Guys, Guys is this actually true?

SOOO my guy friend's mom got mad at me for wearing a t-shirt because my fucking bra strap was showing. Apparently, it's "distracting" to the boys in our class and "inappropriate. " He and my other guy friends seemed JUST fine. Does this shit actually bother you guys or turn you on? Do guys actually get horny from seeing a girl wearing a tank top/crop top that barely shows any skin? This is baffling to me. Please provide closure!!!
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  • Teenage guys get horny just from having a heartbeat. Add a girl in the same room and many are pitching tents uncontrollably. Add to that a girl that dresses any particularly random way that triggers some kink.. and our penises take over.

    There's nothing more to it than simple human instincts and the need to procreate.

    Your profile says you're only 15, so I assume those boys are around are 15 too. It gets progressively worse for men until they reach their 20s.

    "distracting" is an understatement, and no male is gonna say "Yes, you're distracting me". In fact, no male's gonna say anything to avoid that horniness. Being horny, feels kinda better than not.

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  • Well, as you are learning, guys are incredibly turned on by anything that you as a young woman might show... bra strap, panties peeking out, legs, bare tummies (mid drift), boobs if bra-less, etc.
    Men are tuned to look at women and if we see anything even remotely sexual, we look. The younger men do get more turned on; Older guys like me will take note, but not get all that excited like we did when we were younger. It is in our DNA... we can't help it.
    As you get older, you will learn how to get attention and how much you want depending on how you dress. Your mom knows...

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

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  • Guys aren't normally distracted by bra straps - the things that distract us are what the bra is holding up, not the bra itself.

  • A bra strap is a bra strap. It’s has nothing intrinsically erotic.

    Ever watched Grand Army? Joey del Marco rules.

  • Yes, especially younger guys. Grown men it takes a little more... but seeing a women's under wear in general is sexy to guys. Just like a girl in a Tshirt with no bra gets your attention.

  • A bra strap? Seriously? That mom is bonkers.

  • When she was younger vaues were a little different. And for a girl your age it may have been considered inappropriate. She is just expressing what seems to her to be inappropriate.

  • What you described isn’t ‘distracting’.

    Now, if you have nipple rings connected by a chain that reaches down to your waist, and you walk into the room and backhand me out of my chair and then straddle me, sitting on my chest before ripping your T-shirt off, then unhooking your nipple ring chain and using it to savagely bitch-whip my face until I scream like a little girl...

    Well...

    *THAT* would be a little distracting.

  • You’re gonna get lots of answers and opinions.
    When I was in grade school, I was as horny as any guy and thought about boobs and vaginas and naked women as much as any other guy…….. but no, a bra strap never turned me on. Girls have boobs. I know the boobs are there. Seeing her bra only reminded off what I already knew was there, so it really didn’t matter. And really, you get so used to looking at boobs that seeing a bra strap doesn’t really make a difference.
    That was my experience. Bra strap, no bra strap. Whatever.

    • Thin shirts that revealed nipples or thin pants revealing wedgie or vagina lips might be distracting and turn-on, though.

  • Seeing the bra strap is pretty normal. The thing is thick and tees are not very thick especially if made of cotton. I can understand wanting decency, but that kind of reaction comes from an education from the '20s.
    I'm all for not allowing my daughter to hang around dressed like a harlot, but some freedom of choice must be given.

  • In school that's never been a distraction for me specifically. I can only speak for myself though.

  • Exposed bra strap? Not even close to being turned on or distracted by something as simple as that and never would have been even at school.

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