No little one. What happened to you is horrible and horrific. And GaG is a horrible place for women who have been raped to talk about their feelings. Your generation is probably less empathetic than even mine. And it is only getting worse. It is disgusting reading the responses. Men in these forums think you ask the question because you are a feminist. I guess that goes to show you just how ignorant sexist freakshows are. They are totally devoid of logic.
I encourage you to find a support group. Find women who have had your experience. And find groups (male or female) that are supportive of women who have been abused/raped.
This nation has entered a time where public blaming of victims is tolerated and encouraged. I really don't know what to say, other than us common sense folk must fight back with everything we have. Even if it is a losing battle.
Hell no.
There's... I don't know... almost no point to me. If i want to get off, I can get myself off. If I want to have a more attractive woman lay there pretending to be into it, while i thrust in and out of her, i could hire someone.
The reason i crave sex over jerking off is not because it feels slightly better, it's because i want the intensity of mutual desire. Not an attractive lump of flesh i'm thrusting into.
At the moment we've got about 33 no, 2 yes. Which is about 6% yes. The reality seems to be somewhere in the 1/10 or 1/20 of men are potentially rapists.
That's just on GaG it's alarming.
What do you mean by 'just on GaG'? Why would GaG be... lower than say average college aged men? I might expect higher because as I've noted in general, we skew towards higher sex interest individuals. (on the other hand, could be that guys who commit rape aren't interested in women's thoughts and only hang out talking to other guys in forums that are less mixed. that would be useful to know as well!)
Because we're talking about like 40 guys out of how many guys are in this world? So 6% is a lot in my opinion
Well... 6% is 6%. But if we were hoping it was only like 0.1% of men, then it would be shocking. That said, we -know- how frequenly rape occurs, the number of men saying 'yes' doesn't change it. What we don't know is how many men are responsible? Is it a lot of men doing it occasionally or what? The fewre men doing it, the more those guys are doing it.
I'm glad tI see a lot of men saying no to this. I am a rape victim and this kind of thinking (that men would rape if they could get away with it) is detrimental to the recovery of victims of rape. Do you know how hard it is to feel okay again? How much harder it is to be intimidate with someone again after that happens? It really ruins you. And it puts the fear of men into you for awhile, where you might start irrationally thinkin that eveyone is out to get you.
It took me a long time and sometimes I'm still wary of men I dont know but I'm geting over it. Basically, rape isn't something that should be talked about lightly, even though I understand kind of where you're coming from when asking this question
I was raped too so I feel your pain. And I'm super pusses that somebody told me this so I wanted to find out if it was even remotely true. I hope you're okay hun.
I dont think many guys could to be honest, even though you asked for guys opinions only
You don't think they are being honest?
No, I meant I don't think many guys out there would want to rape a girl and get away with it.
Oh yes. I hope not at least!
Umm no one because rape is awful and ruins people lives
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!If I could reverse time so nobody would know about it but myself, I STILL wouldn't. Its freaking evil and I can't even think about it without feeling ashamed.
Wanting to do evil but lacking the opportunity is as bad as doing it. God help us.
Nah I'd be afraid of the guilt later on. That's another human being, and attractive or not I can't take advantage.
I can never rape a girl, never ever. This is possibly the cheapest act a man can do. I'll try my best to save that insecure girl to my last will because it's better to die proudly than to live with a guilt. I wish for the mental and emotional strength of the rape victims and their families.
I would rape a boy, yes
(I hope you all know I am kidding, lol)
You would? Why?
I was kidsimg thats why I said I would rape a boy, I have never heard of a story when a girl rapes a men , but I think most men wouldn't mind haha :)
Women can't rape a guy. I think guys will welcome you then.
No it can happen actually. Lol thank gd you're joking.
Thats why I said boys would be glad haha :)
I volunteer!
It happens, just almost never reported, because most people will act like it was something good for him, and there's almost no way to prove it was rape either. People only have any sympathy if he gets 20 years of child support payments along with being raped, and even then many or most won't actually believe he didn't consent.
haha I see many men want to be raped. Yes I believe it, I have heard of a story where 6 girls "raped" a men but nothing happened to them :)
😂 yes obviously she's a rapist
Yes I am haha (no)
They can and have.
Rape me please.
Noooo! That would be evil.
No way. I would prefer to seduce her. The sex would be that much better.
Couldn't even roleplay that idea. I mean 100% NO for real but also NO even in sexual role play where raping a girl is a scenario and being a woman's scenario not that uncommon. I mean how do you pretend to rape your partner and go through the motions when you love that person?
doesn't help preferring to be sexually submisive 😀
I completely agree with every word you just typed!
No. I don't know even why a question like this would come up... the only thing I would do that is similar would be roll play. that's it
What do you mean?
You don't know what sexual roll playing is?
I do! You would do that without a girls consent?
No... she would have to want me to do that... hence why I said roll play
Well obviously. That had nothing to do with the question. If she's consenting it's not rape. It's spelled role play
My answer to the question was no. Then I told you what I would do. AND sry that my phone changes my spelling from time to time since we have an English teacher in our presence.
Studies say most would..
serious? what type of responses did you expect to get with this question.
Honest ones. As a rape victim I want to see what guys really think about it. Don't see what's wrong with that.
nothing is wrong with it don't get me wrong. id expect 30 guys to say no though. that's all. who would say yes. im sorry
Some did say yes. I'm not surprised.
No!!!
Sure, there are moments where we just wanna fuck everything that moves, but we're still humans, we have morals. Even if I was in a 50 year drought, I would NEVER rape someone.
No I would not... it goes against all of my morals.
Hell no. Even if I had a few drinks first, still no.
Goodness no! I would feel horrific, not happy!
Good answer @Hans222
Thanks @Kiwifun! No other answer possible without telling a big lie, really!
Absolutely! @Hans222 ☺️
Raping a girl? no f*cking way. I'd probably feel EXTREMELY guilty afterwards, to the point where i blow my head off. And if you want to sleep with a girl, you can always try to hit on her by being charming.
Absolutely not. Rape is a hideous crime of violence. It has more to do with power and control of another human being than about sex. It's one of the most evil things a person can do to another person.
I can't rape women. I am such a pathetic nice guy :/
I love girls and i want it to have consensually and proudly with her.
I think... i better die virgin rather than raping for satisfaction.
Not being able to rape a women doesn't make you a nice guy it makes you a decent human being.
I was trying to be sarcastic with my first line lol. But seriously, i would never do that. I have very high sex drive and sometimes desperate due to natural urge but i am very much sure, that even if i am drunk and a very beautiful drunk lady is sitting in front of me... i won't even touch her. I have soft corner for women. May be i will argue with them , fight with them but not rape. I hate rapists.
Me too lol thanks for your answer
This is a disgusting thing to do. People rape for purpose of carrying out a deliberate act of sexual violence against someone, not to get his rocks off unconventionally.
I'm not sure that claim is well supported tbh. Most rapes are opportunistic by a small subset of men who seem to want to do it. It's not all that clear to what extent most of them just want sex and don't care how, versus particularly want to commit rape, or what. Violent rapists are more likely to be mixing desire to be violent with sexual fetish but they're a small minority. Most rapists take advantage of close to passed out women when they can get away with it.
Never. I would never force sexuality on anyone. If I just need to come, I have a right hand for that. Forceable rape is criminally psychotic.
What? Hell no! I don't have to rape, I just charm their clothes off. That is seriously fucked up!
Nah.
Too much damage would be caused to her.
Besides. I'm deeply into oral.
You can't rape a woman with that. She'll bite ur dick off. xD
if it is not mutually enjoyable thres no point
Too much of what I like requires an active partner. Anyway, I don't think I'd want to have sex with someone who didn't want to.
Of course not.
Unless you're including statutory rape or sex when mildly inebriated (even then, probably not) - but not if she didn't want it.
Obviously not. Just because the Huffington Post says that all men want to rape doesn't mean that's the truth. Quite the opposite.
Huffington post said that?
Link?
I'm being figurative here. They didn't ACTUALLY say that, but it's something they like to imply. Same thing with Jezebel. @Bysshe
I'm not that familiar with it.
Woah... never... i won't do it cz it just doesn't feel rite... why? Becz i would try to being in her place which would be really helpless...
So NEVER!
Fuck no!!! I enjoy having sexual relations with my girlfriend because she enjoy having them with me as well, i can´t imagine myself forcing her to do something she don´t want. Only guys with criminal minds imagine and are capable of raping a girl.
NO! Of course not! D-:<
even if I DID get that desperate, I'd kill myself immediately afterwards.
No. Its a turn off if she is hurt and/or not enjoying it. Besides being 300% wrong, I would not enjoy it so what's point. If I am going to have sex with someone they must be willing and enjoy it. When it comes to sexual activities I aim to please. Pressing the buttons to turn her on, turns me on.
hell nah. nonconsensual puts me off too fast, and it's always easier to look up smut instead.
No... absolutely not.
No, because it would be impossible for me to have a boner in order to have sex in a condition where my partner cries and screams or shows me that she doesn't want to have sex.
That's the only reason? Not because it's abusing a girl?
That's as given for me! Of course rape is abuse!
It didn't sound like that from your initial comment. Thanks for clearing that up.
No can do. I'm too empathetic... I feel guilty when I break up with someone...
I'd really love to but my conscience would beat me over it afterwards and haunt me for the rest of my life, and my conscience and I are good pals. I think I would have too much guilt. So I'd never actually do it.
no... i'm not a monster...
but it's clear the OP has some sociopathic tendencies, so i'll leave it at that...
The OP has sociopathic tendencies? Huh?
because you asked this before, but now under anon... sorry, it's my view, because only a sociopath would ask this... and i don't care about your fatalistic views... sorry, as said just my opinion on your posting..
Uhh I made this account today. I'm asking this because of what someone said to me.
i don't believe that, but meh.. ok...
Umm ok?
eh? i'm just saying my view, you come across as a sociopath... OK, enough said...
No I'm not a sociopath. Just curious as to what guys would do in a situation like that.
You can't get away with that (well depends on the state) Rape is a crime in most places. You got your DNA on the condoms, you got skin follicles, you got hair DNA, semen DNA, and Salivia DNA. You can not, and will not get away with this. Most phones have GPS location areas, so most make calls before or after the act committed.
No... I hate rape , I believe in mutual consent...;)
No the guilt would haunt me. Rape would probably be terrifying for any girl.
Do you have any idea why your opinion appears under "what guys said" whereas you seem to be a girl? It could be a bug on the site!
Looks like a guy who chose a pink avatar to me.
He is a man who is using the anonymous female icon as his avatar. Furthermore, if he was a woman and that icon was accurate, his name would be anonymous, not "StickSticktty13" since that is the anonymous default icon.
I just wanted to say that stickstickitys profile picture made laugh
Lol i loved his profile pic haha
i would love too but my conscience will punish me later
No, I think its much more attractive when the girl wants to fuck me
i dont like rape if girl is horny that sex is marvelous
i really don't like it but if the girl like um ok with anything ! that is how i feel..
Rape = the girl is not okay with it.
i know that that's why i told i told like it.!! and only girl ok then fine anything she likes
I would! Might sound crazy, but I'm not going to lie. If there is an opportunity to get my dick wet, even if the girl doesn't consent, without getting caught, I would jump at the chance. Males are created horny for a reason, and if I had a great oppurtunity like that, I'd totally go for it. In fact, I have no problem going out right now and finding a sexy girl and having unprotected intercourse with her. Though I would make sure that she enjoys it as well, with focusing on her clit for a good amount of time. And make sure she feels my muscle for her to be more comfortable with that type of sex. Believe me, even if a man acts like he is 100% not a rapist, there is a high chance that he has rape fantasies. That's just how men are, they want sex.
No, and I have had girls do some fucked up shit to me.
A woman can't rape a man, that is a myth.
So a women getting a man under the influence and forcibly having sex with him isn't rape. Or a woman manipulating a young boy into having sex with her even though he doesn't want to isn't rape?
Oh dang I said that wrong. Thanks for correcting me.
I definitely would rape a woman though the purpose of it wouldn't be for sex.
How can you justify yourself?
What's your purpose?
For asker: the purpose of these pieces of shit is always to feel powerful
I wanna hear him say it. But he's a coward. He should go fuck himself @TheEmma
It would be helpful to have him answer, rather than us deciding what we think is the reason, that is, assuming we're interested in actually understanding and reducing sexual violence.
I waited for an answer he didn't give one.
He's probably trolling.
I'm going to tell you something that will shock you. Sit down now, here we go...
Men are human beings and have heart just like women do. We care about other people just like women do. We love our fellow human beings, just like women do. We want to do the right thing and don't want to hurt other people, just like women.
There it is. I know it comes as complete surprise to you as a woman because feminists have been telling you for decades that all men are pigs and rapists. Sorry to burst your bubble, but that totally false.
Stop listening to feminist bullshit, dumbass.
Umm okay. Let me tell you something, sit down here I go. I don't believe all men are pigs and rapists and guess what? I was raped! So don't put words into my mouth. Somebody told me that if a guy could rape and get away with it, he would. I don't really believe it but, I still wanted to hear what guys have to say about it. I'm not a feminist in any way shape or form. No need for the name calling.
Someone out there is committing rapes. Lots of them. So its a valid question as to what extent it's a small pocket of men, versus most men doing it once. Studies have shown its the former. So another reasonable question is, do most men want to do this but don't because it's illegal, or is it only a subjset of men who -want- to commit rape? Valid questions if they are asked honestly.
@kheserthorpe I worded the question wrong I see. Thanks for understanding my question!
QA - I'm so sorry that you were raped. That's horrible and I would not wish it on anyone. I'm glad to hear you're not a feminists though, because they are the ones spreading the lie that all guys are pigs and rapists. Please forgive me for the name calling, but I hope you understand why men are defensive today about this topic. Under the circumstances it is more than justified.
I know that. The person who helped me the most after I was raped was a guy so it would be hypocritical of me to say that. My question stated that I didn't think so. A GUY told me that most guys would rape if they could get away with it, that's why I asked.
That guy is just as bad as the feminists who say he is the norm. Anyway, sorry again for the defensiveness. I hope you never experience sexual assault again!
I would rape her until my dick went through her stomach, and came out through her mouth
WTF? No!
Christ, who comes up with this stupidity?
Why don't you scroll down and read some of the answers and then ask why I asked this question :)
What, that fewer men would even consider the idea than stats would suggest? Seems to point out that it's again only a handful of men repeatedly doing the same crime rather than a bunch of men wanting to harm women. And the people in this thread are probably trolling. I don't fucking find this baiting funny. Take your feminist "all men are rapists" shit and go kill yourself. Women I love HAVE been raped and I don't find your trolling funny, go die somewhere.
Umm okay. Dude chill. I was raped myself. Recently somebody told me that guys would rape if they can get away with it. So I asked this question. You don't have to be so harsh. I am not a feminist in any way. You don't talk to people that way that's sick.
Actually as this point (when i last tallied) 6% said they would. Larger studies asking college age men if they've had sex without consent found something like 5% had (similar studies on military recruits were a little higher). Tons of rapes are happening out there, SOMEONE is doing it, so it's a valid line of attempting to actually understand by saying hey, is this something most people want but don't because of laws? Or is it a small subset who are not being controlled? Better to study then cook up some BS theory about it being how the patriarchy uses it to keep women down.
And seriously if people you love were raped I don't think your reaction would be 'WTF, No!'
@kheserthorpe About 5% of college aged men have actually committed a rape?
@Bysshe Maybe a little higher, based on self reporting.
Here's a discussion of two of the better surveys on the subject:
yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/.../
Note by better, I mean that as someone who is not a rape-culture advocate, who just would like to see less bad shit happen in the world, it looked to me like they went in fairly reasonably and tried to assess what was happening.
@kheserthorpe Thanks, interesting read.
@asker You asked if a guy would want to rape a girl, and my answer was "wtf no," how the fuck is that hard to believe, especially when I've seen it ruin the lives of people close to me? Get a clue. Unless you're trying to imply I'm the rapist, in which case, go fucking die. I doubt you were actually raped--why the fuck are you here talking about it so casually? If you really were, then I'm sorry it happened, but I have a hard time believing you. I think you're trolling. @kheserthorpe Great link
You just contradicted yourself. 'You asked if a guy would want to rape a girl and my answer was fuck no' and then you went on to say 'how the fuck is that hard to believe especially when I've seen it ruin the lives of people close to me' do you see how you make no fucking sense? Obviously if people rape they want to! Nobody forces someone to rape you fucking idiot! You completely misunderstood the question anyways. My question is if a man would rape if he would know he'd get away with it. And some guys did say yes so I'm not completely off. I have no fucking reason to feel like I need to prove to you I've been raped neither do you have the right to tell me how to act. Maybe me talking about it casually is my way of coping. I would never in my life make a joke out of rape. I know how much people suffer from it. So just for the fact that you said that please go fuck yourself and don't talk to me again
And no wonder rape victims are having such a hard time putting their rapists in jail it's because of fuckers like you who choose not to believe.
Hard time reading? WTF NO = No, I would not consider raping a girl even if given the opportunity to get away with it. Doubly so because I've seen the damage it causes. Rape bait questions are common, I see them from men and women, and they piss me off every time. I still think you were trying to troll, but again, if you were actually raped, I'm sorry it happened.
You make it sound like 'rape what's that'? Girls get raped all the time. I wanted to understand if a guy wouldn't do it because it's wrong or because they're scared of the consequences. It's a very legit question. It's not trolling in the least. You've seem the damage it's caused? Don't for a second pretend to know the pain a rape victim goes through! I don't care how many people you saw suffer from it. You have no clue what it's like. And there's nothing worse then people saying they don't believe you after it happened. So the harm is done. Just keep your sorry's to yourself. It's because of sick fuckers like you that rape victims get second guessed. Just go fuck yourself.
Fine, I'll save my sympathies for the people I know were actually raped, rather than giving them out to an internet troll who doesn't like being called out.
I don't need your sympathies. I wish you weren't anon so I could see who you really are.
Of course not! Only feminists believe that.
Are you suggesting rape doesn't exist? While most guys (I hope anyway) wouldn't obviously some guys would be willing to rape a girl.
WHERE did I suggest that rape doesn't exist? Show me where... The suggestion in the question was that any guy who could get away with raping a beautiful girl would do it, which suggests that all guys are rapists. Stop being a fucking tool.
"Of course not! Only feminists believe that." Only feminists believe what? That you personally might rape someone? I too it that you meant guys in general.
*took
A common message from feminists is that all men are rapists or potential rapists. That is what I was referring to. They try to back it up with bullshit statistics showing 1 in 5 women have been raped. That's a lie, and just one of many ubiquitous lies told by feminists to fan the flames of misandry.
www.youtube.com/watch
Don't be part of that problem. No one benefits from the perpetuation of lies that spawn hatred for an entire gender.
I don't believe at all that all men are rapists. That wasn't the point of my question.
Actually some people have misread that statistic wrong, they say 1/6 is at one point sexually assaulted in her life. So it includes being raped, molested, etc. which would surprise me also because of the legal age of consent that makes the rates go up, so if she's 15 and her boyfriend is 16 or 17 it's not exactly legal, consensual sex (assuming the consent age is 16).
It goes well beyond that. The statistic includes not only rape but attempted rape, unwanted contacts such as a kiss, and even verbal harassment. Those things are NOT rape and yet they were all combined into one category for the purposes of that 1 in 5 statistic. The rate of actual rape is a tiny fraction of that, which is why people are so cynical in the rape discussion and one of many reasons feminists are not respected today.
If by rape you mean she's at my house on my bed after a date and we all had a few drinks and she keeps putting up bs excuses when she's down to her panties and I don't plan on seeing her again then probably.
If you mean a more violent version with a knife and roughness and such then no unless I know her and she's done some truly really horrible things to me/people I care about. But not to a random, innocent person.
Let the hate comments begin. I don't care, it's my honest opinion. And no, I've not raped anyone and neither do I plan to.
I don't think there is anything wrong with what you said.
Seriously? @Asker
That's still rape. You're disgusting. Die.
Sorry I misread it. You're wrong. I don't think it's rape but, it's wrong.
@Asker Even if a girl is down to her panties if she says no and he forces her to go further against her will it's still rape - getting undressed doesn't give him consent. He's also said he'd be willing to rape someone if she's "done some truly really horrible things to me/people I care about." - Which I thinks quite vile, and definitely rape.
"That's still rape" "further against her will it's still rape" No fucking shit sherlock it's still rape, did you read the damn question? "GUYS! If you could rape a girl and get away with it". It's not asking about last minute resistance.
It's rape but, I still don't like to call it that because there are real rape victims (I included) who are not flaunting themselves practically asking for sex that are getting raped and not being believed because these type of girls. That still doesn't make it right for a guy to touch her but, I don't like to call it rape. That other sentence he said just made no sense to me. @Bysshe
I was commenting on this "I don't think it's rape but, it's wrong."
I gotta thank you for answering honestly, and note before people throw too much hate that you have not raped anyone and indicate you don't plan to. How much do you think the YOUR having had a few drinks influences things?
@Asker I think I get what you're saying.
@Asker I wasn't referring to you in my last comment. And I'm sorry to hear that you're a rape victim. A fantasy is a fantasy but that doesn't make me a sociopath. @kheserthorpe the absolute maximum I usually drink is only until my coordination and balance become weird but I never lose full control of myself as I don't want stupid shit to happen that I will regret.
Yeah, that's what I was getting at a bit. I know when I was younger, once or twice i was really pushy when hammered (one of them black out, no memory) trying to make out with a girl. Sober, the idea of kissing a girl not into it has zero appeal, but evidently i didnt' notice or.. . something. Never been in a position where I was pushing sex drunk, and sober of course, doesn't appeal. But I wondered to what extent when you said 'welve been drinking' how much you were taking that into account. Like there's being drunk so you don't worry about consequences, but i suspect there's also a certain amount of 'being drunk so you're not thinking about anything beyond 'she hot. me have sex'. I don't know.
Nah, its definitely still rape if you push a woman (moreover, a DRUNK woman) to have sex, regardless of whether or not she's already almost naked. You could be about to penetrate and if she says stop or no, and you don't, you're a rapist. If you're in the middle of sex amd she says stop and you don't, you're a rapist. Basically what I'm trying to say is, if you coerce, pressure or force another human to have sex with you in some way, you're a rapist. That's it. There is no grey area of rape.
@cphiecekslee I don't think anyone's disputing that here. But it's still useful to break it down, because although someone who badgers a drunk woman till she stops saying no, and someone who takes advantage of a passed out woman, and someone who threatens a woman with violence are all committing rape, they are different situations, and if our goal is to understand who commits rape, when, and how, and how it might be reduced, then we need to break it down and understand.
I agree it is rape but my problem with that is girls are taking advantage of it. They get all drunk practically ask for sex, have sex and then they regret it and call it rape. This is 1 of the reasons real rape victims are being second guessed. I'm not in any way saying it's right but, it's not the same thing. @cphiecekslee
Girls who consent when drunk, then regret it, may be considered sexual assault victims by certain support groups and certain college campuses, but are not considered victims by most legal codes. And they are not considered victims by the guys who slept with them with their consent. A more troubling group are those who are saying no, then stop saying no, and their partner is drunk and not very aware of her reactions, and takes her silence as consent, and plows forward, and they wake up the next day wondering what happened. This, sadly, happens. But from what i'm able to gather, most rapes involving alcohol, the girl is hammered to the point of nearly passing out, and the guy knows he doesn't have consent, and takes the opportunistic advantage to get away with it. That's certainly rape, though staggeringly hard to PROVE after the fact.
No, I wouldn't. I'm keeping this anonymous so that I seriously have no reason to lie. But I would seriously kill myself if I ever raped someone. It's the most vile thing any human can do.
Ew I said seriously twice. Forgive that.
the thought did come to my mind many times lol but i could never
Just curious what's stopping you?
my consciousness lol when ever i have those thoughts im really pissed of because im at work or im really really really horny or something and i know im just thinking about it because of the heat of the moment... once i would have calmed down i would realize how stupid it was... if i would ever do it haha but i would rather go to a prostitute then mess up a womans life forever
Wow you must have a low opinion of men
Read the question again
If you don't believe it why did you ask the question? Smartass
Because of what someone told me. I don't believe it as a whole but, I'm sure there are individuals who would say yes.
Of course there are some but it isn't a common thing.
It's actually more common then I thought.
Hmm... the temptation is there. Rape fantasies are so hot. Under the perfect circumstances, it is possible I might just go through with it. Let's say I haven't had sex in 2 weeks and I'm HORNY AS HELL, there's a fine ass girl laying on bed passed out and let's assume I won't get caught... yep temptation might take over.
lolololol..
That's not really so funny.
You're a non-decent human being.
Dude, get help.
wtf how did I get so many thumbs down. You guys needa realize that thought process goes through every guys head whether they wanna admit it or not. It's part of our genetic programming. Dudes that says otherwise is full of shit. I didn't say I would definitely go through with it, I simply said the temptation exists.
No I know lots of guys that would never dream of hurting a women. So stfu stop making excuses for yourself.
You don't understand men.
I don't understand men? If this is the way men are I'm becoming lesbian.
Asker you need to calm down. You're the one who asked the question so you were already expecting this kind of answer
No I don't need to calm down. Rape isn't a joke. @itsnotcreative
You're pretty sick to ask this
Guys would only do it for role play. That's not even real rape, it's just being dominate.
What are you talking about?
I'm telling you, that you have mental problems for asking this. Why would you ask this? Some women have "rape fantasies" and so do men, but it's not considered rape because it's consent and it's about domination
I'm asking because a guy friend told me that guys would rape a girl if they can truly get away with it. I found that sick so I wanted to know what guys on here think.
He has mental problems then
Yep go read a couple of the guys responses. It's sickening.
Look, if no guys would do this, rape wouldn't exist. Obviously some guys -would- do it. The question is whether most guys would do it but don't out of fear of being caught, or whether most guys dont' want to. It might be useful to consider that surveys of young men asking about rape, get no answers, but if they don't use the R word, men seem to answer pretty honestly. And it looks like maybe 5% of men commit virtually all the rapes, they do it repeatedly, they usually do it to drunk girls. (A study of men joining the army i think found closer to a 10% rate. There's some reason to think that guys joining the army are a little more aggressive than average, and have had more issues with violence. Note that it's still a minority of those guys, just a bigger minority). Are there some guys who don't do it who would? Probably. But I don't think it's like another 30%, maybe a few % more. Sad reality is if guys want to have non-consent sex, its... likely not that hard.
Obviously I wouldn't rape anyone
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