Guys, Is Anal considered loosing your virginity?

Considering the fact that it is said that a girl wouldn't have their hymen intact if they weren't a virgin but with anal their hymens are still very much intact
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  • "Virgjn" may mean "untouched", e. g. virgin forest.

    Hence in the strictest sense, when a virgin is "touched" (penetrated) sexually, the virginity is lost, anal or vaginal.

    But somehow, religiously, the Catholics definition of "consummation" (under the premise that the newly weds are virgins as in "pure") describes sex in a human fashion to reproduce offspring.

    With that definition, anal sex does not consummate, neither is sex with contraceptives.

    Hence what did you think? (As a matter of fact, many religious girls, muslims included, have anal and oral sex yet still claim as virgins under those definitions.)

  • Both men and women have 'anal virginity'! I think is it different, than the 'religious' kind of virginity for women, but I don't really believe that religious stuff.
    If you think it is important, religiously, what does your religion say? Sex can be defined, many ways, as Bill Clinton tried to assert, during his impeachment!
    If you think you are avoiding the 'letter' of the law, with anal penetration, and staying a 'virgin' with an intact hymen, what would your potential husband think? You have had some kind of 'sex,' with anal, and oral, if you choose, but I think it depends on why you care about being a 'virgin'.

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  • In that case, there's a bunch of girls that lost their virginity to riding a bike/horse or other rough/bumpy activity as children.
    If being a virgin means not having done the sexy stuffs, then doing the sexy stuffs makes you not a virgin.

  • Hymen's have nothing to do with any more. They can break by riding a bike or horse riding.
    It's penetrative object in the vagina is what classes as virginity being lost.
    But to me, anal would still count.

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  • Yes technically you are still a virgin in my opinion I dated a girl that wanted to stay a virgin but was down for anal and oral. I definitely did not complain

  • Virginity has nothing to do with the hymen.

  • The term virginity doesn’t particularly have a definition realistic although for me personally I’d say having vaginal sex is more common to lose you’re virginity so to speak.

  • How does someone loose their virginity? Or for that matter how does someone tighten their virginity?

  • There is no universal definition of virginity. Maybe some cultures have precise definitions, I don't know. In modern Western culture the whole idea of virginity is passe. The practical reasons for chastity until marriage no longer hold, so it's not worth worrying whether some particular activity causes a woman to no longer be a virgin.