤦‍♂️

    • @abbycado

    • Why were you changing with the door open?

    • Cool story, bro.

  • I wouldn't much care in either case. I'm sure she knows what a dick looks like, assuming she's an adult so, what's the point of hiding it. If she wants to get a good look, go right ahead.
    IF I covered up upon discovering her there, it'd be because I wouldn't be sure that she'd WANT to see it. If I found out or already knew she didn't care, I wouldn't bother or, if I did, I'd uncover.

  • I'd prefer that she felt comfortable watching, unless there was some real reason that her affections would be a problem (like she was married or whatever). I really can't stand all of the discomfort people have around sex.

    Adults who enjoy each other should be allowed to enjoy each other.

  • Should be acceptable for girls and guys to see the other getting undressed.

  • I think if she was watching me it wouldn’t bother me she did, I have had a couple friends end up seeing me change either after a pool thing or just getting ready to go out. It was a simple mistake both times I think but one pretended it didn’t happen and the other made comments during and after.

  • I think if there's Already been interest expressed than it's not a big deal at all. It may even be a good way to Segway into a partner or relationship. Plus I think, at least based on surveys, that everyone has a little bit of an exhibitionist in them it's just a matter of control and how much to exhibit.

  • I'd want her to respect my privacy

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