Guys or girls, have you ever dealt with a vagina that was too tight to enter?

You could not enter anything into the vagina because it was so closed. What happened? How did you resolve it?
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  • If you’ve experienced pain or discomfort during penetration, you may be concerned your vagina is too small or too tight for sex. The truth is, it’s not. With rare exceptions, almost no vagina is too tight for intercourse. Sometimes, however, you have to help prepare a bit more for penetration. In its unaroused state, the vagina is three to four inches long. That might not seem long enough for some penises or sex toys. But when you’re aroused, your vagina grows longer and wider. It also releases a natural lubricant. If you experience pain or difficulty with penetration, it may be a sign you weren’t adequately aroused, not that you’re too tight. Additionally, pain during penetration may be a sign of a condition such as infection, injury, or congenital abnormality. If your vagina is too tight, your pelvic floor physical therapist will work with you to loosen up the muscles via various methods. These usually include pelvic floor stretches (which you can also do at home), trigger point therapy and use of vaginal dilators. I hope I answered your question. Feel free to ask if you have any questions or queries.

    • Thank you so much for your informative answer! I appreciate it!

    • You're most welcome. ☺️

  • I had that experience with a girlfriend once, and even though we'd done just about everything else as foreplay it did seem she was very anxious about having penis-vagina sex for the first time

    So I was patient & waited till she was ready --- for 3 or 4 weeks we just brought each other to orgasm in 'foreplay', orally or by sensual massage

    Then one day (evening actually) whilst I was pleasuring her orally she said "I think I'm ready" and penetration, whilst I took it carefully & slowly, inch by inch, was natural & normal, and it felt very special !

    I don't know of course if sub-conscious anxiety is the issue causing the problem for you but it would be sensible for you to talk it through with a sexual counselor or, if you prefer, a doctor

    • Thank you! I definitely will!

    • Thank you @cherryblossomxd for the MHO 🌹

Most Helpful Girl

  • See your gynecologist! Sorry but he or she is going to be able to give you real advice and determine if the problem is mental, or actually physical. Good luck!

    • Thanks! I've been meaning to, but can't visit one just yet.

    • Why not?

    • Health insurance is pain in the neck rn lol

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  • Never one that was "Too tight"... But a few that were tighter then others and needed some wetness to make it happen. As long as you turn her on, use lube if necessary, and are rock hard... I've never seen or heard of one that was so tight you couldnt penetrate it.

  • They stretch. Relaxing massage and start small a pinky finger a pencil. If its to small for that you either have a medical condition or should be arrested cause she is way too young.

    • I like all the possibilities you have listed! But I think I might have a medical condition.

    • Do you know what a hymen is? has it been broken yet?

    • Its not a hymen thing. I put stuff into my vagina before in the past, I tried to stretch out many times but it always stings. My boyfriend tried too a few times, always hurts me.

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  • There are answers to why your vagina is in it's natural state. What must be deducted is whether your sexually active or not. And if so are they still virgins. Also do they masturbate and stimulate themselves. Stress, pressure, extenuating circumstances or even a medical condition can be a reason or reasons why they are tight. If you are not the person inflicted with this condition your partner can deduct what it could be depending on your integrity maturity and responsibility to assess the final cause. With that you can accept and attempt to alter, correct ir eliminate the underlying condition.

    • Thanks!

  • Yes, that’s happened a lot. Usually the girl gives me a handjob instead

  • Yes. The only solution was lube. You may want to discuss this issue with your doctor.

  • only when we were kids and the neighbor girl and I tried to do it, neither of us could figure it out! But one day!!!

  • Yes just gotta ease it in slow it'll fit 😂

  • Nope, never!

  • Yes actually - lube definitely helps, sometimes a lot of spit or saliva if you need to improvise - otherwise a lot of slow and kinda painful finagling will work but definitely requires some slow careful work.

    I had one partner I couldn't "enter" without a VERY lubed condom but only one.

    I've heard it might be easier with uncircumcised guys because they "move with you" but I can't really comment on that.

  • Yes, you've just got to slowly work it open one finger at a time. Lots of lube LoL

  • Well I’m a 14 year old lol sooo immma gooo

    • Haha, you can stay

    • @1amcurious ew let her go. You pedo

    • I am not forcing her to stay lol and not a pedo

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  • If the vagina is closed, rather than tight, it could be a condition called vaginismus,

  • I used my tongue on her pussy and clit then fingered her and then slide penis in her gradually until she is relaxed and it feel so hot

  • Yeah, it just takes time, patience and lube. Need to make sure she is relaxed also so maybe start with a glass of wine and a back rub

    • Interesting take!

  • I would start as I always do with oral sex. Giving a girl oral may help to loosen it and her up. If she is tense it may play a part too so relaxing her and getting her more in the mood might help. Plus, it would not hurt lol ;)

    • Are you really that tight?

    • Yes dude

  • Never had that situation.

  • Yes. Being very large, entry is often an issue. In a few cases it was just too painful so we gave up and did other things.

  • Yes I have.

    • Care to explain?

    • We were horny and I took her pants off. Then her panties pulled her towards me. Grabbed my shaft and ran it between her lips. Went to put it in I couldn't get it past the head

    • Thanks!

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  • does that really happen. As long as you have good for play. I have never had the issue. But I guess if a girl has her hymen in tact then it would be.

  • I think you might mean a vagina that is dry and not well lubed so its difficult for a guy to slide his penis inside.

    If that is the case the couple sure engage in more foreplay. The guy should give more oral to get her natural lubrication flowing.

    Plus the guy should put some Vaseline on his penis. That should make penetration much easy and enjoyable

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