Guys is a turn off not to swallowing after sex?

[Anonymous]

I don't have problems if he finish in my mouth but I always spit because I don't like the feeling of having it in my mouth or the taste. I haven't think about this before but now I am wondering... Do guys always expect you to swallow? and is normal that is so bitter?

[sinful1620]

After sex it's not such a big deal. With a blowjob though it's a huge deal. Imagine how you would feel if a dude went down on you and as soon as you started enjoying it he took 2 steps back, spat out your vaginal fluid on the floor, and just watched you like they were waiting for you to be done.

That's how women who refuse to swallow have treated me and how I've felt in my past.

[throwit]

Usually we wait until you're done and hen spit? I didn't know girls would blow a guy and then pull away while he's cumming

[sinful1620]

@throwit In fairness I've only had one girl who legit just stopped when I started to cum. What I meant was more that it's something about my body I can't control and many women have made me feel uncomfortable with my own body (which quickly became me being uncomfortable with the girl) because they've been so shitty about cum.

[COCOCHANEL]

most women don't spew large amounts of fluid so it's really not the same

[sinful1620]

@COCOCHANEL have you ever gone down on a girl? Over the course of it I always get a girl more creamy than she gets out of my finish.

[COCOCHANEL]

how did you measure that i have orgasmed many times and cleaned up after and it wasn't nearly the same as when i clean up my lovers

[sinful1620]

@COCOCHANEL I guess I'm measuring it visually? Explaining seems too graphic but honestly going down on a girl is like going down on a guy who just has a slow, drawn out orgasm over the entire duration. I guess I take my time?

[COCOCHANEL]

hmmm well ok

[slywinkle]

It wouldn't bother me. I'd actually probably feel bad for doing it in your mouth. As to the taste, I don't know, and hope I never find out.

[SarahsSummer]

Girl to girl, I think you should find the way to swallow. It won't harm you and you're guy will feel much closer to you and hopefully you to him. Besides its easier than a clean up or run to the sink.

[Anonymous]

I would think just swallowing it would be better than holding it in your mouth and waiting for him to finish and go spit it out.

[throwit]

I always wait for him to finish before I swallow lol I can't swallow comfortably with a dick in my mouth, and I like the be able to swallowing it with air or spit so I don't taste it as much

[Opinion Owner]

My bfs big so when he cums in my mouth I just don't have room for him and a mouthful of cum so I swallow as its happening. He seems to like the feel of me swallowing while in my mouth lol, said it feels like I'm just swallowing his dick and feels wonderful.

[throwit]

I've swallowed by accident because it shot at my throat and it just makes the bitter taste more intense, but I can see how your mouth contracting when you swallow would feel good for a guy as he's cumming. Maybe I'll try it again and just grin and bare it 😖

[Opinion Owner]

Does he eat a lot of bitter things? My boyfriend for most part always tastes good, we've been eating a lot of hot peppers from the garden so it's been a little funky lately but usually it's fine. When he cums I do it as gentle as I can but enough that it feels good, unless he's came in me I'll suck him till he's soft and I've swallowed all the cum. I'm a very picky eater and how things taste and I've never had a problem with cum, doesn't taste much like anything to me. I always think it's hot and love when he cums so maybe think of it like that and not concentrate on the taste so much but pleasuring him.

[Anonymous]

I dont know if they mind or not but I'm not swallowing their come for sure!

[elew4too]

It's a turn off. It's in her mouth anyways, she might as well swallow it. She already tasted it. She doesn't have to find anywhere to dispose of it. And by spitting it out, you make him feel like you're spitting out a part of him, thereby rejecting him. It's more symbolic than anything. The consequences are the same for the lady whether she spits or swallows.

[madhatters4]

not a turn off to me

[Bimbobambo]

If you spit, you have to deal with the mess and still had the bad taste in your mouth. That makes 2 "Dont like"-Points.

When you swallow you DONT have to deal with the mess and have a bad taste. That makes 1 "Dont like"-Points BUT you get the bonus 1"Guy likes"-Point.

Conclusion: Spitting doesn't change the bad taste, so swallow and you dont have to deal with the mess, PLUS your guy loves it. Only makes sense in every matter.

[Laowai]

Well, I never looked a gift horse in the mouth. If she would let me finish in her mouth, then I would never complain about spitting. However, swallowing is a real turn-on, and I was always very happy when she would.

[theguyisback]

I love seeing a girl swallow.. Symbolic of acceptance with no boundaries, have zero qualms with his fluids, that nothing could gross you out, and you are comfortable with the most intimate part of him.. His seed

[Insecure1636]

I think a lot of guys hope that you swallow but don't really care if you don't. Hard to complain when a girl is having sex or blowing you so they should be happy they are getting action. If a guy is expecting you to swallow then he should take necessary steps to make it taste better which he can do through his diet.

[COCOCHANEL]

yes.

[ConsultantIsBack]

That's not a problem I never expect a woman to swallow

[genericname85]

well it´s not obligatory. it´s hot though and the taste is a bit due to his diet but it won´t ever taste like super good, no matter how he changes diet xD

[bustas]

not really , it is not that easy to find women who willing to put D inside their mouth , around here, let alone to ask her to swalllow lol

[MimTcgraw]

I don't expect it at all... It's a surprise when it happens though!! If I can come in your mouth I will have zero complaints after that!

[foxsquirrell]

No it's not a turn off. I understand if a girl might not want to do that.

[jakeofalltrades]

I think both are sexy

[favoriteguy]

I highly suggest you do, it's kinky

[abc--123]

It's not a turn off if you don't but it's definitely a turn on if you do

[Flame1]

Its not a problem

[Amur8711]

Don't swallow if you don't want to, he should respect that.

[Anonymous]

He may smoke of drink beer if it's too bitter but yes if I finish in a girls mouth and every time she spits it is a disappointment.

[Anonymous]

Kind of I guess but I have never had a girl not swallow my sperm

[Anonymous]

If you're not comfortable with it then noone should make you.
Do what makes you feel comfortable.

For me personally, its not a turn off. I don't blame you for wanting to spit...

[Anonymous]

Seems like a rude thing to do when he's sharing it with you.

[Anonymous]

If you spit, you'll have the taste of it anyway, since you let him go in your mouth. What difference does it make if i you swallow or spit. It's not a turn off, but, make sure you're doing it for the "right" reason, not the "excuse

[Anonymous]

I like for her to swallow. If she doesn't then I'd rather cum somewhere else than in her mouth.

[throwit]

Could you explain your reasoning?

[Opinion Owner]

Damn. Everybody wants to give me a fucking down vote today. Why?

[Opinion Owner]

I just don't see the point of it being in her mouth if she's going to spit it out, and to side with the female side like you and others love so much to do if it's on her tongue she can taste it. Why not take that "agony" and "painful" experience from her?