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Blonde, Blue Eyed, Petite, 28yo. I’m great in bed and love sex. My husband has a huge hotwife fetish and it’s getting to the point that I think he’d rather watch me sleep with other people than sleep with me himself. Which I don’t get. I understand having fetishes, but my husband seems content to just watch the videos I make for him. How do I get him to want me? Anything I can incorporate or suggestions?
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  • So I think it's a complicated fantasy to be honest. He obviously finds you hot but there is something appealing about him 'not getting' you and other guys getting you.

    I personally enjoy tease and denial and i think this is on similar lines but not 100% the same.

    Maybe try some chastity for fun. Might chance the direction a little from hotwifing. Chasity and then tease him. If you up to it let him watch with another guy. Otherwise tie him down and use him. Tell him he can't cum or else it's 2 weeks in chastity! Have fun, clip him back in and enjoy.

    Another thing you could do is let me get on his knees and masturbate to you. All part of the same "flavour" of things. Might help change things slightly since you getting a bit tired of it.

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  • Might be something psychological. He's seemed to allow his fetish come first before you. I'd consider talking it out and/or couples therapy before it snowballs into something worse. At least share your concerns with him and maybe he'll give you some clarity.

    • I have and all I get are excuses. I doubt he would go to couples therapy. He thinks our relationship is just fine.

    • Clearly it's not, there's no reason you should ever feel less than or second. It's fun to have fetishes, but not if it hinders the relationship.

    • I wish he would see it that way.

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  • Well he has a hot wife that's for sure that is nothing but sexy so you think if I was to bring it blow up doll that he would go for it LOL I would love to experience his wife

  • Message me hottwife.

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    • Click on me name and message me or just follow me

    • If you follow me I'll probably be able to message you.

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  • Honestly, I can not answer that question, I would have to get to know you a lot better before I could say as to why your guy does not want to have sex with you.

    • I get that. I’m a nice person so it doesn’t make sense to me.

    • 1. Maybe you do not wash yourself enough and you stink. 2. Maybe you are just to loose and you are like the Grand Canyon so he can not feel when he is inside of you. 3. Maybe he is actually GAY 4. Maybe you have a STI that he does not want to get 5. Maybe he has a fat fetish so he finds you ugly 6. Maybe you have a dick instead of a vagina and he is not gay Get the picture, I do not know you so I can not tell you why. You are HWP so I do know that it is not because you are fat or ugly.

    • If any of these ☝️ about me were the case I wouldn’t have much luck with being a Hotwife now would I? And he’s not gay. Just has a certain fetish.

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  • May be rp with him being someone else's wife

    Lol

    • Him being the wife or with someone’s wife. Cause we have swapped before he doesn’t like it.

    • Are you saying he's not interested an actual sex at all

    • Rarely. And he hardly ever gets off.

  • Ask him for a threesome or gangbang 😊

    • Done a few threesomes. Only once with him. And gangbang is next on his wish list. To be honest that one makes me nervous though lol.

    • Nice! And why does it make you nervous?

    • MMF was fun but also had me walking funny after. Thinking about more than 2 guys would be a lot to handle. 😂

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  • Have you tried initiating sex with him? How old is he? Maybe he is having trouble getting an erection and he doesn't want you to know about it.
    I know if you were my wife wed be in the bed every night having fun.

    • Bunch of times. He’s 37. We’ve talked about that but I don’t notice any issues on the occasions we do. But it seems like a chore. And he rarely gets off.

    • Does he have someone else?

    • Not that I’m aware of. He’s always home when he’s not at work. And he works by himself. 🤷‍♀️

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  • I’d never want my wife to sleep with anyone

  • i don't know.

  • You look great, I won't share you with anyone if you were my wife ;)

    by the way how long you both been together?

    • 😘. We’ve been together 7 years.

    • Alright follow my profile, I wanna discuss something with you if you dont mind :)

  • If you want him to want you, lock him up and tease him.

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