Guys of any age, have you at anytime noticed any stage of Erectile Dysfunction? Girls have you noticed any ED symptoms in any of your relationships?

Dont be embarrassed or ashamed ! Wont go straight and retain its hardness.
Don't be embarrassed or ashamed ! Won't go straight and retain it's hardness.

Don't be embarrassed or ashamed !


Many men, even younger men suffer from some sort of Erectile Dysfunction symptoms.
Loss of sexual interest, loss of erection during sex/intercourse, not able to continue and penetrate. Feeling of embarrassment, feeling of not being a MAN.
More foreplay... well maybe get erect again with more manual manipulation, BUT... make a move for intercourse, and... OPS you're soft again.

WHAT DOES SHE THINK? You don't want her? She's not sexy enough for you? You don't want to fuck her? What did she do? and more...
NOW YOU ARE BOTH UPSET

WHAT DO YOU DO? WHAT CAN YOU DO? LOOK FOR HELP.
TALK TO EACH OTHER, LET HER KNOW IT'S NOT HER FAULT. IT'S A MEDICAL PROBLEM AND YOU NEED TO TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR.
It's probably going to be very embarrassing talking to someone about your erection problem. It's ERECTILE DYSFUNCTION, and it is very common in most men in usually middle to older ages ( can also be in younger guys).

I am 70 and have suffered from this problem since I was about 40-50. it wan't always a major problem, but gave a good reason for her to give a hand job to get it back up. LOL

Then I finally had the nerve to talk to my Doctor. He suggest I try Viagra. Well I was able to get hard again, as long as there was an sexual excitement, but after a year of so, I went back to the Doctor. Told him is was doing OK, but not as I wanted. Ran some tests and found I had extremely low Testosterone levels He prescribed testosterone treatment, a gel that I applied once a day to my shoulders. After a month or so I noticed more of an interest and ability to get an erection and maintain for awhile. Great to get back to some good sex,, But if you take it too early and you have to wait for sex, then it might fade.
This is my action, and shes not happy either. Feeling of embarrassment, not able to preform.
This is my action, and she's not happy either. Feeling of embarrassment, not able to preform.
They are so sad, not getting any action.
They are so sad, not getting any action.
Do you have this problem?
Do you have this problem?
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I even tried an EDDIE, a device that goes down over the penis, down to the base when you have an erection. It is to hold the blood in the penis from returning to the body, keeping the penis hard and erect. But that is a problem, stopping the foreplay action in order to put on the Eddie, but it did seem to work.
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Still not satisfied, I asked my Dr for a referral to a Urologist, specializing in ED problems. “SHE” gave 2 options, a surgery to make a penile implant, or Penis injections to increase the blood flow in the penis, increasing the section and hardness. Well as much as I don’t like needles, I also didn’t like the idea of a long implant into my penis. I chose the penis injections, that I inject into the side of my penis before sexual activity, then my penis is erect and hard for about 1-2.5 hrs.
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  • Not really; there've been times when it was a little slow off the mark, but it's always got there eventually. I'd think of it like waking up: your alarm clock will get you up, and fast, but it's unpleasant compared to waking up slowly and naturally.

    So, have her sit on your lap and start smooching, slowly building in intensity and adding in a little groping (don't forget to have her touch you, too; this is supposed to be fun, remember). Then have her take your hand and guide it in to start some fingering as you move to full-on making out. Seeing and hearing that hitch in her breath as you hit the right spot in just the right way is great, but *feeling* it is even better. With luck, your penis will get hhe message; this way it's less "banging on its door and screaming at it to get to work" and more "ringing the bell and asking it to come out and play". And if it doesn't work, at least you can still have that close sexual connection.

    It's obviously a stopgap measure, and won't solve a serious medical problem, but it's a lot more fun than just moping about it.

  • I am not as robust as I used to be in my 20s. I used to be able to have sex for hours. Now I am lucky to get my guy to come back for a repeat performance. My wife does not have the same capacity either so I guess it all works out.

    • Thanks for the MHO😎

Most Helpful Girls

  • It happens a lot, and to guys of all ages. There are many factors, and one of them is porn. Do some research and don't go to doctors who are looking to make a buck.

    • Thanks for the MHO

  • older guys are slower to cum and slower to cum again is all i notice sometimes

    • I would think that would be a good thing?

    • @rachel776 @josephinelcajon This is a yes or a no, of course, depending on the situation.

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  • Dude, are you selling Viagra? Trying to get some sales on “Momma’s Day”.

  • You know I'm not sure.
    I used to have this one lady who was a good friend and we were of the gold standard on benefits.
    Not all the time but once in a while.
    As the friendship started fading... the booty calls would be her basically coming in, getting buzzed on whatever cheap alcohol she was consuming that night and her just pulling down her pants and expected me to perform like a trained monkey.
    When I was a 19 year old Sailor in Port somewhere, that's was sufficient to rise to the occasion.
    Not that I'm old... uh... older, I find that I want foreplay and to be teased.. make it interesting.
    So I don't know if that ED or just a lack of interest. I guess guys like to be romanced too.
    So.. whatever.
    I know I do just fine without Mr. Blue pill...

  • None I certainly do not get hard as I did as a teen, but it works and feels good!

  • I think talking it over with the girl is the best thing to do, make a decision on what to do

  • I thought I was. Doctors claimed I had a prostate issues.

    What it turned out to be was a over dose of Caffeine.

    I was drinking large amounts of tea, and coffee.

    The caffeine super enlarged my prostate and testicles.

    I quit drinking 90% of my caffeine intake and my problems slowly went away

  • Luckily Not

  • Eat watermelon the day before.
    Viagra gives me a headache.
    Watermelon does just enough.
    I broke my back in the military.
    I'm almost back to normal, I just can't run and ED is an occasional issue.
    Giving oral and making my wife squirt take up most of our sex life.
    We've found our equilibrium.

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    • YESH!

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  • On very few occasions it’s happened to me. My first time ever, my first time with a new girlfriend in college, and 2-3 other random times. It’s either been performance anxiety or other stress related issues. In total it’s been less than 10 times over the last… 20 years!

  • That can happen to anybody just because they’re nervous at any given time

  • not at all never.

  • Nope

  • I just love with it and self pleasure myself

  • not really, just a slowing down of sex drive a little bit after 30

  • Yeah it started for me by 30

    • And your life adjustment?

    • Yeah I can get hard enough to masturbate but not penetrate

    • Have you or would you consider looking into any possible solutions that might adjust your sexual life? What's your age? PM if you wish.

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