Guys, my boyfriend can't cum from a blow job. I want him to cum in my mouth, any of you fixed this issue?

looking for tips (no pun intended) of guys who have had issues with cuming in their gf's mouth and have worked past it.

Cuming from blow job not sex.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • In my opinion, almost any guy can cum from a skilled blowjob. The problem is that girls practice trial and error and guys can't describe what works for us. A blow job is not passionate sex. It's nurturing sexual therapy for which a guy has no role except to receive it. Silly porn gimmicks like deep throating or ice cubes/pop rocks in her mouth may be fun diversions but it your purpose is to get him aroused and then get him off, here are a few "tips". A skilled blow uses both hand and mouth play, well applied and properly timed.
    *Don't separate mouth from hand play. The head wants bobbing, tongue swirling and sucking while the shaft wants energetic hand stroking. Do not suck or grip too strongly.
    *Once you start, never stop or slow down. Build steady tension to the finish.
    *When he starts to buck and breathe deep, go frantic. Bob and stroke as quickly as you can. When he shudders, body stiffens, holds his breath, grabs your head, etc, he is ready to ejaculate in your mouth.
    *When he starts to cum, stop bobbing, suck firmly, but not too strongly only, and keep stroking through to the last squirt. If you get really skilled, you can briefly stop stroking for the first 2 or 3 squirts so you can feel him pulsate and his feel of them won't get lost in stroking sensation. Then resume stroking more slowly.
    *Be careful not to scratch or bite with your teeth.
    The above does not sound passionate, but is what he needs when he needs it.

  • Honestly I can't its just not something that turns me on mentally. Feels nice but is just not for me. I lost 2 girlfriends over it.

    My suggestion have your fun getting him hard then ride him to finish him.

    Why do you want him to fun in your mouth so badly?

Most Helpful Girl

  • I've been a time with a boy who never came when I was giving a blowjob and I started to doubt about my skills and felt rather sad.
    Until he said he had never been cumming that way.

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  • Is it that he can't cum or won't?

    • can't, he's said its always been an issue

    • Some guys just have a bit of a case of reluctant orgasm. I'm guessing that a good urologist can help but a lot of us just don't get off to blow jobs, as much as we enjoy them. I do love to fill her mouth with cum as sex ends, however, and after sharing kisses, watch her happily swallow my gift.

  • It's more of a touch kinda thing. So if you are not pleasuring his tree or the pink top he won't cum. But pussy it completely turns and switches every nerve center so if you want to do it. Use your tounge and lips a lot.

  • Use your hand more. Give him a hand job and oral together or go back and forth.

    Why are you wanting him to finish in your mouth? Guys want this often but what is making you want it?

  • I can't either. It just doesn't turn me on like that. It has nothing to do with you.

  • there's 2 aspects of it.

    1. maybe he's just not into it. that can be overcome by not having him nut in a week or two and then trying to blow him off, cause after such a long time he will cum easily.

    2. you may not do it right. there's lots of guides online. maybe ask him what you can do better. i mean i've seen some weird japanese show, where a straight male pornstar (who should be good at controlling himself) was challenged by some gay dude "not to cum" while he gave him a blowjob xD he managed to make him cum... so i think there is some technical aspect to it, that will make a guy cum if he wants it or not.

    • i mean if a guy can be forced to cum by the sex they don't prefer while totally not turned on at all, you should be able to make your boyfriend cum, who clearly is turned on by you ^^

  • What's the problem with him fucking your pussy and then pulling out at the last second and having you swallow him?

  • Strange that he can't unless he is embarrassed
    Most men cum with a bj. Does he have any problem during sex

  • You could fuck until he's just about ready to blow then switch really fast to sucking very hard.

  • Why not get him to fuck you then just before he cums pull out and shove it in your mouth

  • as you suck his shaft in and out stroke him at the same rhythm squeezing a touch harder than you are sucking.

  • If he can't cum from a blowjob then it's not gonna happen

  • keep doing blowjob till he won't cum, stimulate hard his sensitive zones he would blow for sure.

  • Before going to Blowjob
    Make him horny and do Handjob
    Then Slowly do blowjob make some sounds...

  • I have trouble with that as well. I dont know why. Make sure he hasn't cum for 3-4 days before you do it. Maybe ask him to not masturbate. Then it will be a bigger load if he does cum